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Acne Ugh

my 13 year old is a beautiful vivacious girl, and she has acne. We have tried every over the counter remedy as well as the all promising Proactive. Nothing seems to work. She is broken out on her face and back and shoulders and chest. Myself and her father never had acne like this. I really don't want to put her on an oral medication because it make your face so red and dry. Does anyone have other solutions for this. Anything natural. She washes and washes. She also has bad allergies which I wonder if that has any relevance. Help.

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thanks so much for all the advice. I am going to use this. She is going to the doctor on Thursday so I will find out more and let yall know. How wonderful to have this kind of help. Thanks for taking the time. H.

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Dermatologist. You can spend a lot of time and $$$ trying all kinds of things, but a dermatologist can suggest the best thing. There are different kinds of acne. And she won't be on meds forever. My kids were all on things from a derm for a little while to get them thru the big hormone changes.

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Email me ____@____.com My son was on every different antibiotic for 3 years, left such bad scars on him. Switched DR's once his Doc prescribed Accutane and he had hives from head to toe. His next Dr. got rid of his acne in 6 weeks. I would love to share this with EVERYONE. My name is L. Castillo and my son is Josh we live in San Antonio, TX

I had this problem since I was a teen. I am now 30. Just recently started seeing a dermatologist for cystic hormonal acne that could not be controlled by birth control. He recommended that I use an aspirin mask a couple times of week. And on nights that I didn't use an oatmeal mask to help hydrate and also exfoliate. You can google online for aspirin and oatmeal mask. I like that it doesn't cost a fortune, it's stuff I have in my home, and it's not a medication. My face has never felt or looked better. All the redness and irritation is gone. He also recommended I use just a gentle mild soap to wash my face with twice a day, I started using my daughters aveeno baby wash. These things have truly helped me. I wish you luck through the teen years and hope you find the answers you're looking for :-)

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There is a good chance that she is washing too much. She should only be washing twice a day with a mild acne cleanser.

When I was in my teens, I was on retin-A and then accutane. They worked for me and I had no serious side effects, but there can be. I do have to be very careful about the sun, not that I am almost 40.

Take her to a dermatologist and see what he has to say. Not all oral meds make the skin red. They dried mine out and I had to use a really heavy moisturizer daily.

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Washing too much actually aggravates acne. Trust me! I have been dealing with it for 20 years. I have found pretty good success with the following face scrub:

1/2 cup white sugar
2 tbs olive oil
1-2 tbs honey
a few drops of tea tree oil

Mix these together into a paste and keep in an tupperware in the bathroom. Take a little out and scrub GENTLY once a day. It will not sour as long as it's used each day. I would keep the tupperware in the shower and use on my face, shoulders, and back when showering in the morning. You have to give this one a little time and keep it up. I really began to notice an improvement in about 2 weeks. And don't be afraid the oil will make her face greasy- it won't. The olive oil is a natural moisturizer to prevent overdrying, while the honey and tea tree oil help fight off the bacteria that cause the whiteheads and redness. Sometimes the olive oil will collect on the top of the paste, but just pour it off, or mix back in. You will eventually figure out the consistency you like best. The most important part is to scrub very gently. Scrubbing too hard will just aggravate the problem.
I hope this helps! This has really helped me more than any other OTC product. And it doesn't taste bad if it gets in your mouth! lol
The allergies could be making it worse. Is she taking anything medication for her allergies? Look for acne as being a side-effect, if so.
Take care!

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go read on www.acne.org

I buy their products. I like the products and have continued to use them for a few years now. From what the guy says on his website, he has a 'regimen' of wash, then benzoyle peroxide, then moisturizer. He says part of the key to getting the acne under control is to wait 10-15 minutes between each step, allowing the product to absorb.

Also, I think Mary Kay has a teen product. What would be nice about that, is generally you can return/exchange Mary Kay products if you don't like them.

If all else fails, go see the doctor and see what they say.
BTW - I had similar acne problems shortly after getting off of birth control. I'd never had acne down my back before or on my chest. It was bad. It took a while for the pill to wear off I guess, as the problem just went away for me. Perhaps your daugther has a hormone imbalance/issue or it's just part of growing up. Your dr would be better trained to tell you if that's the case.

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Have you tried a clarisonic face scrubber? Sephora carries Clarisonic. It's pricey, but I found it to be a miracle worker for acne. I'd recommend getting the sensitive skin brush for your daughter and it works well with whatever face soap you like. I use Clinique. Keep in mind, she won't clear up over night. If it works for your daughter, it will take a few months as everything works it's way out of her pores. Good luck!

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Take her to the dermatologist. I have found the doctors are very hesitant to put them on any kind of antibiotic. They use retin A products of varying strength which work very well for some, not so much for others. If she has cystic acne then Accutane will work but it is a VERY strong drug that requires a lot of follow up/ monitoring. My son did use it and it did make all the difference to him.
My middle daughter had the large break outs and after many dermatologist visits we finally put her on the pill. Works like a charm! The youngest has more of a fine rash of pimples and we are still trying some creams but I am about to break down and put her on the pill, too.
I'm 55 and STILL have break outs. I am on low dose antibiotics and finally realized a few yars ago that if I wasn't on antibiotics or the pill, my face would break out. I was hoping menopause would cure that -but no luck. I think I'll be on antibiotics until I die!
Good luck.

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I would definitely suggest that you take her to a dermatologist because if over the counter stuff is not working it may not be normal acne and a prescription cream may be needed. Or there could be something else going on like keratosis or feliculitis.

With that said I'm wondering if she may be washing too much and may not be using the correct soaps. If she has sensitive skin using medicated product to wash more than once a day could over dry the skin and actually cause breakouts. I myself have super sensitive skin and have had issues with acne since I was young. A great product for washing is Cetophil (usually there is a store brand that works just as well.) This is great for sensitive skin. I would also recommend using Witchhazel it is 100% natural and is an astringent, this can be used all over the body after washing. Then the most important step is to moisturize!!! If you do not use a moisturizer then the skin will over dry, then over produce oils clogging pores. I would suggest getting her a sensitive skin moisturizer for her face like Eucerin or Aveeno, some stores even have a store brand. I've used the Kroger brand that is similar to Aveeno and it works just as well. Stay away from anything with oils. For body moisturizer I use St. Ives She Butter and Oatmeal. Anything with oatmeal will calm the skin and help maintain levels of moisture. You may have to try a few different lotions to find one that works since everyone's skin is different. Eucerin and Aveeno have some good ones, I can also use Suave which is the least expensive. Skin allergies and sensitive skin could definitely be the cause. I knwo that I can not use the over the counter acne meds as directed because they make my acne worse, I have to use them less, only once per day. I would use a benzoyl peroxide product in the AM and maybe a salicilic acid product in the evening. Make sure not to mix those 2. Also make sure during a breakout that she does not exfoliate because that can cause scarring, but once skin is clear exfoliating is necessary to prevent further breakouts by removing dead skin. I like the St. Ives apricot facial scrub (store brand works good too.)

You may have to try a few different combinations of things but hopefully you will find the right products for her!

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Dermatologist. You can spend a lot of time and $$$ trying all kinds of things, but a dermatologist can suggest the best thing. There are different kinds of acne. And she won't be on meds forever. My kids were all on things from a derm for a little while to get them thru the big hormone changes.

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I have always struggled with break outs on my face, especially during the hormone years. I am 33 and at times, I still have my moments. I read a book called "Clear Skin" by Jerome M. Aronberg. I looked on amazon and it's available for under $5.00 lol... Anyway, it's a great book that may help. It really helped me when I read it in my 20's. It was given to me by my cousin who also had skin issues and it also worked for her. No weird gimmicks...just real, every day things you should do. I know the face soap (can get as soap or a pump bottle liquid....I use the pump bottle) it's called Purpose. I still use it today and love it. Makes my face feel so clean. If she is broken out and irritated, the LAST thing she will want to do it scrub hard or use a washcloth. It will only irritate her skin more and cause more breakouts. Once she get's clearer...she can use something called a Buff Puff. I use that once a day...LOVE IT! It really gets off all the dead cells and skin or whatever. Anyway, good luck. FYI...the book is kind of a pale light bluish color.

She needs to also make sure she is drinking lots of water, stay away from the greasy foods and no touching of the face with hands. (all in the book)

Good luck to you and her....

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