H.A. asks from Westfield, PA on January 10, 2009
Sweet 16 Birthday Ideas for a Party Needed
I have custody of my niece, soon to turn 16. The only thing is that she is borderline mentally retarded. She has tics (a form of tourettes) as well as is socially inactive.
I want her to have a really "cool" sweet 16 birthday party that she will never forget, but I don't have any ideas to cater to her IQ. Whatever I do may clash with her friends as she does have some friends that are of a "normal IQ".
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N.P. answers from York on January 11, 2009
Ok I know this might sound silly but how about a bouncer? We did that at an 18 year old's party and though the kids were all "normal" IQ wise they had a blast. This would give older and younger kids something to do.
There is a local bounce place to accomodate different ages too. http://www.myspace.com/321bounce
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L.T. answers from Pittsburgh on January 10, 2009
I think Denise's idea of a sweet/baking party is a great idea. It would be fun, unique and interactive. Other ideas to find an "instructor/chef": local trade school (teacher or student), browse classifieds/yellow pages to find independent bakeries or people with at-home baking businesses, check local craft stores for class offerings.
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C.J. answers from Harrisburg on January 10, 2009
My sister has tourettes....We had a glamour day for a few of her friends that included nails, toes, hair, and makeup(just a lil), and it was so much fun! I really like the pastry idea....sounds fun....nice job denise....let us know
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D.S. answers from Allentown on January 10, 2009
Hi H.,
Depending how much money you want to spend is the question.
You can check your are or on the web for a clown or magician.
Good luck. Best wishes. D.
C.B. answers from Reading on January 17, 2009
Hi,
I think the glamour party ideas are wonderful. I believe that the beauty school in Reading does these, which would be cheaper than using a salon/spa.
Have fun with whatever you choose. Remember that her friends are going to enjoy whatever, since they are her friends & apparently accept her for who she is. They apparently see her inner beauty.
B.W. answers from Erie on January 11, 2009
My kids didn't do anything special for age 16, but my Mom came up with 16 presents. My mom is thrifty, so they weren't 16 lavish gifts. They were small things, and one or two nice things. But she found 16 items to wrap, and she carried that tradition with each of her girl grandchildren.
D.P. answers from Pittsburgh on January 10, 2009
Maybe incorporate "sweet" with the idea of baking/pastries? A pastry chef to lead the guests to do a baking project--like marzipan, or fondant goodies? Just a thought.....
C.H. answers from Allentown on January 11, 2009
what does she like to do? roller skate?
movies/pizza?
don't need to make a big party with dj and stuff, she probably be more comfortable smaller and her friends.
sleepover?
E.S. answers from Pittsburgh on January 11, 2009
What does she like? If she likes girly girl stuff, maybe a party at a salon where they do your hair and nails. Or if she and her friends like sweets, how about a cupcake party where the girls can make and decorate their own, have a food fight, and don't have to clean up afterwards (stinks for you, but if she likes it...). Good luck to you, I'm sure this is a challenge every day.
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