Water Births

I have labored three times in the water and two of my daughters were born in the water. I don't know why every woman does not labor in the water! It really helps! I want to encourage you to pursue this and learn more. And please see the movie,
http://thebusinessofbeingborn.com!

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I birthed both my children at home, and my second child was a water birth. It was so gentle and beautiful. The water feels amazing in labor, easing the pain, and when i was ready to deliver my husband popped in and caught our daughter. She slid into the world in a warm way and into my husbands loving hands. He gently lifted her into my arms where she immediately wanted to nurse.

I did much research on water births, they are safe and sanitary. I don't know if i would have one in a hospital (so many germs) but my midwife provided a pool with a single use liner, so that it was just us that used it. Her request was that we move from the tub for the delivery of the placenta, which is messy in the water.

What can i say, i think they are beautiful and gentle on mommy and baby.

Also, second babies come much quicker than first babies... so whatever you choose, you can rest assured that most likely, you will have a speedier delivery and you already know what you are doing, which is half the battle.

I will say, this is your opportunity to make the birth what you want it to be. Read and be specific on what you want with your physician... make it the birth you are dreaming of.

I will recommend: "Ina Mae's Guide to child birth" by Ina Mae Gaskin. Though you have already had a baby, sometimes it is smart to read beautiful birth stories... and this book is full of them. It will inspire you to create the birth you want.

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Some great homebirth/waterbirth videos and slideshows that others have shared:
http://wahmdigitalscrapbooks.com/birth1

http://themidwife.net/index_files/homebirthmidwifestudent...
(links are below the mommy image)

http://www.achildbirth.com/

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A.,
Congratulations on this second baby! It is so wonderful that you are looking into a waterbirth. My daughter, born at home, was a waterbirth. I had a pretty long labor (30 hours) and I think being in the water made an incredible difference with the comfort of the contractions. As much as I could, I would just try and float through the contractions. It also made it easier to envision "riding the wave" while being in the water. That being said, there is a website www.waterbirth.org that covers waterbirth. I agree with the other posts as far as the websites and books to read. I have more links on my website that may be helpful for you. The site is www.naturalchoices4baby.com And finally, I am hosting a movie/discussion night at my house once a month to watch movies like What Babies Want, The Business of Being Born, etc. I live in Longmont, if you are interested, send me your email and I'll forward the info to you. Please feel free to contact me with any other questions you may have. Good luck!
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If you can do that then more power to you. I could never do that! Ever! My first labor and delivery with my son was a horrible experience. I never wanted to have a baby again. But my 2nd one that just happened almost 4 months ago was the best esperience ever. its like my body knew what to do this time around. I started having light contractions at like 2am and by 6am they were hard contractions so my husband and I decided to get his sister over here to watch our 1st so we could go to the hospital. we got to the hospital at 7:30am and by 10:30, just 3 hours later I had my daughter. I pushed for only 15 min. Even my recovery was awesome! But good luck with whatever you do. I feel the 2nd time around will go much nicer. I hope:)

I did this almot 13 years ago with my first child.. AMAZING!
I am sure it has changed alot of the years. It was relaxing to say the least and really helped calm me down as it was my first child and I didn't know what to expect. I was in a hospital for this with a midwife.. Guess your best bet is to check out the hospital you plan to have your child in and see if they offer it.

Best of luck to you!

As far as I know, none of the hospitals in the Denver area will allow water births at this time. However, several have the deep soaking tubs, and allow labor in the tub as long as the earlier checks on the baby show that the baby is in no distress. I've been told that if you are in the hospital bath when the baby comes, well, then you just happen to have a water birth. I'm sure you'd want a midwife or a doula with you. I've had 3 natural (no epidural) births, and used water to sooth contractions - and it makes a big difference in decreasing pain. My second and third babies came too quickly for me to spend any time in the bath. Best of luck, I do highly recommend natural childbirth if medically all is stable. I preferred having my babies in the hospital, just in case, but fortunately none needed extra care.

Hi A.. I'm a mother of four and the last was a waterbirth. Though I didn't have much time as it was fast, the water was wonderful. I'm also a midwife and have attended others water births. You can check my website, www.inspiringbirthstories.com for my daughter's birth story and other info. Best of luck to you.
D.

I labored in water with my first daughter, and thought it was a wonderful comfort measure. I'm now a birth doula, and a lot of the women I work with also choose to labor in water. I definitely recommend trying it. If it's not for you, you can just get out of the tub!

A soak tub is often very comforting AFTER labor is well established. Most people don't recommend submersion in early labor as it can slow things down. Showers can be great during early labor.

A book with a lot of information about normal water birth is Gentle Birth Choices by Barbara Harper. I read that another mom had recommended Ina May's Guide to Childbirth, which is my all time favorite birth book, too. I don't remember much discussion of water birth in particular, but it give great perspective on pregnancy and birth as normal, healthy parts of a woman's life.

I'm not aware of Denver area hospitals that will allow a planned water birth. There is now a free-standing birth center 1/2 block from Sweedish hospital run by a nurse-midwife where full water bith is encouraged. The website for the birth center is www.mountainmidwifery.com.

Good luck! Hope your pregnancy and birth are wonderful!

Hi, A.,

When I went to go and have my DD in 2002, I opted for a waterbirth. I think it would have worked out well except for 2 words: back labor. She was pushing against my spine the entire time and nothing in the world would make me comfortable. Unfortunately, she also got stuck in my pelvis and we had to opt for an emergency c-section.

I hope I didn't just freak you out with all of this.

I will say that the hot tub did help me with my contractions, when they were based in the front and not the back. I also thought it would be a wonderful, very peaceful way to bring a baby into the world and was sorry it did not work out for me.
I had a wonderful team of midwives who were there for me and if this is an option you want, go for it.

I would suggest looking on Amazon or at the library for some books - one of the ones I really liked was called "Natural Birth Choices" because it gave you all the options and even helped me to craft my own birth plan.

I would though - just in case you end up with back labor or complications, have a backup plan. That's the one thing i didn't do. Good luck to you.

Hi,
Most home birth midwives will be very familiar with waterbirth. It rarely happens in the hospital. There is a midwife in your city...