What TV Rules Do Others Have in Regards to Exposing Infants?

My daughter is 16 months and watches about 30 minutes a day (Veggie Tales or this one other cartoon she likes). We do have the TV on at other times, but she doesn't pay attention to it unless it is her show. I think the AAP says that kids under 2 shouldn't watch any TV at all, because it can hinder their verbal skills. Although my daughter does watch a little TV her verbal skills are great. She would rather play with her toys or read books anyway. I think it is O.K. for your husband to watch a little TV to maintain sanity being home all day. In a couple months your son will be a lot harder for you husband (energy wise).

As another mom mentioned already, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends no tv for children until 2 years. Concerns about how it affects attention, language development, behavior, etc. So we try to keep the tv off whenever our 11 month old is around. I have become a little more lenient about it though. If for whatever reason the tv is on, I don't mind if she gets glimpses of it. Sometimes it can't be helped. We've been to restaurants where there's a tv. No matter how you turn her chair or what you put in front of her, she'll look at it at times. And I have to admit, I will put on something educational just so I can quickly trim her nails, but then the tv is off again. It's not easy being a stay at home parent - sometimes you just need that link to the outside world. Can your husband leave the tv off until your son is napping or asleep for the night?

My husband is home with our daughter 2 days a week and have the same conversation about the TV. He likes to have the background noise, and I suspect let her play while he watches TV rather then interacting with her. I don't' like the TV on at all, I feel like this is a special time and he should soak it in and enjoy it before we find TV a necessity to get other things done around the house. Well, I kind of let it be and let him do what he wants to do. However, I just read an article about how having the TV on in the background, even educational TV, hinders toddlers development. When I'm home with her, it's not on until our daughter is in bed, I just don't ask what my husband does with the TV when I'm not home.
I hope this helps!

If you don't have a stance on this issue nows the time to get one. This was and still on occassion is a area of disagreemant for my husband and I. But he has let me lead on this in our home and now sees the benifit of careful thought as to what they watch. Do some research, there's lots of info out there on the negitive effects tv can have.The sooner you can both be on the same page the better. I have one rule of thumb and thats to err on the side of caution theres no harm done. So my kids might miss out on a good movie now and then, it always comes out on dvd. But the effects of programing and movies that are negitive can be long lasting. My kids do watch tv and video. Once they are aware of it as babies thats when we no longer watch anything that we wouldn't want them to see. Now that my youngest is almost 3 she watches dora and wonder pets and my big kids don't complain because they don't watch any of the junk thats promoted for older kids. Sponge BoB, Hannah Montana, no way! Tv is a non issue in our house because the kids have never been in charge so theres no whinning,complaining, fighting about what to watch. And now that they are older they have decerning taste on what is okay to watch and what is junk. So nows the time, decide firmly what viewing practices are going to be in your home. This is a very important issue in my opion. These early years will lay the foundation for the years ahead. It gets more diffucult as the kids get older. Best wishes

There are some studies that are beginning to link young children who watch TV and ADD / ADHD. The theory is the fast visual stimulus (it doesn't matter what is on TV) makes it harder for them to focus and/or slow down as they get older.
There is also a belief that it inhibits some of children's creativity / imagination as all these images are being crammed in their minds. It also keeps them from engaging in real life activities with real life learnings and real life joys.
One last thing to consider is developmentally, young children cannot filter out fiction from reality. So anything he sees on TV he will respond to as if it were real.

My girls watched a lot of TV when they were little and one was diagnosed with ADHD and my other has all the symptoms of ADD. We are now a Waldorf family with no TV at all and they have blossomed beautifully. It's taking some time to retrain them to focus, but their imagination has soared and they are much more happy and healthy on so many levels. Honestly, my husband and I don't know how we ever had time for TV!!!

Check out the research for yourself and share with your husband. There's plenty to consider when it comes to youngsters and TV.

We always let our kids watch 30 minutes of Baby Einstein before the afternoon nap, but otherwise the TV wasn't on when they were infants. I always had plenty to do with them during the day to keep us busy. And I understand how your husband feels because I LOVE TV!!! Keeping my grubby mitts off the remote when the kids were awake was hard, but I found it to be necessary. They took 2 naps a day and if I needed a break with a little TV fix, I'd take it during their naps or after they went to bed at night. Plenty of time for TV, not enough time to be with them while they are babies! I listened to a lot of music during the day.

Now as they are older I like that the TV isn't always on. It's a privilege to watch it and they enjoy that time when they have earned it and I don't have to hear nagging all the time about having the TV on.

That's how it rolled in my house. Best to you as you figure out what works best for your family!

We don't let our son watch television. At all. There is too much conclusive research out there about the negative effects it has on small children. I would suggest doing your own research with your husband and making house rules based on that research.

Hi M.,
Our daughter is 3 yrs old now and we still don't watch regular TV around her, except football, which she has always watched with Daddy. When she was a baby we would put on Baby Einstein sometimes, which she loved (still does), Play with me Sesame, and a show called Oobi. I would sit with her and talk about what we were seeing. My niece never watched any TV for the first few years of her life and now is glued to the TV if it is on while our daughter watches some TV but prefers to read or play. We are moderate TV watchers but don't believe in using it as a babysitter.
Sincerely,
L.

PS Our daughter learned her colors, shapes and how to count by 18 months old from watching Baby Einstein and Mickey Mouse Clubhouse!