C.W.
Dear L. -
I am so very sorry to hear of you cat...I know it is hard...but try to look at this as a teachable moment for your child. Because 'we live'...we also die. And eventually, some person close to your child will die...it is the natural order of things. Hard as it is to deal with the loss of a pet (we are animal lovers here) I was glad in a strange way that we had had our beloved cat die before my dad (their grandpa) died as the death of 'capulet' kinda opened the door to some understanding...
"The Fall of Freddie the Leaf" by leo bascallia is a really wonderful book for kids regarding death. There is another one...sorry I do not remember the author...called "The Waterbug Story". In essence it chronicles a water bug who's friends all float up to the surface of the water...and do not return. He is frightened by this...and promises his friends that he will not float up and disappear, and IF he does...he will come back and tell them. Eventually, he does float to the top...grows wings...and becomes a dragonfly! He does try to 'dive bomb' back to his waterbug friends...but his wings prevent him! Any way, he finally realizes that in time his friends will transform into dragonflies as well. He is sad he cannot tell them, but is quite excited to be a dragon fly...and is happy that his friends will be with him again when they are ready! (oops! Guess I told the ending!! LOL)
Good luck!
Michele/catwalk