January 23, 2007,
C.G. asks from Philadelphia, PA on January 22, 2007
Making Love with My Daughter Father
I really want a son by him should I trap him or talk to him aboout children. No we are not together. He lives in Virginia.
K.B. answers from Philadelphia on January 23, 2007
Everyone seems to be saying the same thing and I tend to agree, why stress yourself out more with taking care of your daughter and being pregnant with a man who is not around now? besides what happens when you get pregnant and you find out the baby is another girl. Will you keep trying till you have a boy with him, would he even want to? If you are hell bent on having another child with your daughter's father you should def. talk to him about it. Never trap a guy....he might resent you and the baby and then where would you be? I hope that it all works out for.
K.M. answers from Philadelphia on January 22, 2007
YOU SHOULD REALLY SPEAK TO HIM ABOUT THIS, TRAPPING HIM TO ANOTHER CHILD WOULD NOT BE A GOOD IDEA, HE MIGHT RESENT YOU FOR THIS, YOU DIDN'T SAY IF YOU WERE TOGETHER AS A COUPLE,I WOULD DEFINITLY DISCUSS THIS WITH HIM.
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I.M. answers from Philadelphia on January 22, 2007
hey i would think about what im getting my self in to i have one am i ready for a nother ,and if im not with this guy why do i want another one think girl then come back with the right one
J.G. answers from Philadelphia on January 22, 2007
You should never trap anyone into doing anything!
Why do you want so desperately to have a son with this man? What makes him so special that you feel the need to trap him? What is going on with you in your life that you have to even think about going there?
You say in your bio that you are a stressed out single mother, why add one more to the melodrama? It doesn't get any easier alone and what if this guy bounces ... then what?! Your stuck holding the bag and responsible for the lives of 2 innocent children.
Give him the option of deciding whether he wants to be a father and have another baby with you. Talk to him and if he chooses not to then deal with it, go on with your business, raise your daughter and find a willing participant.
S.J. answers from Philadelphia on January 22, 2007
Trapping him his definintely not a good idea. Just because you have children together doesn't mean he has to stay around. You said it yourself, you're a single stressed out mother. If you have another baby it'll just be worse, especially if he leaves, that's assuming you have some sort of relationship right now. I would definitely talk to him about it. Why do you feel you need to trap him anyway? Do you have doubts about your relationship?