Hi Gina - Congrats on your twin boys! I have 3 year old twin boys, and will tell you there is never a dull moment!
One of my boys had a hemangioma on his forehead. It was not raised, but defintely not beautiful either! We were also told that it would go away by the time he was 2 - it did not. We took him to Dr Jay Burns scar revision (from other NICU scars) and he recommended that we go ahead and laser it. He would like for us to do it one more time, but it is hardly noticeable now, so we may just leave it alone.
I'm not sure about your insurance, but we were told that most carriers pay for children to have these malformations removed while they are small - the older they get it becomes
cosmetic, so definetly check with your insurance. Our insurance did cover 100%.