H.B. asks from Rochester, NY on September 07, 2009
Bassinet or Swing
Hi Moms,
I have a dilemma. We just found out the bassinet we were preparing our 2nd baby(4th child) to be in was recalled. We will get store credit which is great but our money is tight. We needed an infant swing and with this credit since I have to get a double stroller too, I wanted to get an item for the baby to sleep in safely, comfortably, and out of reach of our toddler(somewhat). I would like to get a comfy swing that goes forward, backward, side to side, has a mobile and a mirror up top on it. My question is, do you think he will be able to sleep in that okay instead of a bassinet or should I forget the swing and go with a bassinet that rocks and has a mobile. Opinions/advise are appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thanks so much
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So What Happened?™
Hello Moms,
Thanks for all your advice. We have decided to go with a pack and play that has a bassinet.
I think it will be best in long and short run.
thanks again
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A.V. answers from New York on September 08, 2009
Hi there. My 14 week old son sleeps in a swing due to his mild reflux and he loves it. I just said to my hubby I hope we can get him to go in his crib soon!! LOL. Good luck!
E.R. answers from New York on September 08, 2009
It's not a good idea to have the baby sleep in the swing because it's not good for his hips to be bent up like that for long periods of time. It would be best to have him sleep so that his body can move or stretch the way he likes. I had a moses basket which both of my boys outgrew at about 4 months. Now my younger son (7mo) sleeps in a pack and play because my older, 2yo son, is still sleeping in his crib. Also, like others mentioned, he may rely on the rocking to fall asleep and there will come a time when you will have to fix the "accidental parenting". Best to start as early as you can with sleep habits that don't need to be fixed later on!
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B.A. answers from New York on September 08, 2009
In my opinion, I would make sure you get something for your baby to sleep in as opposed to a swing if money is tight. However, I don't know if it would be near you at all, but I know of a children's consignment shop in Dobbs Ferry with very affordable prices and quite a good selection of clothes, toys and necessities for babies. I bought a used pack n play there in great condition for $30! Their website is www.affordablechild.com. It might be worth a look. You can always call them before you go and ask if they have specific items that you are looking for too. It's another alternative to new items, and they don't take things that are not of good quality, so you can always trade in things that you are not using anymore for store credit. Good luck!
B.R. answers from New York on September 08, 2009
Both items have a short shelf life - a bassinet you only use for about the first 6 months, and a swing they outgrow also. I think sleeping in a swing would be weird, and might present some transition problems down the road - but that's only my opinion. Why do you NEED a bassinet? Why not just use a crib from the beginning? They have affordable and reasonably-sized cribs at IKEA FYI.
Good luck.
L.D. answers from Albany on September 08, 2009
Personally I would not consider a swing a "safe" place for the baby to sleep if you have a toddler. I would look into a bassinet or even safer in my opinion because I've seen how the bassinetts can tip when older siblings are trying to lean in to look at the baby, I'd go with a pack and play with the bassinet attached. They come with the vibration and mobiles now sometimes. I'll tell you, my third didn't even use the swing but once or twice. He was not a fan of it and he used the pack and play/bassinet probably more than my older two sons did. I just think with older siblings the pack and play is a sturdier piece of furniture.
For saving money, check out the store through Baby Center. Then do a Google search for Baby Center promos/coupons or something similar. I bought a lot of our things (double stroller, cosleeper, etc.) online through there with 25% off and free shipping promotions! :)
T.W. answers from New York on September 08, 2009
If money is tight, i would skip the swing, some kids just don't like them.
I wish I had seen this when my now close to 1 yr old was born, he HATED his bassinet, and I would have used this instead:
Arm's Reach - Beautiful Dreamer Cocoon
I asked on here if anyone had used it or knew of it, but got now answers. maybe this is the best of both for you, maybe not, but is something to look into.
E.Y. answers from New York on September 08, 2009
My daughter lived in her swing for the first 4 months, but I heard that other babies don't like them. The Amby Baby swing/bassinet is a good recommendation, but it is expensive. I heard that the "Arm's Reach" brand is much cheaper and pretty much the same idea. If I have another baby, I think I would get it. A Pack'n'play with a bassinet attachment is another fairly affordable option that can be used until age 2 or so.
M.K. answers from New York on September 08, 2009
Only one of our 4 liked the swing.
I agree with the idea of a pack n' play, our twins loved it and spent the first 6 mos of their lives in the bassinet attachment. Once they wer too big for that, it was a safe place for them to play without a toddler being able to poke or fall on them.
Congratulations and best of luck!
E.R. answers from New York on September 08, 2009
It's not a good idea to have the baby sleep in the swing because it's not good for his hips to be bent up like that for long periods of time. It would be best to have him sleep so that his body can move or stretch the way he likes. I had a moses basket which both of my boys outgrew at about 4 months. Now my younger son (7mo) sleeps in a pack and play because my older, 2yo son, is still sleeping in his crib. Also, like others mentioned, he may rely on the rocking to fall asleep and there will come a time when you will have to fix the "accidental parenting". Best to start as early as you can with sleep habits that don't need to be fixed later on!
S.P. answers from New York on September 08, 2009
What about the Amby bed? I don't have personal experience, but it seems like a good mix of swing AND bassinet. http://www.ambybaby.com/
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