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JFF - Sex Updates on FB

Ok - so this bugs me to no end - but I have a "friend" on FB (only in FB terms is she a friend - really an acquaintance) and she is constantly posting sex updates on FB. For example - yesterday she had a whole thing about "afternoon delight" and her hubby - umm - gross!!! Sorry - I'm all for healthy sexual appetities and have never turned down a mid week nooner (lol) but I didn't feel the desire to advertise to the whole world on FB that I'd just got it on.

I know I can unsub her (which I have done in the past) but I just think it's kinda over the top and really nasty to constantly post updates about getting it on with your spouse.

Who agrees/disagrees???

What can I do next?

So What Happened?™

THanks all - at least I'm not alone in thinking it's over the top. I don't really want to respond in any way cause we aren't "friends" but I've tried twice to hide her posts - they keep showing up!! LOL - I keep telling my hubby I"m going to respond with "me too - my hubby just rocked my world" or something equally gross. I do think she is a tad insecure - she even posted once about how they did it twice in one day - gag. I just don't want to know these things...

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Unfriend her and tell her why. She is very inappropriate, to be honest. Her friends and family don't want to hear about this stuff.

Who does her husband work for? She could get him in trouble with his employer. What ELSE does she say or do that is inappropriate? He should never let her meet his co-workers.

You can tell I disagree with the sex talk on FB, can't you!

D.

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almost makes me think she is making up completely just for attention.

Not what i would want to read on FB. tell me about the great sandwich you had for lunch any time.

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The guy that lived across the street from my parents when we moved in (I was in 11th grade) was the same age as me. We are very different people now, not so much then.

While I got pregnant and had my kids early, and an early marriage, I am nore on track than he is with the typical life thing (36 weeks away from my MBA, built and own a home, 3 kids with my husband, and am generally doing well.) He lives in section 8 housing, never got an undergrad, has a son with an ex-gf, and then posted on FB one day about the fact that he had sex twice in one night and it felt great.

I almost vomitted. Really? I just felt like it was so childish and embarrasing for HIM to put that out there.

Who doesn't enjoy that one on one time with their significant other, but to post it anywhere is beyond me.

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You can comment... "ewww...I don't want to read about that!!!"

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Sounds to me like she's faking it, pun definitely intended!!! Prob not having as many mid-day quickies as she wants others to believe. Just skip her posts, and move on to more interesting, less offensive posts :-)

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Unfriend her and tell her why. She is very inappropriate, to be honest. Her friends and family don't want to hear about this stuff.

Who does her husband work for? She could get him in trouble with his employer. What ELSE does she say or do that is inappropriate? He should never let her meet his co-workers.

You can tell I disagree with the sex talk on FB, can't you!

D.

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Of course it's inappropriate to advertise that on FB, I don't care if "that's just the way you are" or not. You said she's an "acquaintance" and she's constantly posting stuff like this, so why haven't you de-friended her by now and kept it that way?

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almost makes me think she is making up completely just for attention.

Not what i would want to read on FB. tell me about the great sandwich you had for lunch any time.

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Sounds lame to me, hopefully she'll grow out of that and be embarrassed that she ever posted that stuff. Sounds like plain ol' immaturity to me.

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What is she, 16? How immature. I'd unfriend her in a heartbeat. Yuck.

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I agree it is over the top. Really, at least in my opinion, any repetitive posting on any subject gets a bit much. Like in your friends case, you have a good sex life, thanks for sharing, right? I have a friend who when I log on can have ten posts in a row about how much she loves her husband, son, daughter, family, god, her kids school. Yeah got it, don't need to see it ten times a day. Trust me forever burned on my brain!

Sound about right?

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