Anyone Got Their Tubes Tied?

Updated on September 11, 2008
K.G. asks from Saint Paul, MN
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Has anyone gotten their tubes tied after they had their baby (like right away after, not 6 weeks after)? What did it feel like? Were you scared? After I have my 3rd and last baby in Oct I am getting my tubes tied (after I give birth) and I am a bit scared to get it done (procedure itself). So I would like some reassurance that the procedure will be okay... Again there is no other bc method I am getting or interested in. All I want is 3 children, no more than that. Oh and I will not be getting a c-section

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Thank You for the tidbits everyone. I just wanted info about the procedure cuz i was just afraid to get it done. I am getting it done and i am DONE having KIds. 3 is all my fiancee and I want...

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S.E.

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If you are having a c-section you won't feel a thing. I had my tubes tied after the birth of my last son & it only took about 10 minutes extra from the actual delivery.

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T.M.

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I had my tubes done after I had my last child. I did have this done right after giving birth,I did have a c section though. I did feel scared,but only because I was unsure at that time if that is what I wanted. All during my pregnancy I did in fact want it done. We have 3 children and all were hard pregnancies. My middle child was 2 months premature and I was so uncertain. I just wanted my children to be healthy and not take anymore risks. The day came when they asked again after I had my daughter....And that is when it hit me,I will never be pregnant again,what happens if I changed my mind!!?? Well, a few years later,I had a hysterectomy for medical reasons. So there are NO more babies for sure.

The bad part about having them tied....My periods seemed to get worse and more painful. I am not so sure that is why,but it seemed to happen after I had them tied.

I hope things go as planned and there is alot of thought put into your decision....There is no going back!!! Good luck

T.

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M.C.

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Hi-
I had mine done last November. The only thing I'm regretting about it is I see little babies and I think, I want another one. But I have 3 kids and he has 2 others from before me, so I know we have enough in our house already. I only hurt for a few days. Just like the normal labor pains. I was a little tender in my lower belly for probably about a week. But only when you pushed on it.

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P.S.

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My sister & 2 friends have all gotten their tubes tied & they all recovered rather quickly. They all new it was their last baby so they knew it was the right choice. If you are having a c-section you probably won't notice any changes with pain or comfort but if not my friends said that they felt pretty good within a few days.

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M.N.

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I a mother of two...and got my tubes tied this last time around. I had an emergency c-section with my 3 year old girl and I just had my boy in January as a c-section. I just had them "tie my tubes while they were in there!!" famous last words I say!

Well, I have not felt any different, but really all they did was the c-section cut and well, tied my tubes.

After the c-section I had HORRIBLE gas pains. I was sure that I was going to die. I told my nurse to tell my family I loved them. She had no idea what was happening, because it took my breath away and I couldn't catch it...nothing like my labor pains with my first!!! So honestly that has been my only issue with the tube tying was the gas pain. They said that that could have come with the c-section or the tube tying. So I will hope and pray that you don't get it!! :)

Also, none of my periods have been different. I thought that was kind of odd...was expecting them to be done!! ha ha!! JK!!

Good luck and congrats in October!
M.

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A.B.

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No Problem..... I had my tubes tyed after my third child too, However it was after my 6 week check-up and to be honest I have had worse menstral cramps. It was no big deal at all . All or alot of people say it should be up to the man as it's his turn for some pain. I think why???? Why wish pain onto your spouse? And it was not a problem. They went into the bellybutton area and no scare even. Dont worry. The only diff I can forsee is directly after a birth maybe you would be a little more sore than usual but that's it hope this helps you.

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C.L.

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I considered having my tubes tied, but opted for the Mirena IUD instead, in part based on my doctor's recommendation. Are you scared about the procedure itself (whether it will hurt, side effects, etc.) or are you nervous about the permanency of the procedure? If it is the latter maybe you aren't ready for permanent birth control. You have a few months to think about it. Good luck with whatever you decide and congratulations and best wishes with the new baby.

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D.A.

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I had my tubes tied after the birth of my 3rd child in March, 2007. It took the same amount of time after my c-section to heal. The only difference now is really heavy periods, where before I had almost nothing. I love knowing I can't get pregnant so there has been an increase in the enjoyment of our sex life! That is a good thing. Best of luck to you!

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V.

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I had my tubes tide last spring after the birth of my third child. It was no problem. A little sore but child birth is much more painful!! Good luck!

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B.L.

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You may want to ask your OB/GYN about a procedure called ESSURE. Can be done in the office at 6 weeks - no incisions, far quicker healing time. Not all OBs do the procedure (as they aren't all trained in it), but I would certainly consider it before getting your tubes tied.

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N.S.

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I have not had my tubes tied. In fact, though I have two of my own, I have had a battle with infertility my entire reproductive life. I'd love to have your problem! All I can say is, don't do it. You're really young, this is permanent, and circumstances change. My cousin who is a year younger than me and did this after her 2nd, thinking she'd be with her partner forever. He left her and she is with someone new, but they can not have children together. She regrets it.

Think about it carefully. There are alternatives that are effective but not permanent.

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P.K.

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I had my tubes tied a few years ago in my late 30's. I have had no problems. I consulted with my OB Doctor about having tubes tied vs Essure and what he would recommend if I were his sister-he recommended tubes tied. If you are looking at Essure check out the possible long-term side-effects from this. A nurse told me that you would have scarr tissue inside from this procedure later and that can be very painful. It's a newer procedure and I'm not sure if they really know the effects years down the road. Good luck in your decision and Best wishes with your new baby. Feel free to email me if you have any more questions!

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M.S.

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I got it done almost 3 years ago--right after my son was born, and I had him naturally. It was really easy, they just left the epidural in, and about half an hour after I gave birth, they wheeled me in and did the procedure. I was on pain meds for about 3 days after the birth, and then I was just fine, as long as I didnt pull on the stitches. I also had a shortened and lighter monthly after I got them tied.

The only regret that I have is that I wont have any more babies. But, I guess 5 is enough. We cant afford any more.

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T.T.

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I had my tubes tied after the birth of my 3rd child in March of 2007. I am 33 years old and after extensive conversations with my husband we made the decision that we were done having children. I did notice the first 6-8 months of periods were heavier than they were in the past, but as time passed everything seems to have returned to normal. I can not comment on the procedure or pain because mine was done at the same time as my c-section. If you are both comfident and sure of your decision I say go for it. Age is only a number and if you feel like you have completed your family then do not let anyone else influence your decision, do what is best for your family.

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H.G.

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K.,
I know you have a lot of replies but since I had mine done I wanted to let you know how it went for me. I had mine done when I was younger than you are. The procedure went smoothly but was very painful for at least a month or two. I had problems with my lower back for a long time. Now that it's been about 7 years I've started having other female issues (uterine cysts & endometriosis caused by scar tissue most likely from the tubal ligation) and it's been very painful, requires several different kinds of meds (including the pill) and may result in a hysterectomy - and I'm only 31!
I tell every woman I know or hear of NOT to have it done...let your hubby do it. It's easier to heal and there are not long delayed effects for them! Best of luck!

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