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When Should I Call the Doctor? - Rush City,MN

My 6 month old son is sick. It came on suddenly today, and we aren't quite sure who gave it to him (We have it narrowed down to 2 toddlers he has recently been around).

Anyways, he is really congested (You can hear it when he breathes). He has been coughing all day. His appetite is horrible (He normally takes 7oz every 3 hours. Today he had 3oz at 10, 4oz at 4, 4 oz at 8, and 5oz at 11). His temp is 99.2. He is more irritable than normal, and has pretty much been sleeping a majority of the day.

He is my only child and this is the first time he has been sick, so I'm sort of a wreck right now. My mom keeps telling me that I should just wait it out till morning and if he is still like this then I can call the doctor.

I'm just not sure what to do. I don't want to call the nurse hot line because around here they have a reputation of telling you to go in to the ER for everything (They run off a script... And every time I have gone into the ER because they told me to (3x), the doctor rolled his/her eyes because there was absolutely no reason for me to be there).

Should I just wait it out till morning? Call the nurse hot line and risk them having me bring him in for nothing?

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So What Happened?™

So at around 4am he got a temp of 101. I called the nurse hot line and they told me to wait till the clinic opened and make a same day appointment. Doctor said everything was fine and to keep an eye on his breathing.

Now the question is... Will I get sleep tonight?

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I've been through this many times with my own son (he's now 4). The most important thing right now is to count his respiraiton per minute, especially if he has been coughing a lot, if you are thinking you need to take him in. If he is breathing rapidly, it means he is having a hard time breathing. Rapid breathe also comes from high fevers but it doesn't sound lik ehe has a high fever. 99.2 is not a fever. I learned about counting breathes after calling my own ped in the middle of the night. Google 'Pediatric Respiratory Rates' or go by this: Infant up to 1 year 30-60 breaths per minute. Anything higher than 60 breathes per min. and take him in ASAP.

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My general rule is the fever....if it's high then we go to ER, if not, then we wait till the doctor.

He's sleeping to fight off whatever he has, that's good. Unless his fever spikes, I'd wait till tomorrow.

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His fever is not high, he's eating (smaller amts, but still eating), and he is sleeping. As long as he is not lethargic, the fever doesn't get ridiculously high, he completely stops eating, or starts with some other more severe symptoms....I would wait until morning to take him in to be seen. It is most likely a virus that has to run its course. You should ALWAYS be able to reach a Dr. from your pediatrician's office on call and they are used to calls in the middle of the night from worried 1st time mommies, if you feel you need some medical reassurance. I've never heard of a nurse hotline that tells people to go to the ER for minor issues.....sounds strange and ridiculous of them.....That's why I would call the dr. who is on call for any future worries, but this seems quite normal for a cold or other similar virus......Take care.

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I would wait to bring him in. His fever isn't that high and odds are this might not even be something he caught from another child.

Here is a good list of guidelines of when to call the Dr:
http://www.babycenter.com/0_fever_84.bc

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I've been through this many times with my own son (he's now 4). The most important thing right now is to count his respiraiton per minute, especially if he has been coughing a lot, if you are thinking you need to take him in. If he is breathing rapidly, it means he is having a hard time breathing. Rapid breathe also comes from high fevers but it doesn't sound lik ehe has a high fever. 99.2 is not a fever. I learned about counting breathes after calling my own ped in the middle of the night. Google 'Pediatric Respiratory Rates' or go by this: Infant up to 1 year 30-60 breaths per minute. Anything higher than 60 breathes per min. and take him in ASAP.

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My general rule is the fever....if it's high then we go to ER, if not, then we wait till the doctor.

He's sleeping to fight off whatever he has, that's good. Unless his fever spikes, I'd wait till tomorrow.

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I agree with your Mom on this one, I'd wait until morning. He doesn't have a high fever and if he doesn't feel well a poor appetite is normal. If you have a humidifier put that in his room, if not you can go in the bathroom with him with the door closed and hot shower on for the steam to help a bit with congestion. Good luck, it's no fun when our little ones are sick. :(

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It sounds like he may just have a cold. Wait it out, you probably don't even need to take him to the dr. I know when it's your first baby it can be very scary! Been there! But with colds the dr will tell you to put a cool mist humidfier in his room, use baby saline solution to spray in his nose before suctioning it, elevate the part of the mattress where his head sleeps. When they lay flat the congestion will get worse and they will wake up more so you can put a quilt under one side of his mattress to elevate it or if he enjoys sleeping in a boucer chair or swing try that while he is congested. You can buy baby vapor rub by vicks and put on his chest and back. If he has a cough you can put on the soles of his feet and put cotton socks on him during the night. This will help him sleep peacefully. If he starts running fever call your dr and see how much motrin and tylenol you should give him. Honestly at his age they will not do much for a cold. I can't tell you how many times I took my son in to the dr due to a cold and they just told me to do these things and sent me on my way. He isn't eating much bc of the congestion but it's ok. He won't starve himself, I promise! As soon as he gets better he will be back to normal. Don't stress too much!

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The fever isnt high, I wouldnt go to the ER. I would give him some baby advil. (Tylenol is now believed to be connected to asthma in babies) Make sure you dont overdress him (I once believed in bundling the feverish baby, thanks to my mom, oops- not good) Also, elevate the crib mattress a but, it helps with congestion, and also with oxygen saturation if he's having trouble breathing.
All moms get anxious with a sick baby, be it your first, or 3rd... Its scary, because they are so small & fragile.
If the Doctor is rolling his eyes, I say whatever, new moms always go in with minor illnesses etc, because how are you supposed to know its not something more?? If YOU think or feel you want him checked, you should just go.

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As long as he is breathing fine and does not have a high fever, you can wait till the morning. Anytime they are congested (especially when you can hear it) I would get it checked out. My baby picked up RSV from my son (we did not know he had RSV, they don't test for it when you are older). She got very sick and ended up in the hospital.

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