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Helping Your Child Have a Better Night’s Sleep

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Imagine if there was one simple thing that would help make any child healthier, happier and even smarter?

It turns out, there is: a good night’s sleep. Research shows that getting enough sleep (10-11 hours a night for school-aged kids) helps children think more clearly, get better grades and avoid some health problems. While you can’t force your child to drift off to dreamland, there are definitely steps you can take to help him get a better night’s sleep:

Set the Stage: Make sure your child’s room isn’t too warm, is dark enough and that the bed is comfortable (are there toys or crumbs lurking under the sheets?). Limit liquids close to bedtime and make sure he makes a trip to the bathroom right before bed. A consistent bedtime with a predictable routine—even on vacations and weekend nights—will help your child make the connection between bedtime activities, like tooth-brushing and story time and falling asleep.

Listen and Reassure: Whether he’s scared of the dark or anxious about an upcoming test, your child may have a hard time falling asleep if they’re worried. Lend a listening ear, talk about his concerns and reassure him that everything is okay. If he’s too scared to sleep alone, try sitting with him in his room until he falls asleep. He’ll start to realize that his bedroom is safe and sleep is a happy place.

Choose Media Carefully: Did you know that children with television sets in their bedrooms get less sleep than kids who don’t? Still, all parents need a break from reading bedtime stories now and then. You can add variety to your bedtime story lineup with audio stories – visit BedtimeTheater.com for a series of downloadable stories you and your child will enjoy!

Find Solutions: If your child has an especially hard time falling asleep, you may need to work with him to find ways to make him feel more comfortable and secure at night. Try to pinpoint the problem. Is he scared of the dark? Maybe a night light would help. Is he spooked by shadows outside his window at night? Perhaps he’d rather sleep with his bed facing a different direction. If he’s worried about nighttime accidents, try using GoodNites® Underwear, made with a softer, quieter material (and graphics he’ll love) that will make him more comfortable and less anxious. If your child comes up with an idea to make himself feel more comfortable, give it a try! Even if it sounds silly, it may give him the confidence he needs to fall asleep…and stay that way through the night.

Meagan Francis is a Mother of five and respected blogger at TheHappiestMom.com. She is part of the GoodNites NiteLite panel.

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16 Comments

Mouth breathing, which can be caused by enlarged adenoids, tonsils, nasal turbinates, or a deviated septum, is a frequent reason for poor sleeping in the grade school population. It also leads to significant orthodontic problems. When mouth breathing is corrected one of the main comments from parents is that "he sleeps better, he eats better and he is doing better in school." Correction of mouth breathing can also sometimes lead to a cessation of enuresis...

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As a teacher of 7-12 graders for the last 17 years, I can tell you that ALL children, even seniors in high school, need a lot of sleep that they're just not getting. It really does impact they're ability to learn, moms, so please take this article seriously. For older kids, they still need a decent bedtime, they still need a bedtime routine, and they for sure need to turn OFF (not vibrate) all electronic devices (tv, computers, CELL PHONES)...

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Yes. Children do need more rest. It is amazing how many parents will tell me how they believe sleep is not connected to potential behavioral issues because the child gets about 8 hrs. Even we as adults need more sometimes. Stuart A. Kaplowitz, MFT

This seems so obvious, yet I realize that many families do not take it seriously. Don't get me wrong, my kiddos have had the occasional late night (maybe 11 pm for my 2 & 4 grader) but on a whole we really respect the bedtime (and nap time for the little ones)
I think that as they get older it may be harder to regulate appropriate bedtimes, but am hoping that we have instilled a good bed time routine that will carry over as they age.

How do you get a little baby to sleep better at night? My son seems to have his days and nights mixed up. Will all those things work for him too so early?

My 12 year old has no problem sleeping during school months but for the second summer in row she is having trouble falling asleep. Her bedtime is one hour later than during school (10 pm now) and her room is the same. She is one that has always needed 10 -12 hours sleep and she is in GATE program. I just don't know what to do during summer that will make her sleep. I have tried everything except the one thing she wants is to sleep on floor in my bedroom. My husband and I say no to that.

Krysta (and anyone else who is interested): Get a copy of the book "Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child". It's by a pediatrician (and dad of 4), and covers sleep from birth through the teenage years. It's just an unbelievably helpful book - full of facts, tips, and is not judgmental.

Dee - children, my husband and myself included, will have a HARDER time going to sleep if they're over tired or it's past their usual bedtime. Even just a little bit past does make a difference!
My poor husband hates summertime because he has to be up early to work before the day heats up too much, so he is up 2 - 3 - 4 am and has the best success falling asleep at around 10...

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@Dee, What is your daughter's schedule like in the summer? Is she busy and active or just sitting around, watching TV and playing video games? If she's not active enough, she's going to have a difficult time falling asleep. Are you expecting her to go to bed to early for her age and time she's waking up in am? Also, is she drinking sodas, coffee, etc. with caffeine? That could be a culprit as well. Somebody else commented on over-tiredness...that is a possibility. Another is mild depression...

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You are absolutely right about good sleep and how it effects the immune system and attitude if you do not get enough of it. Threre is a solution for good sleep and how to get the best sleep. For those interested in learning how to get quality sleep email me and I will show you how.

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Dee, I hear where you're coming from! My oldest son suffered from insomnia last summer and it took a few weeks to figure out what was going on. In our case, it was the disruption of his usual routine that was causing the sleeplessness. It seems to take certain kids so long to adjust to a new bedtime during the summer that by the time things get back on track, it's back-to-school time again...

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My grandson is 4, but behind verbally, so that it's difficult to know what he is trying to say. When he visits it's hard to settle him down to sleep & if he goes to sleep it's no guarantee he'll make it through the night.
He fights sleep & has nightmares.
I suspect some of his problem is worry that he might not go home again & some is just all the differences he experiences. We try to follow what few routines he seems to have, but it's not usually enough.
HELP!

The article states, "all parents need a break from reading bedtime stories now and then."
Why?! Our kids are only small once. Someday they'll be out of the house with their own lives and you'll miss that bedtime story time.
All of this "me time" stuff is getting a little ridiculous. If you think you need more "me time" then you are spending too much time doing other things outside of being a parent and should cut back on those. Now 'parent-up' and read to your kid!

I think if it's important enough to be part of the bedtime routine, it's important enough to do even if you don't feel like it. As a parent you don't get to just not feel like supervising toothbrushing time or putting PJ's on kids too little to dress themselves-why is storytime optional? I do like the suggestions for mixing it up though. The other thing we lived was when my dad made stories up for us...

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I'm a firm believer in the power of sleep and early bedtimes for kids. It makes EVERONE in the family happier. When I had my first baby, I desperately ravaged child rearing books trying to figure out what was normal and how my baby and me could get more sleep. Any new mom knows that zombie place of existing on 45 minutes of sleep here and there. Anyway, the best book ever that works, is non-judgmental and scientifically based is "Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child" by Dr. Weissbluth...

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