girl, im working on that as well! i just try and demonstrate each and every time he goes to the bathroom. he does good sometimes and not so well other times. i think it;s just a process. but what i do is when i let him do it on him i make him come show me. i can tell when he knows he did a good job because he comes and runs in and bends over and says LOOK I DID A GOOD JOB!! lmao it just takes time though, i have the same fear as well, i don't want hi to be the stinky kid at school or anywhere else. but the more i think about it, do boys/men ever really get that together???