K.R. asks from Denton, TX on November 08, 2010
International Travel in 3Rd Trimester
Hi everyone. My boss has requested I come to London for work when I will be 33 weeks pregnant. He understands if I can't b/c of the pregnancy, but nonetheless, I would like to prove myself a committed team member, and if travel is deemed safe for me, I'd like to go. I have a midwife appointment tomorrow and intend to bring this up with my midwife of course.
That being said, I've traveled overseas while pregnant several times in the past, but never in the 3rd trimester (although I have traveled domestically on a plane as late as 35 weeks). I have always had low-risk, full-term pregnancies, and have no reason to suspect at this point that this one would be any different.
I also want to mention I will be in London, where there is great prenatal care, should I go into early labor, and I also have a brother who lives a few miles from where I'll be staying, so I have some family support. I'll be traveling in business class, so the flight will be relatively comfortable and I won't be too cramped. I also checked with my insurance and I'm covered should I need emergency care related to the baby.
How late did you travel while pregnant? Any experiences anyone could share?
Thanks,
K
***I just wanted to edit to add PLEASE read above paragraph. I am ok to travel according to the airline and my insurance covers care while I am there up until 40 weeks. I also have family there, so yes I have a safe place for baby on the remote chance she should be born there***
***Also wanted to add I am looking for experience from those who traveled late in pregnancy - I'm not looking for random opinions***
***I do not have an OB, just a midwife - she is my decision maker***
THANK YOU to the responses I have gotten so far.
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Thanks everyone.
I'm not sure what to do. I definitely don't WANT to go in the grand scheme of things. I would prefer to stay home with my two boys and my large pregnant self! But I work for a company that is based in London, and part of my job requirements are to make occasional trips there to see my team in person, and help out during particularly busy times for our business. I have not been there since March of this year. If I choose not to go in January (when I'm 33 weeks), then I'll be pushing a year by the time the baby is born. My concern then is that I won't have much leverage to say "no" when they ask me to come, and I have a nursing baby at home. To me the lesser evil is to just suck it up and go now (if it is safe), and then be able to hopefully push off another trip for a year, until my baby is weaned. It's a catch-22. I do love my job, I have been with the company for 6 years, and they treat me VERY well. But unfortunately, since I negotiated to move and live in Dallas, part of the agreement is to travel to the home office. And so far they have been very fair and understanding that I have children at home. So....ugh. I wish I wasn't in this position.
Of course if I have a premature baby it would be a disaster for me to have to stay in London for 7+weeks until she is ready to leave the hospital. I have 2 little boys (1.5 and 3.5) here, that I could never be away from that long. So really I need to consider what the true odds are that I WOULD go into labor at that very early stage (after having two completely healthy and full-term pregnancies already). I can't avoid everything in my life due to unlikely "what-if" scenarios. I need to make a logical and educated decision. Again...ugh.
Thanks everyone for the feedback on your own experiences.
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D.B. answers from Charlotte on November 08, 2010
Better find out what the airline says about it. There is a cutoff for most of them, and you have to have a letter from your doctor if you show a lot. The airline really doesn't want a birth while they're over the Atlantic!
I got a letter for a domestic flight with my second child. I was 6 months along and HUGE! I was worried that someone would want to know how far along I was, so I got a letter from the doctor.
That would be your best bet, but your doctor needs to clear you, K.. Ask him or her first before you commit to your boss.
All my best,
D.
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J.B. answers from Atlanta on November 08, 2010
As someone who writes a lot of documentation for the travel industry, just make sure that you have documentation for an actual MD (I know you're using a midwife and that's great, but to a pesky ticket agent or the wrong airline official -not the same), showing that you are fine to fly. Before you purchase a ticket, speak to the airline you plan to fly and ask them if they have any policy about pregnant women flying. A number of airlines can and will refuse you boarding privileges if you're in your 3rd trimester! It's great that you've flown before when pregnant, so have I, but a lot of times it comes down to the individuals you're dealing with when you are at the airport and boarding the plane. Make sure you have a name, job title and ph# if possible of the person from the airline who tells you it's fine with that airline to fly. Perhaps you can get them to email you and you can print that out and take it. Better to be safe than sorry (or worse -to be angry, frustrated and have your blood pressure go up because of problems at the airport)!
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S.H. answers from Honolulu on November 08, 2010
Depends on your Doctor okaying it....not just the Mid-wife saying so...
Depends on the airlines... each being different
Depends... on IF say, you do go into labor early... and thus can't work... and with a Newborn... will you then... feel good about traveling, with a newborn... back to the USA... on an overseas trip... and your newborn... not having had any vaccinations yet... or is exposed to anyone who is sick etc. on a plane? AND if giving birth in the UK... then, again, will your Insurance cover newborn care and subsequent well-baby check-ups etc... and do you have a Pediatrician here in the USA already? You would have to designate one... for Insurance... as well etc.
You said that you are covered for "emergency care" related to the baby... but is that for ALL baby care/check ups and everything??? Or are there exceptions???
How long... will you have to stay in the UK????
If it is just a short jaunt... I would not fly there, just for say 1 week... and being 33 weeks pregnant... just to prove to my boss... that I can do it.
How long have you been with this company?
Do you qualify yet... for FMLA leave???? After you give birth? Have you planned your maternity leave or absence with your Company yet???
Once baby is born, for me personally... I would not want to fly... overseas... with a Newborn... especially in the baby's first 3 months.. just because a newborn's immune system is not even fully developed yet. I heard of a couple, that lost their baby, on a domestic trip... because the baby contracted Pertussis, and had not yet received, the vaccination for it. For example.
Just some things I would think about... if I were 33 weeks pregnant. And of course, I would consult with my Husband about it... since it has to do with him as well... and how he feels about my and the baby's... well being etc.
Next: so you will be 33 weeks, at the time of this trip. But... then, how many weeks pregnant, will you be when the trip is over and you have to return to the USA???? Will you be too far long at that point, to take a plane ride... overseas???
And will it be winter time at that time??? If so, it will be darn cold... in the UK and for a newborn... if you have it there. Do you have baby gear/winter clothes/strollers/car seats at your disposal... in the UK, and for on the plane ride back... if you do need to and if your baby is born there????
ALSO.... if your baby is born there in England... she/he will not be a "US" Citizen??? I would check on that....
My OB/GYN for example... from about 35 weeks, forbids travel. AND he typically signs off a woman from work... from about 37 weeks or 38 weeks.
All the best,
Susan
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L.L. answers from Topeka on November 08, 2010
Nope i'll stay right here at home..
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L.S. answers from Spokane on November 08, 2010
Personally I wouldn't risk it, but it's totally up to your doctor/midwife and you. It sounds like you're being really responsible about the whole thing and I'm sure if you go with your instincts you'll make the right decision for you :)
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S.J. answers from Dallas on November 09, 2010
I also use a midwife & have had 4 healthy full term pregnancies. I am 33 weeks right now and just got back tonight from a short 2 night trip from Dallas to Birmingham. No problems at all. Didn't even think about not flying. BUT, London is far away, that's a super long flight & you have 2 young boys to think about should anything happen while you are there. I have never flown overseas, but would not like to deliver by myself, without my husband, in a premature situation like that. Can you go right now, when you are not so far along? I'm like you, I wouldn't want to leave my new baby either should you be "forced" to go after the baby arrives. I'm interested to see what you decide! Good luck with this one!
M.K. answers from Dallas on November 09, 2010
I haven't flown in late pregnancy, but I have been on a 3 hour car trip at 31 weeks. All the little bumps brought on some contractions - my husband and I had to pull off the road a couple times for me to pace and take some deep breaths to stop them. I promised myself that I would never do that again! A plane ride may be more or less bumpy, just depending on the weather that day.
D.C. answers from Dallas on November 10, 2010
My midwife wasn't thrilled about me traveling at 33 weeks, but I did it anyway. No problems. I didn't fly as far as London. Although you can never know what's going to happen for sure, the odds are in your favor. You've had normal full-term pregnancies before and haven't shown any signs (I'm assuming) of anything other than a normal full-term pregnancy this time. Do what you have to do. It's just my opinion, but I think it would be easier to go now than to leave a nursing newborn at home.
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