Welllllll S.- we had some friends that decided to only have one child after she had such a horrible preg. with her daughter. Her husband had a vasectomy - 18 YEARS later she started having all signs of being preg- her daughter was about to grad. from high school with honors so they were planning a big party for her. She thought it was all in her head thinking "Its been 18 years- no birth control- no babies- NO WAY!!!" She threw up the morning of graduation- was nauseated all morning. She thought since she was LATE that maybe it was the change of life coming on----coming up with all excuses. Well the sickness continued in to the afternoon so while picking up the grad. cake for the party at the store she decided to get a preg. test--- took it while getting ready for the big party- the following day she went to the doctor and sure enough ---she was a mess. All kinds of things were going thru her head.... She told her husband- he was quite shocked and angry thinking that SHE had been unfaithful- because there was NO WAY since he had been fixed...luckily for them they had a wonderful marriage- very strong- they talked to their doctor again and the only way to tell if he was- take the test he had never taken to see if their was any swimmers still around. He took the test and sure enough LOTS of little swimmers! They had a beautiful little girl 7 months later- an absolute clone of their now 19 year old daughter. THAT baby girl was an angel in disquise- less than a year later he had a massive heart attack and passed away. They weren't ready for another baby after their first daughter- but God gave them a special gift- someone to be with her now that her daughter was grown and away in college- and her husband gone to forever. She was a true BLESSING. So you see God has a plan for all of us- if you are- it was meant to be. Good luck with what ever happens and remember He is always with you no matter what. L.