Help from Moms with ADD Teenagers

Eliminating milk has helped my son tremendously. I can always tell when he has gotten something with dairy in it.

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Let the kid take his medicine!!!
It's not his father's decision, your son is 16 and if the meds help him in school, etc. he is old enough to understand and weigh in on the decision. My husband is ADD and still takes meds before work. He calls them his smart pills. You don't outgrow ADD.
I also knew a boy who didn't get on meds until he was 15. He was amazed at the difference they made. He used to get into trouble all the time. Once on the meds he was much happier and stopped most of his disruptive behaviors.
Those of us without ADD can't understand what they are dealing with.

A.,
You also might want to use CHADD as a resource. This is the national non-profit organization for Children and Adults with Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. There's a chapter here in Northern Virginia that I coordinate. Along with parent suport groups, presentations, and a resource library, we also have monthly meetings. Their website is www.chadd.org

Good luck to you!

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My 20 year old cousin has ADD and has been on medication for some time.

I have started to learn more about natural remedies. Every case is individual, but there are somethings that you can do with diet and nutrition that can help. I believe Americans are overmedicated and under educated when it comes to many health related issues.

I would do some research and possibly consult a nutritionist and a Naturopath for alternatives.

There is some good information on www.naturalnews.com
Here is one article:
http://www.naturalnews.com/021978.html

Be Well and Take Care.

A lot are people are low in EFA, here's an article for you!
http://www.causeof.org/efa_d.htm#DefADD
Essential Fatty Acids
Hope it helps!!

http://www.natural-health-information-centre.com/essentia...

I might be a good move!

years ago a friend of mine discovered that her daughter had ADD. At first i really wasn't for all these kids being put on drugs--thats how i saw it.

To have Sissy diagnosed, they went to AI DuPont, Wilmington, DE. its a hospital that specializes in diagnosing and treating children...one of the leading in the country.

well they took Sissy up there, ran her through tests and found out (as they have in many children) that her ADD came from her g.father being exposed to agent orange in Vietnam/gulf War. it seems to skip a generation and then goes to the g.children. their body chemicals are changed and they need these type of 'nutirients' to take because they are lacking them and their body does not make it.

Sissy went from almost being kicked out of school for the way she was acting (age 11) and almost being put in the 'retarded group' to an honor roll student. she is now 17, has a job after school, drives a vehicle and is one of the most incredible people you could ever meet. she isn't 'high' on these things--she is normal. she also found she has an incredible singing voice and is shortly going to be put on TV as the church she attends is on TV on Sun. mornings.

I understand where your husband is coming from, but give him this letter. If i hadn't seen it with my own eyes, i would have never believed it. make sure your son is diagnosed properly for he is at a point in school where it will either make him or break him for college if his body chemicals are not aligned up properly so he can get passing grades. It would be a very big mistake to screw him up now and he pay for it the rest of his life with low self esteem, etc.

There are also ADD and ADHD adults. it really is a sympton that something is wrong that needs to be corrected. all of this has come a long way from whence it all began.

God bless you,
Pastor L.

Hi A.!
My son is ADD (now 19). We tried a lot of meds - they either made him sick or he was a zombie. Check with the school, there should be a team to help you. Usually it's the counselor, Phychologist, & some of the teachers. There's a lot of different things you can do to keep your child on task (also depends on the severity of the problem). Sometimes it's just remind, remind, remind (or nag, nag, nag). My son graduated in the 98 percentile, but hates school, so college was not an option. What we or I should say he decided was to join a union where they give you a job but in return you have to go to school for 5 years (2 nights a week 6-9 & every some many Saturdays). He makes 16.09 hr. & in 250 hrs. will have full health benefits. He belongs to the Plumbers & Steamfitters Union Local 486 in Rosedale. Have to have a diploma or GED & you have to pass their test (alot of math). But then you're in. My husband did the same thing (only he was a lot older).
Basically what I'm getting at is for us it was finding a nitch for my son - interest is a major thing. Without interest comes boredom, & problems. What's the saying? "Patience is a virtue"
E-mail me if I can help in any way.
Good luck.

A.,

My husband is ADD/HD and using a gluten free diet worked for him. I will warn you though, it is VERY expensive. Good Luck.

Hi A.,

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Good Luck. D.

I would check into the Feingold Diet. Just google FEINGOLD DIET and you will get tons of information. There is also a yahoo group you can join and interact with others who are on the diet. Since your son is 16 he may be resistant to totally changing his diet. HOwever the diet will work! It is based on removing additives and preservatives from the diet.

-Nicole

Hi A.!
I believe that if you check out http://www.feingold.org website you will find much help to your problem. For instance, I was surprised to learn that many foods we eat - those with artificial colors, sugars, etc. - are made from petrolium!!
And we wonder why kids are so cranked up and can't concentrate!!!
Let us know what you think after you've checked it out!

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I'm wondering what your son thinks? Does the medicine help, are his grades satisfactory, does he feel more focused on the medication, does he have any complaints about being on the medicine? Those question stated; I have a 15 year old who did very well on adderall. He decided he didn't like how it "changed his personality" so he stopped taking it. His grades dropped dramatically and his behavior became pretty inconsistently disrespectful. He had decided trying some other illegal substances was more enjoyable than daily life, school success. Adderall interfered with his other choices.
I don't encourage any parents to put their children on add
meds, however, when these medications work for a child the difference in their life is evident. Wonder why dad has changed his mind?
The only suggestions I know of are to limit caffine, have a very structured daily schedule and pray. No real science to
prove this; but I have read a tremendous amount about add - adhd and tried to guide my son back on track.
Good Luck, going it alone is always challenging. Don't forget to take time for yourself each day.

A.

I am sorry that I am not knowledgeable about treating ADD, and I do not have suggestions.

I did want to suggest that you should be careful if you have any leftover ADD medication lying around. I am guardian ad litem to many children in the court system who have begun abusing drugs by abusing prescription drugs for ADD. Children have learned that if they save up their daily pills and take too many at once, they get a "spin". This is, I'm afraid, a very common practice. It's the new gateway drug.

Dear A.,
My 9 year old grandson was diagnosed with ADD. His mom and dad decided, after much prayer and doctor consultations, NOT to put him on medications but to go the natural nutritional supplements first. He is doing much better. He takes Shaklee Vita-Lea and Omega Guard (double the recommended dosage). The Shaklee Omega Guard is made from 100% pure fish oil. All of the products are 100% guaranteed. You can check this out at http://www.shaklee.net/lolahilton. Also, maybe you could cut back on his current meds while trying alternatives to see how he does. Just keep encouraging him and letting him know how much you love him as does Jesus.
God Bless, L. H