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I am at my absolute wits end with one of my cats. My male cat, which is neutered, does not know what a litter box is anymore. He is an adult, with all of his claws and we adopted him from my husbands ex, whom had problems with him too but did not tell us what type of problems. We have two cats; one female and one male. The female has been here the longest and there were troubles with territory until we put in a second litter box and now she goes in both but the male cat we noticed is going but only when it is clean clean. We do change the litter every week and scoop it every day and he continues to pee and poop on our floors which are either tile or carpet; he has also began doing his thing on furniture! The issue is we think this is behavioral or a internal problem because when he does poop it is very green, mushy or liquidly with blood. We plan on taking him to a vet to get checked out but are getting very upset because as much as we love this cat he is becoming a problem. We don't want to be heartless and cruel by just letting him go or dropping him off at a shelter because of this problem and as of right now he is going outside but he does not like it, very prissy, and will scratch until you let him back in. I am at a loss and don't want to be inhumane yet I cannot take much more of this! I would like to find a good home for him but if I can't will a shelter take him?

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Thank you ladies for the responses. I took him into Humane Society for an examination and to see if they could help, they could not. However, they found a lump on him that concerns them and because they do not have the technology I am to take him to a real vet. Unfortunately I cannot afford it and really need to just find someone who wants a cat that will be more attentive than what I can for this one. There are alot more factors in this whole situation, 1) new furniture 2) personal. If any of you know of someone that is wanting a cat and would take the time to get him looked at by a vet, get his vaccinations etc. fix a behavioral issue, if there is one, please let me know. I really hate doing this as I do care but right now is just not a good time for this to be happening and I know that there has to be someone who would take a cat like this.

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Have you done any research online? There is a site called KittyBytes.com that might offer some links that might help or maybe you could contact a local vetenerian. Hope you find some help. I think the humane society accepts cats of any age.

Have you had him neutered? Spraying is pretty typical for an un-neutered make cat. Usually it takes care of the issue.

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If you're willing to try a few more things, I think the primary action is to find ALL the pee spots and treat them deeply with an enzyme product designed especially to "eat" away the remnants of urine. You do that by getting a blacklight bulb and putting it in a portable lamp, turning off all the lights, and walking around the house looking for pee, which (for reasons that are beyond me) glows in the dark. Then you DOUSE the area a good enzyme product and LEAVE it. If this is carpet, you may have to pull the carpet back to douse the underfloor and the pad. It's a lot of work, but your cats may be responding to old pee, and if you don't eliminate it, future cats are likely to do the same thing.

Here are some other ideas that I found on the web, and I've heard of some of them before (like putting the litter box at the spot where they are peeing, and then slowly moving it toward where you want the box to be, and making sure that their food dishes are not near the litter, as they don't like to eat and pee in the same general location).

Good luck. It's heart-breaking to give away an animal you otherwise love, but cannot live with. Most of us have had to at one point or another. In this situation, it's particularly difficult, because a cat with this habit will likely end up at the pound over and over, with an eventual untimely demise. I hope one of these ideas helps break your kitty of the habit so that you aren't put in that position.

Good luck!

by Monica Webb, Forum Moderator - DoItYourself.com/pets
Q. My cat refuses to use the litter box anymore. Any ideas why and how can I get her to use it again?

Here are a few suggestions to your litter box problems:

Provide a box for each cat

Change litter daily

Provide constant access to a box

Go back to previously used brand of litter and/or

Discontinue new disinfectant

Move box to where it was previously used

Eliminate new or frightening noise near litter box

Move food and water away from litter box

If cat is only going in one spot, put the litter box at the exact location and gradually move it back to where you want it at the rate of one foot per day

If there are several places, try putting dishes of cat food in those areas to discourage further elimination there

Experiment with different textures of litter (cats prefer S. litter)

Use a covered litter box for cats that stand in box but eliminate outside of it

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We had this exact same issue with our cat. He would go on the rug right next to the litter box, in our towel laundry basket and on our bed. This was out of the ordinary for him so we took him to the vet. He ended up having a urinary tract infection. Since I had waited so long to take him to the vet, we had to give him two rounds of medication. He recently started doing the same thing again, so I immediately took him to the vet. We only had to do one round of medicine this time and I switched his food.

If his poop has blood in it then it sounds like an internal issue that needs to be checked out right away. It sounds like maybe he can't hold it until he gets to the box. I would take him to the vet and see what they have to say but blood in their poop means there is something very wrong. I would get that part checked out first because that may be his problem. Keep me updated! I'm a huge animal lover and have 5 cats of my own.

I have a question for you is your cat fixed? If not you might want to get him fixed. It sounds to me like he's doing it to mark his territory. You might want to call your vet and talk to them about the problem. Also, if you catch him in the act you might want to rub his face in it and than take him to the litter box and put him in it. I know it sounds cruel but he needs to know that you are the alpha cat and that he needs to go to the bathroom where you tell him to. An adoption agency or humane society should take him irregardless of his age. But I think you should try other things first that I've suggested before you go that for. Hope this helps.

First, is he fixed? He may just be marking his territory. Next, take him to the vet, it could be a simple medical problem. If not, the vet office could recomend some behavior modifications you could try. Lastly, If you don't want to keep the cat, find him a good home. Please do not just dump him. Pets are members of your family, treat them like it.

Hi.
We to had this problem with our male cat. He was pooping everywhere except his litter box. We took him to the vet and he was diagnosed with colitis. After some meds he is now compliant with his litter box. Not sure if your cat is having any issues but you might want to try your vet first to see if they can help.
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Have you taken him to the vet? I have a cat that did the same thing and the vet found crystals in the urine which made it impossible for the cat to make it to the litter box in time. If this is not the problem- still take him to your vet and discuss the problem and find out what his opinion would be of what to do with him. No one else is going to want the problem either if you put him up for adoption. Good luck! I know how frustrating this can be be.

Sorry to hear about your problem. I to had a cat that did the same thing. I had to put her down. I tried multiple cat boxes, cleaning them daily and putting her out more often. We even tried to confine her to a smaller area but she would poop or pee next to the box or on anything she could find. I tried to find her a home but who wants a cat that pee's and poops in the house. I had to put her down. I still feel so guilty about it but I have two small children and she was destroying my house and everything in it. Please have your vet make sure that your cat doesn't have a UTI. Then if nothing is wrong you can try crating it like you would a dog. I wish you the best.

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