S.P. asks from Brandon, MS on September 19, 2006
Avoiding Behavioral Issues in down Syndrome Toddler
We are grandparents raising our 2 year old Down Syndrome grandson. Does anyone have any suggestions about how to stop him from throwing his food and cups. He screams and hollars until he gets his way for everything he wants. We are committed to him totally and any advise or suggestions we can get will be appreciated.
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He has had early intervention since he was 6 weeks old. It was interupted due to "Katrina". He is getting O.T.,P.T., Speech, special ed. He is making progress but is somewhat delayed but is more typical than special needs. Maybe he is going thru "terrible twos".. Thanks all
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V.C. answers from Knoxville on October 04, 2006
i was there a few months ago. What we did was... whe would all eat together. if she threw something, we would simply take it away and keep on eating, ignoring the behavior. also we made a rule that no one is finished until everyone is finished. my mosaic downs daughter has really caught on and improved when the fit and actin is simply brushed off and given little attention. hope that helps!!
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A.D. answers from Savannah on September 19, 2006
I have never had to raise or work with a child with Downs Syndrome but want to provide a few links below that I feel will be of help to you and your grandchild. Here they are:
http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/medical/genetic/down_syn...
http://www.betterhealthchannel.vic.gov.au/bhcv2/bhcArticl...
http://www.handsonhealth-sc.org/golocal/golocal.php?nid=2...
The last link is a web link to a local Savannah area support group; if you are in the Savannah or outlying area.
All three links should be able to put you well on the way with answers and support. Please let me know if these link are defective or if you have any further questions.
Good Luck,
A.
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V.C. answers from Knoxville on October 04, 2006
i was there a few months ago. What we did was... whe would all eat together. if she threw something, we would simply take it away and keep on eating, ignoring the behavior. also we made a rule that no one is finished until everyone is finished. my mosaic downs daughter has really caught on and improved when the fit and actin is simply brushed off and given little attention. hope that helps!!
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T. answers from Chattanooga on September 19, 2006
As a speech pathologist, I would also recomend that he be evaluated for speech-language as well as occupational therapy. Does he speak now? How many words does he have? How does he communicate with you? It may be that screaming and yelling is the only way he has to let you know there is a problem. Sign language is sometimes very helpful with these children because it helps to reduce the frustration for both of you. Therefore, his speech and language sklills may improve. As a down syndrome child under age 3, he would qualify for early intervention services in most states. Speech and/or occupational therapy could come to your home to provide therapy at little or no cost to you (depending on income level, the state, and other factors). He may need occupational therapy too to help him work on feeding himself and performing other activities of daily living. Good luck!
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A. answers from Jackson on September 19, 2006
I don't know how to specifically correct the problem. Given he is considered a special needs child, you may want to contact a local down syndrome support group for help. You may also want to consider whether he may need physical or occupational therapy. If he's not already receiving it, he may need some extra help learning different skills. His yelling and screaming may be from frustration as much as temper.
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J.K. answers from Birmingham on September 20, 2006
Do not have any experience with a child with Down's Syndrome, however, it seems you can handle the situtation in the same way with any child. I would just take his food and cup away and let him know that you assume he is finished with his meal, and can now get up from the table. This behavior is unacceptable and will not be tolerated at the table.
My kids seem to begin playing with their food, throwing things when they are bored or through.
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C.D. answers from Atlanta on September 21, 2006
Is he involved in Babies Can't Wait?
Down Syndrome diagnoses automatically make a child eligible for the program until the child is 3. This is a great resource for parents (or grandparents). A service coordinator could get you information, along with any therapies that are needed for your grandchild. To make a referral call 1-888-736-5329.
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S.M. answers from Memphis on June 18, 2007
I worked as a preschool teacher in an early intervention program. I have some experience working with children with Down Syndrome. I know language is a common issue with children who have this special need. Although this is typical behavior of a 2 year old, he is letting out his frustration because of his inability to communciate (I am assuming). Be persistant, make picture cues for him to refer to (transition cards). You can make pictures of emotions, things he wants needs, etc. I used to carry the cards on my name tag. I would have pictures of every step of the day. Down to going potty. Here is an example of how it can work:
Instead of saying time to go potty, most likely he will ignore.
1. Show the picture of the potty to the child
2. State what it means to the child.
3. Have the child repeat it back.
4. Follow through on task.
When he is frustrated make a board of emotions. Have him go to the board and point to the happy, sad, mad etc.
This sounds long and tedious but believe me it works like magic!!
R.T. answers from Huntsville on September 21, 2006
Is there a Down Syndrome support group in the area?
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