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15 Month Old Still Not Walking

Hi Moms! I have twin 15 month old girls. One is walking and the other - isn't. She can pull herself up to stand but cannot stand on her own for more than a few seconds. She doesn't really cruise furniture but for a step or two. She'll instead, get down and crawl. She will walk with me when I'm holding both her hands. She will even come to me and put her hands in mine and insist I help her walk occasionally. But no walking on her own. She is a mad crawler though! Should I be worried??? When I brought up that she wasn't walking at her last appt (at 13 months) the doc said we could wait a couple of months and if she isn't then to come back. I have their 15 month check up on 4/7. Should I just wait until then and maybe she'll be walking by then (she will be 16 months then) or should I call and try and get in earlier? Any ideas, advice or been there done that??? Thanks!!!!

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Thank you ALL for the responses!!! I really appreciate all your feedback. This twin is very laid back and dare I say LAZY! =) So i think that is part of the problem. I will wait until the next appt since it is only a month away and will go from there. If however, she starts going backwards in her development I will definitely make an appt sooner. THANKS!!!!

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I have 4 kids. 15 months is the EARLIEST any of them walked. (BTW, 15 months is textbook "average" age to begin walking.) The latest was almost 19 months. They're all healthy, happy, no physical or mental delays, and are now between 10 and 22 years old. Don't worry!!

I would wait. My little guy just started walking at 16mo. She crawls well, so she is coordinated. I worried too!! Don't do it. She will!!! You are just like me. I went thru the same thing!!!!!!!!! Some babies don't walk until 18mo and are perfectly normal. If you DON't think she has coordination, then bring it up. But, it sounds like she does.

FYI...here is how my baby started walking. I just recently had another baby. And so, my parents were here watching my 16mo old. My dad spent a lot of time with him in this "waiting room" area. My dad would put his bottle on the table, and stand him up away from it. He slowly started walking toward it.

My son started walking when he was 19 months old. My motto is that if they don't do "it" (whether it is talking, walking, potty, grow teeth etc.) by age 30, then I'll worry.

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I wouldn't worry at all. Both of my babies didn't walk until 15 mos and I have heard that that is still in the "average" range, though on the later end. So your daughter might end up being a little behind the "average, but that is what averages are made of! :) My boys are now almost 4 and 2-1/2 and you would never know they were slightly late. A friend of mine has a son the same age as my older son and I think he didn't walk until 17 or 18 months. He just didn't have the desire. But he is a perfectly normal, physically adept (and dare I say - brilliant?) 4 year old boy.

My sister's youngest daughter was adopted when she was 3. They don't know a lot about the details of her first few years, but she was badly neglected and probably did not get to develop as a normal baby. Now as a young teen, she has been participating in a program that gets kids on the floor and crawling, which helps in brain development. From what my sister has learned, crawling is so critical to brain development, I was happy that my boys crawled so long. Even now, anytime they get on the floor and crawl around while they are playing, I get a little happy sigh, knowing they are doing their brain some good!

So try to be happy that she is such a great crawler. It sounds like she is a strong and perfectly normal baby girl. And she is going to be brilliant! :)

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My 4th child did not walk until he was 19 months old. He will be 3 in two weeks, and you would never know that he took so long. I think a couple things contributed to this. He was a very content child and was happy exploring in his more immediate surroundings. Also, he has a rather large head and I sometimes wonder if balancing was tough for him. I didn't care that he waited so long, but I do think that if he had been my first child, I would have probably been worried.

All that said, there is certainly no harm in having him looked at, especially if you feel something isn't right.

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H.,

Walking is one of those things that infants/toddlers do at different times and of course we don't want to rush through stuff. But, I had the same issue with my son...everyone, including his Pedi said it didn't seem bad. But, when he went from cruising to crawling again, I took matters into my own hands. I took him to my Podiatrist and had him examine him...he recommended Physiccal and Occupational Therapy for my son, and gave me a referal for an amazing therapist and center in my area.

My son was diagnosed with calcification of the joints in the hip and ankles...basically, stiff joints. He had been born emergency c-section, and was breech at the time of birth...so, this apparently played into the issue at hand.

We started OT/PT at around 14 months and by 17 months he was walking and very soon after running everywhere!

I'm not at all saying your little one is having the exact same issue, but maybe it's worth taking the extra step to get in there early and see if you can get a referal for an evaluation. I'm all about preventative care and I always push to make sure everything is ruled out before I panic.

Good Luck!

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H., I would wait to talk about it til the next well baby check- especially since her ped wasn't worried about it.

I would wait some kids don't walk until 16 mos. HOWEVER, if she isn't walking by then I would INSIST on a PT exam and NOT wait any longer!!

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The average age to walk is 14 months. So she doesn't seem to far off. If she was born early, that can set them behind a little in mile stones. I wouldn't worry.

Hi H.,
I have fraternal twin girls that are 14 months and one of them can walk and the other one walks on her knees. The one that walks also had 8 teeth when the other one didn't have any teeth until recently. I would ask your doctor the next time you go but if it would make you feel better then maybe you you can leave a message for your doctor to call you back, and then discuss it with him/her. Hope this helps!

This can go either way. It is up to you on what you decide. My oldest son was partially deaf when he was born and he didn't start walking till he was 16 months. This was because he had no balance because of fluid behind his ears. The fluid was caused by chronic ear infections. Usually, if a child doesn't walk by the age of 18 months, the doctor will start some tests.

If you are worried about it, have her walk around with you at the doctors office letting them watch. They should be able to notice if something is wrong with how she stands and if she is real wobbly.

J.

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