A.S. asks from Somerset, NJ on October 24, 2008
Traveling First Time by Air with a 6 Mo
Hi Moms,
I am back again with a new query..
Next weekend I will be traveling alone with my 6 mo daughter on a 17hr non-stop International flight. This is her first journey by air, and I am very anxious as to what all I need to take care of..
The reason we chose a non-stop flight is with the hope that the air hostesses will be helpful when we are on board, since I will be traveling alone.
I have sooo many question, and I would greatly appreciate all your advices.
1. What all do I need to carry in the carry on baggage other that clothes? She does not get a separate carry on bag, but she gets a 20lbs check in bag
2. I checked with the airline, and was informed that I cannot carry baby water on board but I can carry some amount of prepared formula. Is it ok to use bottled water to prepare formula for her? I generally use a little warm water to prepare formula. Also, is there any kind of restriction as to how much powdered formula and baby food I can carry on board?
3. We have requested for a Bassinet seat on board, but that request cannot be confirmed till we actually show up at the check in counter. In case (knock on wood) I don't get the bassinet seat, how can I manage her?
4. My ped said that "IF I WANT" I can give her some tylenol, which will make her sleepy throughout the journey. Is that absolutely necessary?
5. We will be going to a different country. So any suggestions on how to cope with the new environment and jet lag?
I know I have asked many questions in just one request, but I am really anxious.
Any advice from all of you is greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance!
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J.S. answers from Houston on October 25, 2008
Ugh, been there and done that several times. Bring extra clothes for you as well. My youngest son cried til he vomited on me. I brought an extra shirt but not a bra, nothing like traveling smelling like baby spit up. Bleck... New toys help keep them interested. The plane itself is so excitng for them and people will be thrilled (once they realize they are not sitting near you) to see a baby and will play and talk with her. Don't over do anything. Less is more. Have healthy snacks for her. A few toys. Some books and her food. We traveled Lufthansa and they were always great when my kids were little. Oh, the bathrooms will have a changing table. It is over the toilet seat usually in one bathroom. Beware, they are TINY!! Most folks never even notice that they are there. At 6 months old, it should not be too difficult. I had never heard of tylenol being given, we used benedryl once and it did not help at all and made my kid more hyper. Best of luck.
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M.K. answers from Houston on October 25, 2008
You mentioned formula, do you breastfeed at all? It helped my son go to sleep and calm down on our flight to Europe when I breastfed him. We also bought our son a seat and took our carseat for him to sit in and sleep in. We ended up holding him a lot. I would take some books and toys also on the plane. We never gave my son anything to make him sleepy. It also helped that our flight over there was going to be mostly at night when he would sleep. As far as jet lag goes. The only thing we did was not let him take a nap until was time to go to bed that night.....the first evening was too much fun....but the next day he seemed to have his days and nights straightened out. Good Luck!
S.W. answers from Houston on October 27, 2008
Hi A.! I am surprised that you cannot carry on water. I have never had a problem but nevertheless, you can take as much formula as you need. I would plan for a little more than you need as a precaution. I have always had great luck with the attendants being helpful. They would wash out the bottom with steaming hot water and can provide you with hot water if you need to warm the bottle. Anytime I've flown, I've always leveraged the carry on for me, for the baby instead. You are going to want to have plenty of "food" diapers and wipes at a minimum and possibly even a change of clothes. My daughter didn't have ear trouble but something to plan for as well. Try to get an aisle seat so you can move about if you need to. I would not give Tylenol myself but that is a personal decision and only you need to know about it. I recommend trying to get ready for the time change by starting before you leave. Try to work toward the time change a day or two early so as not to have too much work when you get there. The key though is that you sleep whenever the baby sleeps regardless of day/night time. That way you can manage and stay on track with baby. The rest will take care of itself. Everything will be okay, just stay calm as the baby can feel your emotions and if you are okay, the baby will be okay! Good Luck and enjoy your trip!
J.S. answers from Houston on October 25, 2008
Ugh, been there and done that several times. Bring extra clothes for you as well. My youngest son cried til he vomited on me. I brought an extra shirt but not a bra, nothing like traveling smelling like baby spit up. Bleck... New toys help keep them interested. The plane itself is so excitng for them and people will be thrilled (once they realize they are not sitting near you) to see a baby and will play and talk with her. Don't over do anything. Less is more. Have healthy snacks for her. A few toys. Some books and her food. We traveled Lufthansa and they were always great when my kids were little. Oh, the bathrooms will have a changing table. It is over the toilet seat usually in one bathroom. Beware, they are TINY!! Most folks never even notice that they are there. At 6 months old, it should not be too difficult. I had never heard of tylenol being given, we used benedryl once and it did not help at all and made my kid more hyper. Best of luck.
L.F. answers from Austin on October 25, 2008
Hi A.,
I know your concerns, as I had to travel with my then 13 month old internationally.
This is what I did:
Get an overnight flight!I will mess less with the baby's routine and yours.
My baby likes cold soy milk, so I brought a thermal bag and got ice at the airport.You could probably warm water and mix your formula right before you board.
If you have any questions, please feel free to email me!
L.S. answers from Houston on October 25, 2008
Hi! Wow, you are taking on a big adventure. When traveleing with my son as an infant, all I can say is bring 2x what you think you will need, clothes, diapers and food b/c there are accidents..and a new shirt for you as well! I usually brought a whole can of powder formula, and I mixed it with the bottled water on the plane. It worked fine, and the water is usually warm anyway. As far as sleeping, I brought a blanket for my son, and would put the arm rest up between us and make him a little bed, that I could lay him down in after he fell asleep.. worked okay, and the plane noise and vibration made him sleep ALOT! Good Luck! Safe trip!
C.B. answers from Austin on October 25, 2008
Be absolutely sure she's sucking on something for takeoff and landing to help "pop" her ears for pressure changes. Pacifier will work if she's not nursing. We used to go to France with babies a lot. They just zombied out, went to sleep when tired, and adjusted faster than adults to jet lag.
Make sure the airline knows she's coming; you used to be able to request "infant" meals. She'll be fine, you'll be exhausted.
L.M. answers from Austin on October 25, 2008
My boys were babies before security was so tight so I don't know about forumula and water. I breastfeed but waited until we were up in the air for a minute or so as it takes a little time before the pressure starts. Several pacifiers would be a good idea if she takes one. Also, I agree with the noise free, quiet toys.
I second bringing lots of changes of clothes (for both of you) and blankets. Also bring many large gallon size plastic bags. These can help store things easier (like one outfit change per bag) and then can be used for any dirty clothes. My youngest had a diaper blowout becuase we had to run to our gate when we changed planes and I didn't have time to change. Luckily, I had a blanket around him so my clothes were spared. I didn't have a change for me so I highly recommend that. I also used to have scented bags that I could put a dirty diaper in. They did help with the smell.
I didn't ever give the kids benedry but it does make some kids hyper! I would not try that on the plane for the first time.
Make sure you bring all the baby supplies- tylenol, thermometer, diaper rash cream, etc. You just never know what you'll need and what you can get overseas. A plastic bag will help keep these all neat and handy.
A.A. answers from Austin on October 25, 2008
I've been traveling with my son on airplanes since he was four months old. We go a lot a places that it inspired me to open my own children's travel gear site http://childtogo.com.
That said, I found the most important thing to bring is enough diapers. We had gotten delayed between flights by three days and I was running out of diapers. Clothes can be washed and dried in the hotel, but I was using disposable diapers and was running out. The airport stores didn't have his size and I was fortunate to find some that fit at a convenience store.
It is okay to use bottled water to prepare formula. Depending where you are going, that may be the safest option for the whole trip. Also, because I couldn't guarantee a bassinet either when I traveled, those seats usually are already booked, I wouldn't have survived without having my sling with me. I could be hands free and the baby could sleep, cuddle, nurse or generally be in a type of restraint while I could sleep. The sling was also handy when I was not in a position to return to my room to put him down for a nap. He slept in there at all stages of the trip.
As for jet lag, it is recommended that everyone try to get as much time in the daylight before falling asleep, even for a nap. It will help reset your bodies' internal clock.
As for tylenol or even benedryl, it really depends on your baby's prior experience with it. Benedryl didn't work for my son. It made him more fussy, but not sleepy, so we don't use it. On other kids it does work, so I would leave that judgement to your baby's own experience with the medicine. I had walked the aisles to rock the baby to sleep on some of the longer flights across the Pacific.
For the descent, it is helpful to have the baby nursing or drinking from a bottle. The sucking movement will help relieve pressure in their ears.
I don't know what type of restrictions on the amount of baby food or formula that can be brought on board. It really is subjective to the airport security screener. I've had my child's juice boxes and boxed chocolate milk taken away from me repeatedly. Other's said, but you're not on an international flight, but I was, so I was allowed some of them back.
Depending on where you are going, check out www.babiestravellite.com. They will ship baby formula, diapers and food to your location most places around the world.
Good luck and email anytime if you have any questions about specific travel gear.
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