HELP!!!! Planning a Sweet 16 for My Daughter

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WELL FIRST FIND OUT WAT SHES INTRESTED IN WANTING FOR THAT DAY. PRETTY MUCH INVITE FRIENDS FAMILY AND HAVE MUSIC,FOOD AND JUS LET HER AND HER FRIENDS HANG OUT DANCE AND HAVE A GOOD TIME.

Hello R.,
My name is M. L and I never had a sweet sixteen birthday but my sister did andmy mom allowed the girls to pick who she invited like her closet friends and then let them deside what it is they wanted to do. As long as you approve it. They love that Idea. But for her to be surprised invite the girls first and be prepared for whatever they come up with. Let it happen and she will love u for it.

do the best to save money and do something yourself as a pizza time with her friends or give her some money so she can spent in any of her ideas, clothes, cd's or else
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R.,

Why don't you let her plan the party. On the Super Sweet 16 show on MTV (which of course features parties with outlandish budgets) the kids seem to derive the greatest satisfaction in planning a party that they know their friends would really enjoy.

It might be a great time to also allow your daughter to work on budgeting skills. You might give her a budget and have her make the plans. Then you could go over the plan to see places where you might fill-in with different cost effective options such as baking the cake versus a bakery or whatever.

Don't stress! Google 'sweet 16 party ideas', that should give you something to go on, then you both can see what others have done.
We've done two opposite parties, one for my sister and now my daughter. For my sister, we did an inflatable jumpy and bbq, she invited her closest friends, about 20 girls and guys. They had lots of fun, we just laid low and kept the food and sodas flowing.
For my daughter, we're doing a pirate themed dance party. Rented the local community hall, preset music, pirate/beach decorations and we're doing the catering ourselves. A bit more dressy, but she wanted it that way...and we're including a food drive. Trying to keep the cost reasonable because we have another one to do in 2 years.
Good Luck!

Perhaps you could talk her into taking just one or two friends to go get pedicures and manicures. If she's never done this before it could be alot of fun for her, then out to lunch or high tea? I love going to tea it's such a treat and so relaxing. Something like that would I think be more memorable.

Hey R.--- Don't know what your budget is like but I remember when I was 16 and my mom didn't have a lot of money for the party so she let me have a few girls over and she did our hair and make up (she was a beautician) and then we painted each other's nails (I'm a nail tech now---so I guess I was training) but the greatest thing now is you can take some play glamour shots and print them from your printer---I would go one more step and get some cute frames and some glue and some blinging glitter and studs so they could make thier own fames to remember the night----It'd be inexpensive and fun---Plus, what girl doesn't like to take some "glamour shots"???

I work in a restaurant that does a lot of different types of parties. One idea I've seen has been "girls day out". The parents rented a limo brought the girls to lunch to my place, and than took them all to get manicures and pedicures and than a sleepover in a hotel with mini facials and room service. With Mom and Dad next door.

What girl doesn't like to get her nails done? Not sure about your financial situation but you can always figure a way to do this more affordablely. ;o) Good Luck.

R. ~ A sweet 16 is a wonderful idea and I do remember mine (and I'm almost 43). You should get some ideas from your daughter as to what she is thinking about for her party and how many friends she wants to invite and then, depending on your budget, take it from there. Both of my girls' 16 party was different because they wanted different things. My oldest wanted to go with 6 friends to Magic Mountain for the day (without me) So I rented them a limo, sent them with money to pay and money to spend while they were there. I told all the girls' parents that the day was on me as far as food, drink, entrance fee but if they wanted to buy something other than that, it was up to the parents to send them with x-tra $$. My youngest, however, wanted to take 6 friends out to Mr Chow's (I think that's the name) in Beverly Hills for dinner. Now, honestly, 9 dinners at a swanky restaurant was too much for my budget, (She wanted my husband and I to attend as well) so I asked her to cut it down to 4 girls and we went. It was a blast, we saw Robbin Williams there for dinner, one of the girls asked if he would take a picture with the birthday girl and he said Yes!!! How cool was that? So both girls had a sweet 16 but it was taylored to what they wanted. Had they wanted an actual "party", I would have done that too, but more designed to their personalities. Ask your daughter what she wants. If you have a budget, let her know that you want her to have an amazing party that she'll remember, but it has to be within a reasonable limit. Take the ideas she gives you, and you'll have a memorable party. Once you have more ideas from her, let us know and we can give you better suggestions.
Good luck to you. L. M

if she is a girly girl, and has girly friends... olivia's dollhouse tearoom. look online. they are in carmichael.

My daughter just turned 18. Her favorite party she attended was when her friend Alyssa turned 16. Alyssa's Mom rented a Limo for a few hours. The Limo picked up the kids at school.My daughter who is Alyssa's best friend went to a different school so when Alyssa and her friends from school went to get into the Limo Melissa was already waiting in the Limo. They did this on a friday and just went for pizza and the mall. The hard part is the guests are limited and you will have to choose her closest freinds.
This may leave out the rest of the family however you can have another party at your home for the family.

It wasn't too too long ago that I turned 16. I had a cult film festival where everyone had to dress up as their favorite cult film character and we watched our favorite cult films at my house. We also had a dance off contest... compliments on Pulp Fiction (my favorite cult film). What is your daughter into? You should ask her, because I think once they turn 16, girls want to plan their own parties....

I just have just a comment to begin-when did this sweet 16 thing start? after MTV started airing that sweet sixteen show? I'm 28. I vaguely remember my 16th birthday, it was nothing special. none of my friends or anyone I knew for that matter had sweet 16 parties. I know this is a big deal for her, she wants to fit in and have a great time with her friends. So she must have some ideas and expectations. She tells you she wants a sweet 16 party, well ask her to help with it! Ask her to come up with a theme. does she want to stay at home or have it at another venue? what things is she in to? I hope it turns out wonderful! you are a great Mom for doing all this for her, I'm sure she will love whatever you come up with!

A great idea is to do a fashion show. I am not sure what kind of budget you have. Smashbox studio is a place where you can have a party. That's were they have fashion shows. Have a birthday cake and design it with shopping bags from her favorite stores. The tables can have shopping bags. One could be gucci, coach, dior...etc. Good luck

Hi R.,
My name is J.... I saw your post and thought I could offer some suggestions. First off you need to come up with a budget so you know what your limits are and then you can plan the best party. Depending on what your daughter is into and how many friends she wants to invite, you could do something like a limo ride to dinner and a movie, or with a few friends a day trip to San Francisco. I am working on starting an event planning business and have been doing some research in different events and things, I will email you if you would like with some of the things I have found. Hope this helps. J. ____@____.com

I do not have a 16 year old but I was one once before. It is so hard to figure what to do for a 16 year old now adays because of that show on MTV "Super Sweet 16". I had a wonderful Sweet 16, it was a backyard pool party, no Decor, but it was so much fun for all of us. I know this probably didn't help, but it was a idea. Sorry and good luck. Happy Sweet 16 to your Daughter!

Have you asked her if she has anything in mind? You can do any type of themed party such as a Hawaiin Luau or a Black and White ball where everyone has to where black and white (it can be formal or non formal )Disco, 80's, Arabian nights ,Princess , or even the original sweet sixteen back in the fifties etc. etc . the list can go on and on . Does she want a few friends like 25 or 30 and can you fit that many in your home ? or is this a much bigger party like 100 ? Then you'll have to think about where to have it , you also have to think about a budjet for this party and think about whether you are going to hire a caterer or decorator or if you plan on doing most of the work yourself. what kind of food and drinks , etc etc. Then there is the added options of a DJ or a live band .I'm not trying to stress you out by any means I'm just trying to give you some options and ideas to think about and somewhere to start so you can formulate a plan of action to help you not stress out so everything goes off without a hitch. I really hope this helps if you need anymore help just email me at ____@____.com GOOD LUCK !

Well I have a niece that is having a sweet sixteen and she is having a "Fergalicious Party" What we did was we actually are copying the music video from a singer called "FERGIE" from the group "Black Eyed Peas" She made this really cool video for one of her sonds so we are going with that theme. I am a cater so I will be handling all of the food. If you would like, we could chat on the phone. ###-###-#### I could help you with some ideas. Take Care....N.

The first thing you should do is stop watching mtv's sweet 16 show or you'll probably have a heart attach!! =) but really--
When I turned 16 many yrs ago My mother rented a hall and hired a dj and we had a sweet 16 "prom" so that all my friends and I could dress up and do the girly thing. My mother put me in charge of the decoration commitee it was tons of fun picking out colors and theme ect. Then off to costco for the snacks and refreshments. If you are trying to keep the cost down think about finding one of the high school students to dj they usually have minimal fees and you can rent hellium tanks and blow up tons of balloons and attach them together to make a giant "16" or some other shape that fits the theme rent a fog machine for the dance floor you can even use plastic cups that are the colored transparent type and stratigicly place them on high window seals and put dry ice in them so they have a cascading effect and stay far far away from the strobe lights. Then you as a parent get to invite a few of your friends and there you have your responsible chaperons. Well thats one idea it may be a little old fashioned but I am sure no matter what you do Samanthat will never forget it. =)
ps all the work that my mother and I did for my party was wonderful practice for planning my wedding ( five yrs later) we put that together in less then five months with 250 guest and she made my dress!! Good Luck and have FUN always....elle

I got her a gown(her style) and had the party in a restaurant that had a private room - we brought our magic mic and had a dance after the dinner - it was like a royal ball - had the family and friends all together - and she loved it - she felt very special and everyone enjoyed her big day with her...

Hi R.,
For my daughter's "sweet" sixteen, I had a live band play in our backyard! One of my good friends is a musician, so booking the band was easy. It was a hit...still talked about in the old neighborhood! If a live band is too much, maybe a D.J. and a dance party. I always threw the fun party...for her 18th birthday we had a bounce house :)
Good luck!
L.

Hello R.,
I am a photographer in Las Vegas and find that todays sweet 15/16 are much like weddings, but a smaller scale. Generally, there is a DJ, Food, Dancing, and a Photogapher, all in a banquet hall or garden side etc. Much like a wedding, it is the party girls day, so she is the highlight of the party. A dance with her dad is customary, along with a special party dress. The budget is your choice. You will also need invitations. You can purchase them or make them. I did headshots of my niece and am making her invitations. We are also doing a DVD slideshow of her photos as she grew up. We will make it short and sweet because you can lose the guests attention pretty easy with these type slides.

Good luck.
C.

Hello R.

My sweet 16, was over 15 years ago, but I remember it vividly. It wasnt anything extravagant. We had a back yard party, lots of food, music, a place to dance, and a huge cake. Half my cake ended up on me during a cake fight. I have also planned/helped plan, a few sweet 16 parties. I have learned that teens just want to hang out, listen to music, dance and eat. For my ex bf's daughters sweet 16 we had a luau theme in Dec. The kids thought it was fun. All the boys were running around in grass skirts and coconut bras.

I would have your daughter pick a theme. Have her and a copule of her best friends help you plan it. The teens know best on what other teens will like. If you dont have the space, I suggest looking into community centers, churches, or a someone elses house to save money. Otherwise a ballroom works. As for decorating, keep it simple. The kids dont really care much about how pretty everything is. Have props for them to play with. Ive found 16 year olds revert back to 6 when they get the chance. As for music, if you have access to a band or a dj thats always fun. Otherwise set up a stereo with a couple speakers and let the kids choose the music. Other than that just provide good munchies and let them have fun.

I hope this helps. Planning parties can be overwhelming if you let it. The main thing is to just have fun with it.

Well I'm in the same boat,(next month) ,What does your daughter like ? how many friends does she want to invite ? does she want girls & boys ? you must take all that into consideration, what about a " nice formal party, the girls could get all dressed in "fancy dresses" or a themed party, Hawaiin style, hula skirts, lies,palm trees & etc. any of your party stores would have all the things you need to do a themed party, other themes "Movie Premier, Pool,Pirate, or maybe a Beauty Day, ( getting their nails done, manicures & or Pedicures), theres always the back ups Bowling , Boomers, Mini Golf, a Theme Park, and sleep overs for the girls. I hope this has helped.

Hi R.,

If your daughters B-Day is this summer. What about a beach party? That is if you live in the bay area. OR a poolparty. Kids young and old always have fun in the water. You can organize a party at Wet and Wiled Slides. I wish you much luck in your party planning.

Hi R. - Teens love tattoos. I do airbrush body art (temporary tattoos) and just opened my own beauty salon. Not trying go sell you my service but from my experience it is a hit! Good luck

A.

Hi R.,

My name is Liz. I too am planning a sweet sixteen birthday party for my daughter. My daughter turns 16 next February, so I'm starting to do the planning now. She also wants to invite friends. Some of her friend's parents are our friends, so I was thinking of inviting the parents too. (This way they can keep an eye on their own kids.

Not sure was "kind" of party she wants. I know she doesn't want a corney themed party (Hawaiian or Mardi Gras).'

Let me know what kind of ideas you have or you receive.

Thanks,

Liz

It is real cool thing for kids that age, rent a Movie Theater for her and her friends, family can seat in the back...LOL.. Or what I did for my daughters 16th. B-day, was got her and her a Limo for her and her Firneds ONLY and the hung out on the Srtip till 9pm and then we went Cosmic Bowling. It is kinda fun for them to hang out alone then met up with the rest of the Family later. Hope this will help...

Good Luck,
G.

Hi R.,

I've always had great success with themes. How about making her "Princess for a day". Complete with tiara (walmart); lots of rhinestone jewels; hair done professionally, make-up too. Fancy dress and request that guests dress formally. Make up sophisticated invitations; if it's co-ed hire a dj or band and have dancing. Just make her feel very important and beautiful! Good luck!

V.