J.B. asks from Natick, MA on December 17, 2010
At What Age Have You Transitioned from Bath to Shower?
I'm interested to learn folks' experiences with transitioning kids from bath to shower, and also at what age people feel comfortable their kids will do a good job with self-bathing? Do experiences differ with boys vs girls, also with multiple kids? I have a boy (5) and girl (2.5), and they both really enjoy their bath time. My daughter is much more interested in self-bathing than my son, whose sole focus is on playing in the bath. They think it is fun to have the shower turned on at the end of their bath, but it is more of a game than anything. I'm not in any hurry to push them out of the tub, but just curious how others handle this.
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Thanks Ladies! Great information. I love asking these questions, as there are always so many ways to raise our kids, and it is fun to see the different approaches - on the more important and the more mundane questions. I think we'll stick with the bath and focus on building the self-bathing skills for a while.
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G.T. answers from Modesto on December 17, 2010
Mine started showers when they started kindergarten. I always had them shower in the morning .... part of the wake up routine. Breakfast would be on the table after they got out and dried off. Robes on, school clothes AFTER breakfast to save a re-dress.
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M.J. answers from Dover on December 17, 2010
I would say around 6, but for my daughter I still washed her hair for her up until she was close to 9 because she's mixed & just has a ton of hair. My son is 11 & once in a while I still have to remind him to really wash behind his ears & stuff like that because I think he just forgets.
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M.J. answers from Dover on December 17, 2010
I would say around 6, but for my daughter I still washed her hair for her up until she was close to 9 because she's mixed & just has a ton of hair. My son is 11 & once in a while I still have to remind him to really wash behind his ears & stuff like that because I think he just forgets.
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G.T. answers from Modesto on December 17, 2010
Mine started showers when they started kindergarten. I always had them shower in the morning .... part of the wake up routine. Breakfast would be on the table after they got out and dried off. Robes on, school clothes AFTER breakfast to save a re-dress.
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D.P. answers from Pittsburgh on December 17, 2010
My son is 7 and he's still getting a bath & I wash his hair.
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C.C. answers from Eau Claire on December 17, 2010
My son (9) started doing self bathing (for the most part) when he started school. I still (even now) go in and make sure he washed his hair, ect. but my daughter (4) gets in the tub ready to wash before she even wants to play. My son still takes both baths and showers, depending on how he feels.
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L.S. answers from Los Angeles on December 17, 2010
I've been showering with my daughter, age 5.5, for probably about 3 years. Recently, I asked if she would like to start showering by herself since she's in kindergarten now, and I can't believe how happy that suggestion made her! OH, the little things in life :) Anyway, I then really began focusing on having her wash her hair on her own while I was in the shower and showing her how to get all the soap out (she has very thick hair like me). Couple days later, she was on her own with me checking in constantly just to keep the process going so that we don't waste too much water. I still help her put conditioner in her hair, but the rest she does on her own and she's very proud of herself! She'll occasionally still take a bath, but she likes showering better now. Good luck!
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C.C. answers from Sacramento on December 17, 2010
My older daughter (just turned 8) takes showers, but this really started this school year, when I finally felt confident that she could wash her thick, curly hair adequately on her own. My younger daughter (5.5) still loves taking a bath, and since her hair is short, it's not difficult to wash it in the bath vs. the shower. I still take care of washing her hair because I don't feel she does a great job of it on her own, but she is capable of washing her body on her own. Sometimes she takes a shower with me, but I think it's not as fun for her as the bath.
C.W. answers from Washington DC on December 17, 2010
My daughter transitioned at at 5. She saw that daddy and mommy took showers and wanted to be like us, and she also wanted to bathe in the mornings, when it just wasn't possible to have a bath. My husband supervises most mornings and we help her with washing her hair and making sure that she is washing everything.
R.D. answers from Kansas City on December 17, 2010
My son transitioned when he no longer fit in the little baby tub for a bath. My house doesn't have a bathtub (I know, right?), so the little bathtub would be in the shower with the long-hanging wand to fill it and help him rinse completely. Once he outgrew it, he had to shower! At first it was with me, then around age three, he was on his own. I still wash his hair and back to ensure it gets done, then sometimes check in on him to see if there are bubbles over his entitre body. I ask if he washed his.....then name random body parts like toes, armpits, anus, shoulders, or whatever.....then take his word for it.
He still gets a bath at Grandma's house. He likes it and also gets to play.
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