K.P. asks from Bothell, WA on March 19, 2010
Cat Spraying
I'm a fairly stressed out mom in need of advice. I have a cat who recently came back to live with us. He dissapeared quite awhile back, we searched for him..no luck, and just recently found him. Well maybe he didn't want to be found! He is now spraying all over our house. Mainly in the family room on the kids toys and equipment. I have two young girls, 9mos and 2.5 yrs, so I need this to change immediately.
The cat is about 4 years old, neutered, male. He is a sweet loving cat but the spraying is cuausing much stress in our house. He clearly is not happy and we need to find him a new home. But who is going to adopt a cat that sprays? I have cleaned up all the spray areas extensively with Nature's Miracle. I also have not let him outside, as he was previously an indoor/outdoor cat - in hopes this would make him happier. No such luck, I just found out he sprayed my little girl's kitchen. I am taking him to the vet tomorrow to check for a urinary tract infection, but doubt that is the problem based on the pattern and way he is spraying. I've had a cat with urinary tract infection previously. I will also be talking to the vet about Kitty Prozac, but have no experience with it. I feel bad about drugging him, but cannot have a cat pee all over my house where my 9 month old is crawling.
And we have set up mutliple litter boxes in multiple locations..and that hasn't helped. We clean the litter boxes daily. Please, do not flame me about not being a good pet owner or committed. I have had cats all my life and spent much time and effort on my pets. But having 2 very young kids and a cat that clearly doesn't like them is a different issue. I spend all day taking care of my girls insuring their happiness and well being, and all night cleaning up cat pee. This is not working anymore. I also really do not have time for this - I can barely do my laundry let alone spend weeks or months working on cat behavior.
Any suggestion for a organization or shelter that will take a cat like this? I know its tough to find them a safe home.
Thanks!
So What Happened?™
Thanks for all the great advice and support. It just got to be too much, as I was cleaning cat pee every night after my girls went to bed. He literally was spraying the kids areas and toys. Clearly, a message he didn't like the kids. So we found him another non-kid home. I think he'll be much happier there and I'm definitely happier to be done cleaning cat pee!
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C.A. answers from Seattle on March 22, 2010
If cat really needs new home, you could put notices up at barns and feed stores. There are a lot of people who want a cat to keep the mice away from the grain for the livestock! :)
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T.B. answers from Chicago on March 19, 2010
I have been exactly where you are. I lived in Africa an brought my cat home with me when I came back. A few years afterward, she started peeing all over the house. I was so angry! I did all the things you mention, but it didn't get better. We moved, and ended up having to put hardwood floors in our living room because she had chosen that room to pee in. Nothing is worse than cat pee, as you know! We had already tried anti-anixiety meds like amitriptyline and buspar with no success (they both made things worse because she was totally out of it).
Well, just before my son was born 2.5 years ago, things got REALLY bad. I was ready to make a very hard decision. Luckily, our vet was on top of things, did a urine culture on her, then also did an ultrasound on her bladder. Turns out she had bladder stones. Supposedly there are two kinds- one kind responds to medication, the other requires surgery. The doctor felt surgery was needed. We were very fortunate to have pet insurance at that time which covered most of the surgery. (We later found out the stones would have responded to medication), but after the surgery, we put her on Hills c/d canned (now on Royal Canin SO because it's cheaper), and have not had any more issues. IF we start to notice an issue, we call our vet, get sub-q fluids and give them to her twice a day under her skin to help flush out her bladder. That has taken care of things for the past almost 3 years (knock on wood!).
I totally understand your frustration. There were many times I would have shipped her back to Africa in a minute! I hope your vet is a good one who knows a bit about these types of issues in cats. We tried EVERYTHING to make it better, and this is what worked for us. I hope it might work for you too, or that you find something that does.
Good luck
T.
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E.W. answers from Portland on March 20, 2010
I am a cat person too. But spraying is a big pet peeve of mine, I can't stand it. I would make him an outside cat. Just make sure to put food and water out the same time every day and he will probably stick around. If there is no urinary tract infection, he is probably just trying to punish you for not letting him outside. I had a cat who went into heat before I could get her spayed. I wouldn't let her outside. She started peeing around the house. She even went as far as to pee in my laundry basket when I was right there doing the laundry! She stopped as soon as I let her go back outside again. And she would still come inside when she wanted to. Now one of my cats is strickly an outdoor cat because she refused to use the litter box because the other cats were using it. I put out food every morning and she will be there waiting to be fed and loved. She would rather be outside than inside.
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L.S. answers from Portland on March 21, 2010
Try the West Linn Shelter in Old Willamette -It is a cats paradise! I'd get rid of it;-( It's hard enough to have two kids. Hope you figure it out soon
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C.A. answers from Seattle on March 22, 2010
If cat really needs new home, you could put notices up at barns and feed stores. There are a lot of people who want a cat to keep the mice away from the grain for the livestock! :)
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H.O. answers from Anchorage on March 20, 2010
Start by confinig the cat to one room. (Perhaps even a crate when you are not supervising him). If he is fixed he can still be territorial. Keep the kitty litter near and in the room you confine him too when he is there. (That will reduce at least where you need to clean up. Bring him out of the room to socialize him, but put him back if you catch him spraying. Cats can learn and its not a wanted to type thing. Territory is territory. He probably was on his own when he was gone from you. That or he lived with other outdoor cats and they do spray..fixed or not. Expand his space slowly..as the spraying reduces. Only let your children be around him supervised for awhile. Teach them about "gentle touch, and also that the cat doesn't always want to be touched. (Some are just not that affectionate with anyone but some just have favorites. ) Perhaps its just a jealousy issue with you. SO, I would confine it to a room, let it out sporadically but routinely to another room, and don't let it out of that room..etc. Only let it into the rooms you want it in (should be able to move through on its own. First the laundryroom/hallway..then the laundry,hall,bath..whatever (or however..first and foremost go with the least furnishings in the room as possible, or the easiest to clean places.) When you see him do it..make a loud noise..it can startle them enough to make them stop. Tisk tisk and naughty kitty him the whole way back..you tell him that's "MINE"..and he can't have it. The kids can do it too..you might also get him a kitty tree and some of his own stuff to have around the kids' things. They do play. Those laser pointers make great kitty toys and the kids can play with them with the kitty without touching the kitty. (Which seems to be important for some reason). My guess is kitty is having "mine" issues after being gone from his home for awhile he forgot they live there perhaps and doesn't remember them as members of the household. Give it a little time if you can. You took him back in so you must care about him..and like you said he's not going to get a home if you have to tell people he sprays everyone. Start with smaller spaces..definitely crate him at night. Feed him up on things where the kids can't reach. (Washing machine for instance is a good height for kitties if they can jump to it) You do have to have patience and take time, but if you can put him in a room and close the door, at least the mess is contained and he can earn his way amongst the family again. I call it "acceptance via omission". Our dog is sort of aggressive towards others, but he behaves himself much better if the first few times the new person is over if he is confined and doesn't get to see or meet them. By the third or fourth time he's begging to be good.) Now, with cats, they don't care about good or bad but they do want to be accepted. SO, you have to show them acceptable in some way..and that's probably the easiest way..just keep him in one room for awhile. Move him into the house gradually and he might get used to it. Also, give him things that are definitely his so that he can have his stuff too. Some cats like their stuff!
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A.C. answers from Seattle on March 20, 2010
Definatley check with the vet!! How long was he gone? I think cats can go wild (feral). If you want to keep him, he might just have to be an outdoor cat. If you provide him water and food outside he might stick around. He has had a taste of the outside world and trying to keep him in is probably making him crazy.
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R.W. answers from San Francisco on March 19, 2010
I would keep him outside until you can find a home. I hope the vet has some good ideas...
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S.R. answers from San Francisco on March 20, 2010
We have an outdoor cat that will always be an outdoor cat. My husband was trying to let him come in the house but he sprayed on our couch. We tried everything we could to get rid of the smell including using a turkey basting needle to get the solutions into the foam padding. Nothing worked. The couch set is now at the dumps, we only had it about 6 years and could have had it a lot longer if it wasn't for the darn cat. $1600 wasted. We still have the cat but he is not allowed in the house no matter how good he tries to be. I refuse. I don't want my kids exposed to it if he does it again and I don't want anymore furniture ruined if he does it again. You might consider keeping him outside. On cold nights my husband lets him in the garage, he has sprayed in there too. I did not help find/clean the mess. It took him a few hours to clean it out and get rid of the smell. Lost a back pack in the process. The cat hasn't sprayed in the garage in a long time so he's allowed there when it's cold otherwise he is strickly an outdoor cat.
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