Daycare Concerns

Updated on June 13, 2008
C.K. asks from Saint Paul, MN
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I am starting to have concerns about my son's daycare, and I'm looking for other opinions and perspectives. I'd especially like to hear from anyone who works or has worked at a daycare.

The daycare provider, I'll call her "Jane", rents a 1 bedroom apartment in our complex, and runs the daycare there. She does not live there; the apartment is for the sole purpose of her daycare. She keeps the kids confined to just the living room, which is something like 15 x 20, not real huge. The play area, tables for eating, cribs and cots are all in the living room. My son will not take a nap there, because he can't sleep with all the commotion. She uses the bedroom for storage. Wouldn't it make more sense to have the bedroom be the sleeping area? If we keep bringing him there, I am going to ask her to put him in the other room for naps.

She told me she is getting her license this month. I asked her how many kids she can have, and she said 10. She works alone, so obviously the 10 kids can't all be babies or toddlers, right? Does anyone know how many babies and toddlers a licensed daycare with 1 adult can have? When I picked my son up on Monday, there will 5 other kids that all appeared to be under 2. My son is 5 months, there was a 2 month old, and 3 kids that all looked to me around 1-1 1/2. I think this is too many little ones. What do you all think?

My last concern is my biggest. She is open from 6:00 am to 6:00 pm. She is the only worker. When we checked out the place, we were aware of her hours, but she only had 2 other kids, so I wasn't real concerned. I figured it would be easy to have some "down time" with 3 kids. But she has taken on more families, and I just found out that some nights she is there until 8:00 pm! I'm not so sure I want someone who is working 12-14 hour days to be taking care of my son. I think the hours are getting to her. When I picked my son up tonight, she was very short with me. She made me sit down and figure out how much I owed her. I just assumed she'd have that info ready for me. Also, I have seen her be very short several times with a little girl there. Now this girl appears to be a handful, but still.

Another thoughts or perspectives would be appreciated. My son is only there on Monday and Friday afternoons. We are considering getting in-home care.

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So What Happened?

Hi Ladies,

First, I want to thank everyone for their responses.

Let me address the licensing issue.... She opened the daycare in April. She told me that she had surgery when the licensing people were supposed to come out. (This is in Ramsey County.) She said they rescheduled, but told her that she could open her daycare immediately, because she had rented an apartment for the sole purpose of the daycare, and was already paying rent. She received her license this month. I never did check with the county to see if her story was true, but it seemed plausible to me.

And she does have an assistant now. When I was there, I mistook her for one of the mothers.

But that doesn't really matter, because we did pull our son from the daycare after talking with her. I called her this morning, and I said that I was concerned because my son wasn't napping while he was there--was she willing to put him in another room for his nap? She went off on a 10 minute tangent about how her daycare was a "play place" and not a "nap place". She also said that my son had to get use to noise and people--we should take him to the Mall of America more. (?) She said that Americans push naps onto their kids (she's Ethiopian), and he is only at her daycare for 3 to 4 hours, why does he need to nap? She finished the call by saying that if we didn't like it, we should go to another daycare.

But wait, there's more..... Then she called me back, all nicey-nicey, and said that she was sorry she was busy when I called her, and that she had time to talk now. I reiterated my concern. She never did say whether or not she was willing to put him in a different room for naps, but she said that when he was there, he was interested in playing, not napping. I started to talk to her about the number of hours she works each week, and how many kids she had. She went off again, saying that if my husband and I weren't comfortable, we should go elsewhere. The call ended with her saying, "Don't bring him on Monday, okay?". Ok!

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N.B.

answers from Minneapolis on

As others stated, she is in violation in several ways for the state/county rules.

If she is unlicensed, she can only care for children form one family un-related to her.

Once licesned she can likely only have a license that allows for a total of 8 children, 6 of which can be under school age and of that 6, 3 can be under 24 mos, and of that 3, only 2 can be under 12 mos. Confusing, I know, but that is the breakdown. She could get licensed for 10, with 8 under school age and the same under 24 mos breakdown if she qualified with a college education or other specific childcare background as determined by the state/county guidelines at the time of licensing.

A seperate space for infants to sleep in not required (a seperate room), but appropriate spaces (approved, safe cribs or pack N plays for those under 12 mos, sleeping bags, mats, cots, etc for those older, etc...there are regulations and guidelines in place...this is part of what licensing is for.

Honestly I would not recommend anyone send their infant or very young child to an unlicensed care giver (other than a trusted relative). We as licensed providers have rules and regulations that govern our home based businesses...and a professional and conscientious provider will adhere to those regulations and provide a safe and enriching environment for your child to be in while you are attending to your work/school obligations that pull you away from your child.

They should have a contract and policies well written so you know what things are costing and you are both on the same page and expectations on the business side of things (hours and payment, illness policies and time off, etc...forms and permission slips and all of the things required by the county as well)....

If you need some resources for locating childcare, check these places out online. Both are free MN resources for parents to access LICENSED providers and give options to search by city names or zip codes.

www.mnchildcare.org
(right side of the screen asks if you are searching for childcare)
www.providerschoice.com
(left side of the screen asks if you "need childcare in MN?")

Good luck!

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K.B.

answers from Minneapolis on

Hello,

I was a licensed provider in Hennipen County before moving. Here is a link that will explain the ratio of kids to an adult. First off since she is NOT licensed, she is not allowed to care for more than 1 unrelated family at a time. Also, she has WAY to many infants in her care.

If it was me I would take my child out immediatly. It may be convinent to take your baby there, but I wouldn't sacrifice my childs well being for that.

I don't know if you signed a contract with her, but if you didn't you would not be required to give notice. If you did sign something that stated you would give a 2wk notice, than you would have to give her notice, even if it meant paying her for those 2 weeks even though your child would not be going to her. You would have a leg to stand on if you didn't want to give notice (if required), as she is providing Daycare without a license and has too many kids in her care.

Good Luck!

https://www.revisor.leg.state.mn.us/rules/?id=9502.0367

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P.P.

answers from Minneapolis on

She's breaking the law for providing care unlicensed and I'd report her to authorities. It's up to her to do her research.
http://www.co.ramsey.mn.us/hs/childcare/docs/GeneralLicen...

I'd personally consider leaving her because of her hours and shortness and not being licensed.

My previous daycare lady has never shown shortness with me or any of the kids. The lady before was short with the kids and after she told me she spanked our child we left her.

Here's a link on child/provider ratio's https://www.revisor.leg.state.mn.us/rules/?id=9502.0367

I would want my child in a seperate room to sleep or where there is a wall dividing any activity going on. Both daycares I've had though, the kids slept on the floor or on cots in the livingroom. All kids slept so there was no other activity going on. If for some reason there was someone who wouldn't sleep the provider could take them around the corner in another part of the room and do a quiet activity. At the first lady we had the kids in cribs slept in another room.

You could call the Dakota County licensing center and ask them about their rules. You can check if a person has had a negative action on a license by calling your county’s social service licensing department at ###-###-####.

https://www.revisor.leg.state.mn.us/rules/?id=9502
Subp. 3.Newborn care. When a newborn is in care and only one adult caregiver is present, the newborn shall be the only child under 12 months of age and the provider shall not care for more than two other children at the same time unless another adult caregiver is also present or the newborn is the provider's own.

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V.

answers from Minneapolis on

Get your child out and find another LICENSED daycare. You may have to pay more but your child's wellbeing is well worth it. Good luck!

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N.J.

answers from Minneapolis on

I would say this is a very questionable service, and I honestly would contact the county....first there isn't enough room, and her getting licensed she should already know what the appropriate sleeping areas required by LAW are for children in daycare...

not only would I take my child out, I would report her, immediately.

and no, you are not the one responsible of 'knowing' what you owe her...daycare is still business, she should be responsible for that, you are only to be responsible on your end.

I don't even have a licensed day care I send my boys to, after seeing some of the places who were licensed who I was surprised were licensed, I went with my current, she is right where she should be for the limit of children in her care and she has proper sleeping areas for each child, proper room to play...

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C.K.

answers from Madison on

I agree that you should take your baby out of there today. I wouldn't give any notice, even if you end up paying more. That sounds like a dangerous situation. I can tell you know it's just not right - you should trust your instincts.

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A.E.

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Take your baby out of there!

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