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Lunch Ideas for a Picky Eater

I need ideas for my daughter's lunch at school. She is 6 and in first grade. The only veggies she likes are mashed potatoes, lettuce, and carrot sticks. She won't eat lunch meat or tuna. She won't eat anything cold that is supposed to be hot, like pizza or hot dogs. There is no microwave available, and I can't send anything with peanut butter (school rule). I have been sending her with either a cheese pizza lunch kit (which is really unhealthy and she doesn't really like them cold) or a bagel with cream cheese. I add fresh fruit, some sort of cracker type snack, and a container of water. These lunches are going to get old really fast if I am sending them almost every day. Occasionally, she will eat what they are serving for hot lunch, but maybe only once a week. I need help!

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Thank you for all of your suggestions. I sat down with my daughter and we talked about what she would and would not eat in her lunch. Basically I told her I was not going to send her a bunch of junk and that we needed to come up with a plan that included healthy choices. She agreed to eating the hot lunch at school if there were at least 2-3 items on the menu that she liked. On the days that I send a lunch, she would get either a bagel with cream cheese, yogurt, cheese, or a sunbutter sandwich along with fruit, some sort of snack that she picks out, and water or milk. I suggested the thermos idea and she was totally grossed out by it. Don't know why, I would have loved that in my lunch as a child. I've also been checking out the suggested websites for ideas to hide veggies into foods she already eats. I found that I can puree veggies and mix them with the cream cheese and she'll eat it. Lastly, I talked to the cook at school about other choices for picky eaters, and she told me the kids don't get a choice until 4th grade, but if my daughter doesn't want the taco meat and only wants lettuce and cheese in a shell, she will do that. She will also stop putting dressing on her salad because she won't touch it if it has dressing on it. The woman was very understanding, and said she has to follow the guidelines for nutrition, but can make some changes here and there if it would get my daughter to eat at school.

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Experiment with different kinds of canned beans. My kids for one love garbanzo beans with a touch of italian dressing and another fav is rotini pasta and a pinch of italian dressing (good seasons) hummus and pita is fun and easy too!!
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TriciaK

when I was a kid I was super picky as well. My mom used to send me with the good old thermos filled with spaghetti or a hot dog with chili, or mac and cheese. I had no access to a microwave either, but everything stayed pretty hot for me. I'd try it, those were always my favorite lunches. Good luck!

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I've been struggling with the same problem!! However, a dear friend of mine put my tired brain at ease. The solution? A thermos!! If you pour boiling water into a thermos in the morning for about 5 minutes, this does the equivalent of preheating an oven. Pour out the water and insert your hot food that will stay that way until lunch time!! Hot dog in a bun, mac and cheese, chicken nuggest, soup, even pizza!! Maybe I'm a little too excited but it's the little things in life that make me happy. Best of luck!!

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I always suggest this site for school lunches. She has tones of recipes and pictures of her son's lunches. Have you ever tried Sunflower Seed Butter? We can't eat peanuts here and it's SO delicious. We get Sunbutter. Kroger, Target, Albertsons, and natural food stores sell it.

www.weelicious.com

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Try wrapping some cheese in a tortilla. You can either leave it rolled up as is or you can slice it to make pinwheels.

Also, an great alternative to peanut butter is Nutella. It's a hazelnut spread that is often mistaken for CHOCOLATE! Who wouldn't want a chocolate sandwich? I grew up on the stuff and you used to only be able to get it at specialty stores. Now pretty much every grocery store has it. I get mine at Costco because it works out to be much cheaper for what you get.

Since she likes lettuce you can always pack her a nice salad with some fruit and maybe crackers on the side...goldfish, or even pretzles. I do that for my daughter quite often. I just stick it in a conainer and pack a small container of salad dressing or a little packet if I have one left over from carryout salad.

Will she eat pasta salad? That could be a nice change. You can dice up the carrots really little or shred them and throw 'em into the pasta salad. Maybe a few peas just to test the waters. I hate peas but will eat them if they are mixed into my food.

Yogurt is always a good thing to put into the lunch. If I find GoGurt on sale I will stick it in the freezer so it is ready to eat by lunch time. String cheese is always fun. I also let my kids have one "treat" as well. Like a pudding, or some sort of snack cake, even fruit snacks.

She may like granola bars.

You can also try having her help you pack her lunch. I find that my kids are more likely to eat it if they had a hand in what goes into it.

I keep a variety of those cracker type snacks and different fruits and just change it up every day or every few days. I let them buy the pizza lunch once a week too. Gives them something to look forward to.

My daughter will go through a phase where she only wants one kind of sandwich for a whole month but I change up the sides to keep it interesting.

Good Luck and Happy Eating!

why not a jelly sandwich... it can be on flat bread or torillas. preztels or a simple trail mix...it doesn't have to be store bought but some of her favorite snacks all together! poptarts may not be the healthest but they work in place of a sandwich. my son also likes ritz bits cheese crackers. hope this helps some...i also have a picky eater.

I'm in the exact same boat as you! I posted the question the other day on here. Here are the suggestions I got, I'll check back on your question to see what responses you get. :)

http://www.mamapedia.com/questions/9617212524176998401

My kids like hummus and crackers or cheese and crackers. Also frozen yogurts which by lunch are yogurt.

What about whole wheat noodle salads? Many are made to serve cold, and you could search the internet for recipes. Many use shaved carrots and cabbage (maybe she will make the transition from lettuce to cabbage?) with other nuts, like almonds. Also, what about a shredded chicken lettuce wrap? It's easy to add grapes or chopped apples to chicken salad, which is meant to be cold and could be served in a lettuce wrap or pita. Good luck!

Check out weelicious.com she has a whole thing where she takes pics of her son's school lunches everyday. Some of the stuff I am surprised that her son will eat, but at least you could get some ideas. The web site is great, easy, really healthy ideas. Good luck!

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