V.Z. asks from New Port Richey, FL on September 23, 2009
Question Regarding Laproscopic Surgery Due to Etopic Pregnancy
Hello everyone,
I am looking for some help, guidance and positive motivation. I am 31 years old. I have a wonderful 6 year old son. My husband and I have been trying to have a new baby for over a year and a half now. I had a miscarriage last October. I found out they were twins. Apparently the egg had split. one was a normal miscarriage. The other was in my left tube. The doctors put me on Methatrexate. The doctors advised me I may have some minimal scaring. It is now a year later and a year of feeling like a lab rat. I have numerous tests and I am feeling like a pin cushion from all the blood work. My doctor just informed me that my left tube is now collecting and holding water and I will need to have it removed. So, next Friday I will be going in for Laparoscopic surgery. I'm hoping all goes well. I am very anxious. My husband, my son and I really want to grow our family.
My question is, how hard is it to have another healthy pregnancy after this surgery? My doctor advised me that my chances of another etopic is 15%. He also advised me he may place me on some fertility medication to help. I'm terrified of having to go through all that again. Is there more positive then negative? I would greatly appreciate any information, tips, or suggestions from anyone that has been involved in this or a similar situation. Thank you in advance!
So What Happened?™
so... it's been a while and here is a bit of an update... After loosing my left tube. we went back to trying to get pregnant . we found out 2 weeks before christmas we were expecting.... what a great gift right in time for christmas right??? wrong. i ended up miscarring on christmas eve due to yet another etopic. you can imagine our sadness. the doctor put me back on methotrexate and i had to take 5 abortion pills all at one time. (Worst thing i ever had to do). we were told not to try again until i have had 2 full regular cycles and to see my doctor again in march!??? well, it's february and we are pregnant again... the doctors were a bit worried and not to happy as they told us to wait. but it just happened. this time the baby/ embryo is actually in the uterus, we just hope and pray everything goes well and it develops properly. i'm at approx. 5 weeks my hcg was 938. back to the doctors on monday! Wish us uck and please keep us in your prayers!!!!
More Answers
M.S. answers from Jacksonville on September 24, 2009
It is possible to have a successful pregnancy with only one fallopian tube. As with you, we were trying to have another child. Last year, I had to have a fallopian tube removed laparoscopically due to an ectopic pregnancy. I am in my late thirties and was very concerned about my chances of conceiving another child with just one tube, as well as having another ectopic pregnancy. My doctor advised us to try on our own for six months and if we were not successful, he would refer us to a fertility specialist. Happily, just two months later, we were pregnant without the aid of any fertility medications! After a healthy and uneventful pregnancy, we brought our child home just six weeks ago. Best wishes to you for a successful pregnancy.
J.J. answers from Tallahassee on September 24, 2009
Hi V.,
I can't say that I can advise you in any way, as I have never been in your position before. I have, however, wanted (desperately) to have a baby and found health issues stand in my way. That part is infuriating - I know. My doctors have given me the, "you can try" go ahead. And like you I know the feeling of pin cushion science experiment. None of it is very pleasant. I will tell you the same thing I tell myself: You will get through this and you will be stronger for it. You can not allow yourself to get too hung up, because you have a Blessing of a child and a husband who count on you. If God wants you to have another baby - then no health concern will stop him. You have to trust, have faith, and wait - and meanwhile, be happy.
I hope my little speech helps you - it gets me through the hard days, which is usually the first day of my period.
Good luck to you,
L.Z. answers from Tampa on September 24, 2009
Hi V.,
When I first got pregnant at the age of 29 I had an ectopic pregnancy. It was in my left tube and they had to go in and surgically remove the egg. When they did that it closed my left tube. I was only able to get pregnant with my right tube. I have since had two children so it is possible to get pregnant with just having one tube. I was 31 when I had my first child so it can happen just make sure you give your body time to heal and keep trying. Hope this helps.
L.
R.W. answers from Tampa on September 24, 2009
A Laparoscopic surgery is not really a surgery. They go in and look around with a small scope. My daughter had it done about a month ago. They make a small incision and go in and look. They will put you to sleep while they do it. When you wake up you will be in some serious pain for about two to three days. Be prepared. Make sure someone is there with you the first couple of days after. Also they will put a dye in your tubes to check them. You will bleed after the surgery but not like a period. It is normal to bleed for about a week after. It's more like spotting than actual bleeding. The most bleeding will be when you urinate. But she also had a Cystoscopic surgery at the same time where they go in and look at your bladder. She is now being treated for a couple of different problems she has. All we can do is pray and leave it in the doctors and the Lords hands. Pray, God answers prayers, not always the way we think he should but he will do what is best for you.
S.F. answers from Tampa on September 25, 2009
Hi V.,
I actually just had an emergent laparoscopy for a ruptured ectopic pregnancy last Wednesday. A little of my back story... My 3 yr old was conceived via IVF. We really wanted to grow our family, but again with no luck on our own, we opted to try a frozen embryo transfer this past May that was unsuccessful. I had mentally started convincing myself that another baby might not be in the cards. I had a really strange period that started at the end of July and lasted off and on (spotting) until the weekend before the ectopic occurred. Needless to say, I had no idea I was pregnant! So, now I am working with only my right tube. The laparoscopy itself wasn't bad. They went in through my belly button and I have 2 tiny incisions on the lower part of my abdomen, one on either side. I never spotted at all afterwards. I am a little over a week post-op and generally feel back to normal. Just a little soreness if I sit a certain way. My follow-up with my OB was yesterday. She talked to me about trying to get pregnant again and she sounded very optimistic. She had a pt in another state where she worked that was being followed post ectopic and on Clomid to have another baby. They were monitoring which ovary she would ovulate from. One month she ovulated from the side that had no tube left and they thought that month was a wash, but poof, she got pregnant. My Dr wasn't sure if the smidgen of a tube she had left picked up the egg somehow or if it may have even ventured over to the other side and the good tube picked it up. Who knows? But that story alone gives me hope. I didn't think I could get pregnant at all, so now that I know I can, I am trying to be optimistic that it can happen again. I wish you the best of luck and hope that you get to add to your family very soon!!!
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