N.R. asks from Ventura, CA on November 18, 2007
6 WEEKS Pregnant & Spotting Followup
I was wondering if anyone else experienced spotting and mild cramps and back pain while 5 weeks pregnant. 4 days ago i started spoting 11/05. It is dark brown in color and i have mild cramps too. I saw my OB and he said that there is nothing I can do except to stop lifting anything. I have been taking the fertility drug Clomid for the last 2 months. I have been trying to get pregnant since December. I just was wondering what others expereinced. I dont know if I am miscarrying or this is just simple spotting.
Follow-up:
Okay so I had an ultrasound on Friday 11/16 and rushed into surgery that night. I was diagnosed with an ectopic pregnancy that had already started to bleed and was close to rupturing my fallopian tube. They were able to save the tube. I had laprascopic surgery as well as a d&c. Thanks to all that wrote me. Right now I am just trying to heal both physically and emotionally.Knowing that they heard a heartbeat is what has been the hardest part of all.
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K.G. answers from Fresno on November 20, 2007
Hi N..
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how difficult it can be as I went through a miscarriage several years ago. Take the time to grieve for your baby and take good care of yourself. Surround yourself with people you love and that can be of comfort to you. One thing that helped me to heal was to name my baby and to do something special in his/her memory. And I remember her on what would have been her birthday. And when the time is right to try again you will know it in your heart.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Take care, K.
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S.H. answers from Honolulu on November 19, 2007
Big hugs to you.... I'm glad that you got treated in the nick of time. Although this is a difficult situation... take comfort in knowing that many are thinking about you, me included. I was wondering how you were doing. My heart goes out to you... take good care of yourself, and pamper yourself. All my best,
~Susan
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S.D. answers from Los Angeles on November 20, 2007
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I wish there was some way they could implant an ectopic pregnancy into the womb, but there just isn't a way. It's good news they were able to save your tube. The fact you were pregnant proves you will most likely get pregnant again. You'll probably be followed very closely in the beginning next time around. Time will heal both your physical and mental wounds. Be thankful they caught it in time, ectopic pregnancy can kill you. Be thankful this holiday season that your daughter still has her mother. It doesn't take away from the pain you're experiencing, but it does help put things in perspective.
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H.A. answers from San Francisco on November 20, 2007
I'm so, so sorry. I've never been in your position so can't know what you are going through, but your follow-up made me cry. I'm sending warm thoughts your way. Perhaps keeping close to your 19 month old daughter and being grateful for her will help you to heal. Take care!!!
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J.R. answers from Los Angeles on November 20, 2007
I am sorry about your lose. I am glad you are ok and I will pray for you.
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K.H. answers from San Diego on November 20, 2007
I am very sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
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J.C. answers from Los Angeles on November 20, 2007
Hi N.,
I am so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage several years ago and it took me a long time to get over it (some days I still think about the baby I lost). I know I got a lot of dumb advice and things that people would say to me, so... I just want to say I will pray for you and hope that your healing physically and emotionally is quick. Some days will be better than others.
God bless,
J.
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S.R. answers from San Francisco on November 19, 2007
I am so very sorry that this was the way it turned out for you. My heart breaks for what you must be going through. At least they caught it before it was too late, and hopefully in time you can try again. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
~S. R
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