T.M. asks from O Fallon, MO on September 29, 2008
Infant Your Baby Can Read
While trying to find something to watch on TV last Saturday night, my husband stopped on an infomercial for a program that supposedly teaches your infant or toddler to read called "Your Baby Can Read." The infomercial did have some pretty amazing video, however as an educator, I am quite the skeptic on such a system. I managed to talk my husband out of buying the 5-DVD, $200 system, but he managed to talk me into buying the first video since it is only $15. We decided we could be suckered out of $15 if it could potentially help our 15-month old. So here's my question: has anyone used this system, and if so, with what results? How long did you have to "work" with your child on it each day? My son doesn't watch TV, so I'm also worried this will promote a bad habit of wanting the TV on. Any info you can share would be appreciated.
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Well, we got the video and I've shown it to my son twice now. As far as "baby videos" go, it is probably one of the better ones I've seen (I haven't been impressed with any of the Baby Einstein videos I've seen at friends' houses, and am hoping to avoid Elmo). I don't have any expectations of reading, but my son seems to enjoy watching the animals and kids. I'm planning on continuing to use it during lunch so I can do do dishes and sweep while he's eating. Thank you for all the responses.
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A.K. answers from St. Louis on September 30, 2008
I will admit to being an old mom, my kids are 17 and 21. They each read some words at about 3+. If this reading program works, why do you want to do it? I think reading, science, and math are critical to everyone, but there are a lot of things for young children to learn by experiencing the world. I would rather spend the time and money on a zoo membership, science center or botanical gardens, music concerts, etc. My OPINION is that I would rather my kid see a cow, bat, or dog then read the words.
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H.H. answers from Kansas City on September 30, 2008
I don't know much about this program but I do know that the younger you read to your child they tend to read early. My oldest son loved to be read to. He would bring us books to read to him at age 9 months. I would point to the words as I read them not sure he was paying attention to the words or just looking at the pictures. One day when he was 4 he picked up a book and started reading it. I was surprised and then thought well maybe he has that one memorized as we had read it often but then I gave him a book we hadn't read and he also read the whole book which was a Dr. Seuss book. I don't know how long he had been actually reading books himself but just happened to see him reading that day while he was playing in his room. Anyway when he started Kindergarten he was reading at a 5th grade level and is now a junior in high school doing well and taking several college level classes and honor classes.
I also had a cousin that loved having books read to her as a baby and was reading well before Kindergarten.
The earlier you read to your child the more they tend to like reading and usually start reading early or pick it up real fast during Kindergarten.
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D.M. answers from St. Louis on October 01, 2008
I can't comment on the program. But I can comment as the parent of a child who was a fluent reader at an early age. Just remember schools focus on teaching to the general education level. My son started kindergarten a year early. He could read and do math at a 2nd grade level but because of his age was not a mature socially as the rest of his class. As a result he was very bored in school even in the gifted classes and had very little friends. He is now in high school hates school. I think it is wonderful that you want to teach your child to read but just keep this in mind. Smart kids are outcasts. As a genius I also know this first hand. If you are going push your child to educationally make sure you don't forget the other aspects of school. Make sure he gets alot of play time with other kids so he can excell socally too. Going through life without friend because you people don't like being around so one alot smarter then them is no fun.
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T.H. answers from Kansas City on September 30, 2008
It seems that there are many conflicting views on here, but I am also an educator and I agree with most of the others that posted here. I think that if you read to your child, talk to your child and give your child experiences you can do the same thing as this DVD for much less than $200!! Children who have the biggest vocabularies are the ones that are read and talked to by their parents, keep that in mind. Good luck with your decision.
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E.W. answers from St. Louis on September 30, 2008
I learned to read when I was 2-3 years old. My whole family reads a lot. I think it just came of natural curiosity, but my sister didn't read until she was older. I don't think it will matter what program you get for your son. If the interest is there he'll do it, if not he isn't going to sit still long enough for it to sink in. Always worth a try though and please keep us posted on your results. As for the TV issue, I don't think it would cause a problem since you don't ever have it on anyway, but you never know. All children are so different.
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K.L. answers from St. Louis on September 30, 2008
Because I provide brain integration therapy for people with learning difficulties, I help a lot of kids work through problems with reading comprehension problems. One of the problems I am aware of in education is that we are not waiting until the brain is far enough along in its development before we teach reading. The pressure to read too young can be very detrimental in the long run.
Logic functions do not really come on board until age 3. Both hemispheres are necessary for good reading comprehension. The ability to decode symbols into words needs to be able to function in pace with the ability to assign meaning to the word. If you develop the decoding skills too early, before the logic function is available and these two functions do not develop in tandem, the result is likely to be someone who will read fluently, sound like they understand what they are reading, but have little to no comprehension or recall.
I don't know why it is such a popular belief that children need to read before age 7-8. According to my understanding, if we wait until the brain is ready, children will learn in 2 months what we push them to learn for at least 4 years. Why do we want children reading before they can really comprehend much? I truly feel pushing children to read early and the anxiety adults feel about it discourages the child's natural love of learning. The children perceive that the adults are frustrated, or at least not displaying the excitement they do when another child is reading at age 4. The message they often receive from our disappointments is that they are less capable learners. This affects their motivation to learn.
Hope this info is helpful to you and your husband.
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K.O. answers from Wichita on September 30, 2008
I would be highly doubtful of the program. Most baby programs that promote early math/early reading skills are highly intensive programs that do little more than train by rote. Instead, read to your baby and talk to your baby ALL the time. This approach has proven statistics for the greatest success in learning. When in doubt, read, read, read! Good luck! I would be curious to hear what you think after watching the program. K.
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L.B. answers from St. Louis on September 30, 2008
Run...don't walk away from this silliness of babies 'reading.' But I would run to my local Library! :o) I'd suggest reading to your child! Children will learn to appreciate books and reading when they are read to. They will learn drama, imagination, symbols, creativity, expression...
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M.A. answers from Kansas City on September 30, 2008
Hi T.,
I agree o much with Kathy! I have no clue why in this Country they keep forcing little kids to grow up fast, they want them to read when they are still learning to use a spoon.
I have two daughters, and we speak two languages at home, my girls are bilingual (both of them).
But I read a lot to and I pushed my first one to read and write and learn her letters since she was about 2 1/2 and didn't learn until the end of kindergarten. I am not pushing my second one at all, not teaching anything at all and she is already spelling and writing some words, she just turned 4.
I believe it is a mtter of being ready and the only thing I regret is pushing my first one to do somethign that she wasn't ready and using that time to learn what she did not learn instead of having fun together.
That's my though...oh! I have a Montessori training and taught at schools for several years.
I do wish schools stop pushing kids and parents to know more at an early age. It is not going to make them smarter but less happy.
Again, my thoughts....Good luck!
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