My 4Yo Wants to Learn to Read - Any Suggestions on Helping Him?

I'm a homeschooling mom and am having EXCELLENT success with the book "The Ordinary Parent's Guide to Teaching Reading". My newly 7 yr old son is now reading near a 3rd grade level (I started him at age 5 1/2), and my 4 1/2 and almost 3 yr olds know their alphabets, what each letter looks like, and what sound they make. This book isn't a workbook that the student works in, more a guide that the parent uses. I got mine from Amazon.com or www.homeschoolbooks.com Good luck and let me know if you'd like specifics on it. - J.

I used the Phonics Game for both my girls and they also have a JR Phonics Game. Both were absolutely a wonderful thing. The games are fun and the kids loved them and they both read very well. Phonchild is the only way to teach a child to read whether it is this program or another. The site and see methods are simply memorization so kids have trouble with new words. If a kid learns English with phonics it also helps them if they ever want to learn other languages.

M.

Start teaching him the sounds that each letter makes. Then pull out those toddler board books so he can start associating the words that match the pictures.

You can also try the family of words. Start with it, what happens when you add an "s", etc.

Have fun!

The single most important thing, which you are probably already doing, is to read TO him daily--a minimum of 20-30 minutes spread throughout the day.

Simple, predictable, text and repeated readings of favorite books, are the key. This series of books will give him instant success as he will be able to pick up any one of the 25+ titles and "read" them:
http://tinyurl.com/yfe5s42

The most important thing, which I didn't really see mentioned in any of the other responses, is to KEEP IT FUN! Reading should be fun and exciting. If he starts to feel burdened or pressured, listen to him.

As a reading specialist, I feel the most important part of the reading process is that it should be enjoyable. You want him to WANT to read and by exposing him to lots of great books and reading to him often, he will acquire the skills he needs to become a reader.

A lot of answers below focused on phonics (or the sounds that letters make), but you also want to make sure you are emphasizing comprehension. I was a fifth grade teacher and I had a lot of students who could say all of the words correctly ("word call") but couldn't explain what they read. Along with teaching him word families (like "at," as a previous poster mentioned) encourage your son to "read" books with great pictures, even if he doesn't know the words. We call this doing "picture walk." He can tell you the story based on the picture. As he learns to read words, he'll slowly fill them in, but until then, he's getting the idea that reading is about good stories...not just sounding out words.

Does he know his letters by sight?

If not, pull out his alphabet books and work with him..A is for Apple.. even if it was a toddler book. You will be amazed how many he probably knows..

Then go to the library and get the BOB books.. They are awesome. I purchased the first set and our daughter, she ended up reading the entire set on the way home from the bookstore, I had to turn the car around and switch out for the second set..

I taught my youngest three to read by using Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons
I just gave it to my neighbor so I cant' tell you the author but I found it really helpfull and it worked.

Starfall is wonderful! Leapfrog has a series of videos - Letter Factory, Word Factory and one other that teaches the basics of reading - word factory tackles short and long vowel words (cap + e = cape) and my son learned tons from it!

Start by reading rebus stories (they are the ones with pictures in the places of some of the words). You read the words and he reads the pictures. He will get the rhythm of reading, learn to read left to right, and enjoy his time with you!

If you're hoping to start teaching him letter sounds, I would call up the elementary school he will be attending and talk with the kindergarten teacher. You can ask her what approach they use. For example, at my children's school they use Jolly Phonics which uses little songs and movements. If they use a program like that, it would be so easy to start teaching him the little songs and movements that go with each letter.

I have an 8 year old daughter who used the big hooked on phonics set to teach herself to read -- she was very motivated like your son. She sat down every day with the cd and the work book the summer before kindergarten and went through the entire 3 box set - kindergarten, first, and second grade. She is a fantastic reader with excellent comprehension. That being said, the program is dull if you aren't motivated. My 6 year old daughter can't stand it. She is an okay reader, but could be better. I have the "Teach your child to read in 100 easy lessons." My opinion is that this could be a great program for someone who has not had any formal introduction to learning to read. The program is a little different, and my impression was that if you were already going to pre-school and learning some stuff about letters and reading then this could have the potential to be really confusing. I have friends who have had success with the Bob books which they just took out of the library. Good luck and have fun!

teach him common endings, I like to start with at. Explain how each letter sounds and you smoosh the sounds together to make the at sound. Now show him how you can make at into sat, mat, hat, that, fat, bat, cat, etc. Do this with more common endings until he gets the idea. Rhyming families is the quickest way to understand the phonics part.
The sight words like the, and, said - those just have to be memorized.
Start with simple books like the Bob books, or stage 1 readers or make your own stories up with the rhyming words he learned.

hooked on phonics is really great (you can get it at the library) also if he knows his letter sounds pretty well you can start him on Bob books. They build onto each other so it is a very good reading system. I like it better then hooked on phonics once they know the letter sounds because I believe that hooked on phonics has them doing too much memorizing (cat, bat, hat, mat, pat, sat) ofcourse that is good to know that ending sounds that look the same sound the same but it took a long time to get reading enough words to make a story. The bob books start out right away with simple stories using 3 letter words, and builds on and on always revisiting the words they have already learned. There are also many computer software games that help them learn to read. Hooked on phonics has a game that comes with the kindergarten set. My daughter has one by school zone that is great as well it is a preschool level program called beginning sounds, also came with thinking skills. Read to your son- have him pick out the letters he knows and talk about the sounds with him. Teach him just a few sounds at a time and he will start pitting them together on his own. My daughter was sounding out the names on her valentines today (she just turned 4 in december). Hope this helps:)

I think the best thing you can do is to go to the library, attend story times, and then have him pick out books and then read. I think, for the time, energy & money, this is the best way to promote literacy. Also, turn everyday things into reading/learning events. You can point out words at the grocery store or other places. I agree with you on the workbook thing, unless of course you kid LOVES workbooks. Keep it playful and fun, your child will learn to read. Don't become frustrated if he's not reading right away. In many (and highly literate -- as in more so than the US) countries, reading isn't even taught until about 7. Good luck & have fun!!

I come from a family of 5 kids, and all 5 of us learned to read using the "McGuffey Readers" collection. The summer before I started kindergarten I was 4 years old and my older siblings told me that kindergarteners know how to read, so I took the set of books, locked myself in a closet, and, as my mom says, learned how to read that same day.

I don't really recall exactly how the books are structured, but they seem to be a tried and true aide.

I used the Hooked on Phonics program from Costco and "Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Lesson" to teach my children. My son read at 3 yrs. old and my daughter at 4. I just did one-3 lessons a week, maybe 5-15 minutes each. I find the combo helped them to decode that letters makes words and words make stories. Both my children are avid readers now. Once your son learns the alphabets and its phonics, he can start to put the sounds together. Good luck.

We love the Dr. Suess books. My kids loved story time at the library. Also, the Wheaton Public Library has phonic books. I used to read them with my daughter. They focus on each letter/word combination. They have a special section close to the toy/puzzle area. You can also check out some books on tape so he can read along. In kindergarten, my son had to find something around the house that started with the letter of the day and bring it to school. It was fun. That might be a fun game.

I also used Teach Your Child to Read in 100 easy Lessons, the author is Siegfried Englemann, you can find it on Amazon for $15. Both of my older kids were reading around 3 1/2-4 yrs old, the whole book took us about 3 months to complete, but they are reading basic words from the beginning. My kids really enjoyed the book, too. My son would beg me for more lessons, but sometimes I just had to cut him off for the night. All their teachers have been very impressed with how advanced they are in reading. My daughter is in kindergarten this year and her teacher has had to find her an entirely different set of readers for her to use at school because even the highest level they used in the classroom didn't come close to meeting her needs. I definitely plan to use this book with my younger kids. You may even check to see if your library has it so you can preview it before you buy it.

Hi, this is very exciting! My daughter is 4 as well and she reads on the 1 grade level books (not to brag, just sharing my experience :) ) English is not my first language so I don't think I am the "perfect example" for her or teach her, but I read to her daily since the day she was born. We also use the leapfrog tag pen since she was 3.
Start with his favorite subject and get the level 1 reading books. My daughter started with Thomas the tank engine. As for workbook, we started the first copy 4 months ago and I was surprised how much my daughter enjoys it, we use Flash Forward reading.
Have fun and enjoy, both of you!