C.L. asks from Draper, UT on November 21, 2007
Trying to Find Some Books....
Hello!
I am trying to raise my children in a way that accepts all others without judgement. I believe it's important to show them that families come in many different shapes and sizes, as well as lifestyles, and they aren't bad, they're just different than ours. I want them to not just be "tolerant" of others, but accepting and nonjudgemental.
There are two books that I would like to find for my preschooler. One is about adoption, from the birth parents point of view. I can find a lot of books about parents who have adopted children, but none about parent who had to give them up. I want them to see that parents don't give up children because they don't love them.
The other topic I am trying to find are books about gay and lesbian parents. Most books about gay and lesbian parents are geared toward high school students. I don't want a book that expains what parents do in their bedroom (My daughter isn't ready for a book about straight families either), but something where she can see that other families may have two mommies or two daddies.
If you have seen any good books out there, that speak about it in an open and unjudgemental way, I would really appreciate it.
Thanks!
C.
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So What Happened?™
I have been very impressed with the open-minds of the other Moms out there that don't judge based on someone's lifestyle, but recognize that loving families come in a wide variety. When I put a request for children's books about gay/lesbian families, I thought I would get a bunch of outraged Mom's who thought I was trying to teach my children things that were "inappropriate", but not one single response was negative. I applaud all of those mothers who have answere my request with dignity and support. May more people in this country live with such loving and accepting hearts as those who have answered my request. Thank you for giving me faith in my country again.
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M.M. answers from Milwaukee on November 25, 2007
I applaud you for this. It is very important in teaching tolerance. I bought this book called Its so amazing! for my daughter when she was 9 or so. It is actually about how babies are made and it sticks to the facts and includes different types of families (adopted, gay/lesbian and blended families). You can get it on amazon.com.
Good luck!
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J.S. answers from Kalamazoo on November 21, 2007
I tried looking for some books online that could help but i didnt see much , but i do want to say that I am all for you teaching your kids to be non judgemental and to be accepting . its hard these days to teach kids how to treat others the same when there is so much confusion and negativity about certain issues. If you do find any good books please let me know because that is a wonderful idea.
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A. answers from Salt Lake City on November 21, 2007
I remember reading a review in the past couple years of at least one book on this subject, a children's book. I probably saw it on Barnes and Nobel's website. If you work with the search engine you can pull a long list to wade through of possible books.
I found this one today that might be what you are looking for: Molly's Family
by Nancy Garden, Sharon Wooding (Illustrator), Sharon Wooding (Illustrator)
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksearch/isbnInquiry.a...
this is another one:
Daddy's Roommate
by Michael Willhoite, Michael Willhoite (Illustrator)
(Paperback)
Publisher: Alyson Publications
Pub. Date: November 1991
ISBN-13: 9781555831189
Sales Rank: 66,202
32pp
This is one on foster parents
Zachary's New Home: A Story for Foster and Adopted Children
by Geraldine Molettiere Molettiere Blomquist, Paul B. Blomquist, Margo Lemieux (Illustrator), Margo Lemieux (Illustrator), Paul B. Blomquist
This one is an adoption one:
A Blessing from Above
by Patti Henderson, Golden Books Staff, Liz Edge (Illustrator), Elizabeth Edge (Illustrator)
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D.D. answers from Salt Lake City on November 21, 2007
This is a good thing to teach your kids!! I admire you. Here is a list of some titles I have found, that might be appropriate.
http://www.thereadingtub.com/search_adoption.asp
Hope it helps!
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S. answers from Des Moines on November 21, 2007
Hi, C.. The most-banned book last year was a children's book about a penguin family where two male penguins raised the baby penguin. I cannot recall the title of the book, but I'm sure any book seller could help you identify it, which would certainly be appropriate for small children.
Good luck with your search.
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A.K. answers from Iowa City on November 22, 2007
We have a family member who is gay so we've tried to read books that introduce this topic in an easy way to my kids. We picked the ones we found at the Public Library but here's what I found at Amazon when I looked today.
Who's in a Family? by Robert Skutch
And Tango Makes Three by Pater Parnell (this was very cute, it's about two male penguins that foster an egg)
The Family Book by Todd Parr (he has quite a few good books for little kids on the diversity topic)
Heather Has Two Mommies by Leslea Newman
Emma and Meesha My Boy: A Two Mom Story by Kaitlyn Taylor Considine
The Different Dragon by Jennifer Bryan (this one looks really good for boys, talking about a dragon with two moms)
T.T. answers from Denver on November 22, 2007
I haven't seen any books about birth parents for young children, but I do know of two books about gay and lesbian parents. The first is called Heather has two mommies, and the other is called Daddy's roommate. I think they are very good.
M.M. answers from Milwaukee on November 25, 2007
I applaud you for this. It is very important in teaching tolerance. I bought this book called Its so amazing! for my daughter when she was 9 or so. It is actually about how babies are made and it sticks to the facts and includes different types of families (adopted, gay/lesbian and blended families). You can get it on amazon.com.
Good luck!
A. answers from Madison on November 22, 2007
Hi C.!
I am also a teacher, although I teach a 4/5 combined class. I've really enjoyed the Todd Parr books--The Peace Book, The Feelings Book, Reading Makes You Feel Good, etc. The illustrations are bright and simple, and the text is straightforward and easy to understand. Check them out!
A.
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