My mom played the martyr or said wait until your dad gets home. Or both. When Dad got home, there was a spanking with a belt. (Looking back, and having discussed this concept with my husband, I'm sure Dad HATED that-- as he wasn't the one imposing the punishment but was put in the position of having to carry it out. But times were different back then--- uh--- 30 some odd years ago).... I rarely got spanked, but I had two older brothers who I watched and learned from. They got more spankings than me and I learned from their mistakes to some degree.
Generally speaking, we were pretty good kids. We experimented with smoking once. My older brothers probably sampled some alcohol- but I don't know about it if they did. We were latch-key kids to some degree. When we were older (teen years) we weren't spanked anymore, but we were grounded. Which basically meant no going anywhere. Not down the street, not to some friend's house, not to a party or sleepover, not to the movies... etc. We still had to (got to) go to any extracurricular activities we were a part of (band, football, etc) but we were required to come directly home and no hanging out with friends afterwards, or post game drivethru etc...
The worst thing I probably learned from my parents' style of discipline, was how to guilt my kids. I catch myself sometimes and it makes me feel sick. :( My mom STILL does stuff like that sometimes, and I just ignore it-- or on occasion call her on it. But I have to be careful, b/c sometimes Dad will agree with me, and sometimes he will defend her. It all depends on how close to HIM it is, lol. I try to ignore it, unless it involves my kids. And then, I defend my kids. My dad is often a big kid himself (and always has been that way-- he gets the kids more and more wound up the more he "seems" like he is trying to calm them down-- him reading bedtime stories to them? Forget it.. it becomes a wrestling match and belly laughing comic fest. That sort of thing). Until he is "done". Then he expects the dynamic to instantly change to "now you go to sleep and I am done". Uhhhh..... no Dad. It doesn't really work that way. :/
It was a very different time than today. Then, parents were just trying to keep a roof over their family's head and dinner on the table and get the kids through school, hoping to save something for retirement along the way. Today, parents are more concerned about the quality of memories they are building for their kids. And how to either provide them with EVERYTHING and/or to shelter them FROM everything. Families are almost completely child centered. Rather than marriage centered. And I for one, think that is a mistake. Of course, there are a lot more blended families these days, and that skews the whole well being of the marriage first before the kids concept. In a "whole" nuclear family unit, if the marriage is well kept, then typically the family as a whole and the children as a part of that are well kept as well, as it flows out of the marriage. That just seems like it is missing more and more today.
Sorry-- I seem to have gotten off point. LOL