What to Do During the Day?

Updated on September 21, 2006
D.D. asks from Davenport, FL
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I've just got my third child off to kindergarten and just have my 3 year old at home and to be quite honest, it seems harder work just having one at home than it did having all of them. I'm quickly running out of ideas as to what to do with him all day and I don't want him to have too much TV but swimming every day and playing with toys every day is getting a little tedious for both of us. Any ideas that don't cost too much would be greatly appreciated.

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WOW, I was amazed at just how many responses I received to this request. A big thank you to all of you who took the time to respond, I've certainly got more than enough for me and my little boy to do now and even on the weekends when all the kids are at home.
Thanks again to everyone
Regards
D.

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N.G.

answers from Orlando on

Hi D.!
I have a 3 yr old and a 20 mo old and am also new to Orlando. I've been a stay at home mom for the 3.5 yrs my son has been alive. A huge help to me has been joining local moms groups. I am a part of 3. One that you could join is the Sunshine Group -- here is a link to it... They have events all over and it helps to make friends and get out of the house with other moms... Hope that helps! N. G. ____@____.com
http://sahm.meetup.com/621/

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T.H.

answers from Jacksonville on

Use the web to find ideas that you both would enjoy, then set up a schedule of activities, chores, errands, etc. Not only will it keep things moving through out the day, but it will also make you get up and do things too. Best of luck to you.

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B.P.

answers from Orlando on

Okay, maybe you were just looking for activities at home, in which case I recommend the kid-friendly games and music videos on Noggin.com and NickJr.com. But if you're looking for adventures out and about--ohhhh, boy, can you have a lot of fun for free in this area! This is going to be a long one! In addition to lots of great libraries, bookstores, playgrounds, state parks, and malls (check out the Playmobil shop at the Florida Mall!), you can also spend lots of free playtime at...guess where? Disney!

No, I don't mean the parks or the waterparks, so don't get too excited, sorry. But Downtown Disney (aka Disney Village Marketplace) is a dining/shopping/entertainment area that has no admission price. My daughter and I have spent countless hours in the "Once Upon A Toy" store, just playing with Mr. PotatoHeads (with Disney-exclusive pieces) or My Little Pony's. It's one of her favorite things to do. (By the way, if lunch time comes up, definitely go for Earl of Sandwich, just across from that store--the sandwiches are extraordinary, with prices comparable to Panera, believe it or not!) Also next to that store is a large interactive fountain. Okay, let's call it the "poor man's waterpark"--but you see lots of families on vacation, bringing their kids in swimsuits from the hotels, just to play in that spot. It's irresistable. Why let them have all the fun? There's also a baby-sized interactive fountain, near the Art of Disney Store and Rainforest Cafe. (For another great interactive fountain, just off-property but possibly closer to Davenport, check out the Town of Celebration near Hwy 192). In between, you can find a train ride and a carrousel. They do cost a couple of bucks each, but it's more affordable than a park ticket, and your child will totally adore you for it.

Down a few steps from the Rainforest Cafe is the dock for the resort shuttle boats. These are open-air boats, also totally free, with friendly captains who can tell you all kinds of amazing facts about everything you see from the waterway. (Just a warning, though--get a potty break first! The ride is long and you might have to wait a while for the next boat). Just tell the captain you're heading to Port Orleans, and you can stop in at the food court there for hot fresh-cooked beignets (powdered-sugar-covered puffy donutlike things--yum) and a cafe au lait. Just a warning, though--it's hard to get kids past the lively cartoon-crocodile statues and fountains as you pass the swimming pool ( and no, please don't bring your swimsuits and try to go swimming there--they don't like that--resort guests only--have a little pride! : ) )

--Okay, but back to more free stuff ; ) --on the other side of the Marketplace you'll find the Lego Imagination Center. Oh boy, watch out! Lots of stuff to play with, INCREDIBLE Lego sculptures and window displays, plus a really fun slide (gets crowded, though). And the soap/candle shop near Ghirardelli and World of Disney has always been fun to...well..sniff around. That's another one I can never get my daughter to leave!

Aside from that, it's fun to explore many of the other resort (hotel) areas, such as the Boardwalk and Disney's Animal Kingdom Lodge, if you can find a good excuse to go in. It's hard to count on sometimes, though; the security guards won't always let you in without a reason (dining and such), especially in busy holiday seasons.

Slightly more accessible, though, is the Fort Wilderness campground, where you'll find hiking trails (lots of deer and armadillos), bike & boat rentals, the trolley horse barn, pony rides (for a few bucks--not sure of the age limit, though), resort shuttle boats again (some going past Magic Kingdom, where you could certainly hop off and cruise on the monorail around the lagoon and over Epcot without ever going through the park gates!), and, at night, free outdoor movies and campfire sing-along with Chip and Dale. Bring your mosquito repellent and s'more materials (or buy a s'more kit there).

Now, I pray that I haven't made a mistake in spilling my secrets; because, uderstandably, Disney doesn't exactly publicize all these resort boats and campground activities, except to the resort and campground guests. Unlike the big parks, these are quiet areas that are not meant or equipped to accommodate mobs of locals that just want to drop by; So if anyone reading this just happens to be the sort of person who looks for someone to scream at every time things don't go as planned, please don't bother attempting these adventures. You'll probably get the response that they're "not for the general public" and get the doors closed to the rest of us. If, however, you can be friendly, appreciative, subtle, and respectful toward the cast members and the guests who are paying big bucks to stay there, you will find that everyone is very kind and welcoming right back to you. Fort Wilderness has a very laid-back, less-commercial, neighborhood feel--truly the backwoods of Disney--and they like to keep it that way. I tend to agree!

I know I've gone on too long already, but earlier I mentioned the fountain at the Town of Celebration. I wanted to include a link to their website ( http://www.celebration.fl.us/specialevents.html ) because they have some really fun community events, especially in the fall/winter seasons. This link will give you the entire 2006 calendar. Scroll all the way down, and you'll discover the bubble-snow nights in December! Ahhh, that fresh Ivory-liquid smell of freshly fallen snow! (But it does look fairly real in snapshots, and the kids absolutely love it). The only warning I have, though, is that Celebration doesn't have public restrooms, aside from port-a-potties during the bigger events. So if you visit, make sure you plan your potty breaks for when you're getting coffee at Barnie's or something; then you'll be fine.

--Well, that should keep you busy for awhile! Have fun!

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J.S.

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D.,
Hello there, well I have a 10 year old and two younger children and I looked for 4 months for moms groups to attend outings during the day, weekends and what nots so I have copied and paste a moms group I think you would be interested in. All I ask of you is if you join to say it was from me:)
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Moms-in-Jacksonville/..... I actually joined 3 groups but the othe 2 are military and I am not sure of your back ground, we get together go to parks, events, anything that sounds fun, hope to here you soon.
J. S

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F.R.

answers from Pensacola on

I read the other responses, and they're all fabulous. Definitely get him active in some group with other children. But one thing that wasn't suggested was getting him active in helping you around the house. Get him a little broom and dustpan and you can both sweep the floor. So what if it doesn't come all the way clean because he's pushing your dirt pile around. :o) And get him in the kitchen with you. Get some kid friendly cooking equipment. Little shaped cutters to make his own shaped cheese and meats like a lunchable. Have him crack eggs and stir up some cookies with you. Not only will he learn things, but you'll have an end result that you can both be proud of and it'll bring you closer as a family.
And get outside while you can. If he's interested in nature, go searching for lizards or frogs. Play in the dirt. Get some bubbles. It doesn't have to cost a lot to entertain a child. And if you're playing right beside him, he'll learn that being an adult doesn't mean you have to grow up :o)

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C.D.

answers from Miami on

Hi, D.. I am a mother of a 13 month old and here is what we do.We go to the local library and Barnes and Noble they have free storytime. I also go to a local playground.

C.

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C.G.

answers from Orlando on

Hi,

How are you finding Florida? My family and i moved here from Scotland in January of this year and i am finding it very hard to adjust. I also find myself at a loose end most days as my eldest son, 6 years old, is now in grade 1 and i am at home all day with my 14 month old son. Unfortunatly i don't drive as yet and find it very hard to find local activities to keep us occupied.

All the best

C.

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Y.

answers from Miami on

Hi D.,

I also have one 3 years old boy, he is very active, you can take him outside, go to the closest park by your house, go to the zoo, plant on the garden, etc, things that he will learn from and maybe now you have the time but not later, I wish that I can be an stay mom with only one I have 2 (1 boy 3 and 1 girl 1 1/2) I work 40 hours, and my husband works (2-11pm) so pretty I am by myself, no time for everything, try to enjoy your last boy at the max. good luck
Y.

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L.K.

answers from Boca Raton on

I have a three year old daughter and I am looking at a preK program from 9-12 on Tues and Thurs. that's supposed to be around $150/month. My situation is that she is such good entertainment for my 1 year old twins I am hesitating! She loves playdough so I try and give her about 1/2 hour at a time. Also I pull out duplos(leggos for prek) and I let her do that for awhile. I find if I can give a 20-30 minute focus on the little ones early in the morning then they seem to play better together. Also, I got these cool chunky twistable crayons that she loves. They are very greasy though, so do monitor. Cutting paper is loads of fun. Sometimes I'll let her cut up the Oriental Trading post catologue and glue it on a paper. I saw Kumon had some cute preK books that aren't too expensive and the reviews looked good. Take care,L.

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K.R.

answers from Tampa on

I can understand that feeling. Two or more children keep each other company. Toddlers are my favorite age. Their little brain is a sponge. Does he know all his colors, shapes, alphabet? If not, teach him by pointing out the shapes in the room, rectangle door, square window, etc. If he does, start pre-readers, pre-writing work books. I agree too much TV is not good, but there are good things he can watch like Baby Einstein. Library time is fun. Parks are great. Mix it up a little. If he likes to draw, you can get creative. Go to a craft store and get some ideas to decorate his room. You can look for things that are marked down, out of season, etc. for some good prices. My oldest grandson just started pre-k and loves it. I babysat him when he was two. He is very active, and I looked forward to nap time. We had a swing set, trampoline, and basketball net in the back yard that he loved in addition to the other things. Most little ones like finger paint too if you don't mind a little mess.

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D.D.

answers from Daytona Beach on

Children don't always need to be entertained. Give him some time to just do what his imagination leads him to. Take a couple of hours during the day and you do something for yourself (in the same room/house), like read or something and just turn him loose around his toys. He'll keep himself entertained.

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M.W.

answers from Miami on

You can take your three year old to the library. There are books, puzzles, computers, and lots of times they have programs for the kids. I used to do that with my children and we both enjoyed it!

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B.B.

answers from Jacksonville on

My daughter is significantly younger but she is very active. In the mornings I take her for a bike ride, then we play outside or indoors. We joined a Gymboore playgroup which is great and she loves it. On cooler days I take her to the playground or go for a walk with her so she can explore. On hot days I play with her in the sprinklers outside or go to the pool. The zoo is great and inexpensive. I try to incooperate various activities into her schedule and do different things. I do work 32 hrs a week so I only have 3 days to entertain her but I always try to make it fun and new. We play music in the house and dance, go to Marineland which is really cheap or the beach. Be creative. Do painting projects outdoors, build a sand box, do water activities outside, kick around the soccer ball, go to new places with him (librarys have great reading activities, parks have nature trails to explore) etc. Set up your own playgroup with other stay at home moms in your area. Interacting with other children is so important developmentaly wise for your son so he would get a lot of benefit from it, plus you would get some time to relax while he plays. You might even want to see if you can find a daycare that has hourly or part time rates and sent him for half days or 1-2 days a week (he will probably love to play with other kids) and you can earn some extra money too. Of course all of these activites require your time and energy as well. With me working I want to spend every second with my daughter so I don't mind.

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T.F.

answers from San Francisco on

Hi, try babyzone.com also, have you checked your local libraries for crafts and story times? Check your park district for playgroups and playdates, arts/crafts etc. Try your local bookstore for books that list activities for toddlers like museums, etc. I've even found that certain churches have playdays (i'm not religious and they let us in) Hope this helps.

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K.A.

answers from Miami on

hi i kow what it feels because im similar situation,i take my children to the playg, with some crayons and we start doing proyects

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D.

answers from Fort Myers on

We joined the MOMS Club. It keeps us busy. If you go to the website, you can find the closest chapter, www.momsclub.org.

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C.C.

answers from Orlando on

Mothering.com's forum has a HUGE thread of toddler activity ideas - run a search, if I have time later I'll find the link and post it.

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N.S.

answers from Saginaw on

Hello, I am in the same situation with my 2 yr. old and I also take care of my neighbors 3 yr. old. So, I found this website called www.familyfun.com and it gives you alot of great ideas for arts and crafts. You can go by age or it also gives you crafts for holidays coming up. Good Luck=-)
N.

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M.

answers from Miami on

Have you looked into playgroups? Got to meetup.com and there you should be able to find something in your area. There is also the Lollipop league and moms club. Hope this helps.

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D.

answers from Tampa on

Most of the public libraries have story reader time for little ones. You could call the library to find out when they have it and how many others are usually there. Our library does a little craft project after the story reading. And it's not just sitting reading...ours does some music and dancing and acting in the stories. You could also join a mom's group in your area if there are any and get the kids together for some fun time. Good luck...and have fun.

D.

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A.

answers from Tampa on

Hello! How about getting artsy and crafty? I just ran a google search for crafts for kids and there are TONS of ideas out there! Also your local library should have kids crafts books, or even really simple science experiments (like how glasses with different amounts of water in them sound different when you tap them). Have you thought about story time at the library? I know my son loved that when he was little. Hope this helps!

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