January 13, 2009,
K.I. asks from Katy, TX on January 11, 2009
Tummy Time - Frisco,TX
Anyone have any ideas for tummy time? I feel my 10 week old son needs to spend some more time on his tummy to strengthen his neck muscles and prevent his head from getting flat. The problem is that he cries when I put him down on his stomach. I've even tried putting him on a baby boppy pillow, this helps but he still doesn't go for longer than 5 minutes before starting fuss. I also put him in a baby bijorn facing outward, but he looks like a bobble head doll.
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First let me say how much I LOVE this website - it's so great to be able to "talk" with other moms!! Thank you to everyone who responded...What great ideas!! I didn't realize that having him in my carrier/sling and holding him on my belly can be considered tummy time! I can definitely do 5 minutes tummy time per hour awake - that's a realistic goal! In fact, we just did 5 minutes of airplane, 5 minutes on my belly, and 5 minutes of dancing with me holding him over my shoulder! And he LOVES to nap on mommy and daddy's chest!
I love the LaMaze spin mat, I've never seen anything like it before - Thanks for the idea! When he's on his activity mat, I also get down on my belly to play and that seems to prolong his contentment...especially with a mirror!
Thank you all for your encouragement and excellent ideas - I really appreciate all of you!
S.M. answers from Dallas on January 12, 2009
I think 2-3 minutes a few times a day at 10 weeks old is plenty of tummy time. Don't push it! As long has he's not laying on his back 100% of the time, he'll be fine. If you play with him, hold him, move him from bed to car seat to floor, he's getting the movement and stimulation he needs.
D.W. answers from Dallas on January 12, 2009
Good for you. Most infants cry and don't want tummy time. You can get a small beach ball and roll him on it. They do this in Gymboree classes. Better yet, try out a class free and buy the beach ball from them for a few bucks.
K.P. answers from Dallas on January 12, 2009
I was lucky my daughter quickly adjusted to tummy time and learned to love it. One suggestion is to lay you son on your chest as part of tummy time. It can be a great bonding time for the two of you and he might enjoy it more. Once he gets use to being on his tummy you can use a mat on the floor more often.
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D.M. answers from Dallas on January 12, 2009
K., Your responses are great & you have lots of ideas. I think many moms can attest to infants not liking time on their tummies - with my 4 mo old will still call it "tummy torture," but know it is good for him. Keep building the minutes and the opportunities. ;o) Good luck. -D.
L.S. answers from Dallas on January 12, 2009
What I do with my 16wk old twin boys is put them on a soft blanket or pillow and get on the floor with them. I'll put toys in front of them to get their attention. They really seem to like that. I also play music for them and I will sometimes lay down in front of them to get their attetion. That seems to help. If your son only does it for 5 mins then just increase the time every so often. Also, when holding him try not to cradle him put him up on your shoulder and see if he will try to lift his head that way. Last thing get in front of a mirror and hold him facing the mirror and see if he'll try to look in the mirror.
Try not to get frustrated. Be creative! It is most important to find what works for you and baby.
Hope that helped
T.T. answers from Dallas on January 12, 2009
We had this problem as well!
First see if your baby can turn his head from side to side.
Lay him on the floor and call him or make a funny sound to one side and do this again to the other side.
This is to find out if he may have Torticollis...if he cant which we found out at 2 months with our daughter...tummy time may be causing him discomfort.
What we did is tried just a few secs of Tummy Time and then would try a few more and more until she would get upset.
I also would lay her on her back on hold her little hands and slowly pull her up trying to get her to lift her head. Only lift a little bit at first until gets enough neck streangth.
I would also sit my daughter on my lap and only hold her hands so she would have to work on balance. She was able to sit on her own by 5 months because of this.
Although my daughter did still end up with flattening due to the torticollis where her head could only turn one way and with Therapy we fixed her neck and with a DOC Band we fixed her head and face.
I would try while on the Tummy put musical toys and light up toys in from of him to get him to look up and make it fun. Once he gets upset - Stop.
You can also lay him on your chest and have him look up at mommy...my little one loved that!
D.B. answers from Dallas on January 12, 2009
You are wise to invest in tummy time for your son. It will do all the things you are concerned about and MUCH more. Tummy time is CRITICAL to brain development and to mobility. I spend much of my professional time helping families whose children did not get the amount of tummy time they needed. BTW, you should push for every possible moment on his tummy. It is truly THAT important.
Some suggestions to help:
Consider getting a piece of naugahyde on the floor so he will have something that is soft, yet he can easily push off with his feet. Once is he moving around, his frustration will be much less.
Also consider that babies do not have very strong respiration yet, their crying is sometimes a way to rev up their respiration so their muscles have enough oxygen to move. It's similar to how you take some deep breaths before you attempt a big physical feat.
Be on the floor with him and reward him with tons of affections and spinning and twirling and up and down when you pick him up. Tell him how great it is for him to be learning to move his arms and legs and how great it's going to be when he can motor all around the house.
If he can be there for five minutes, try to encourage him to be there just a little bit longer each day. Give him MANY MANY opportunities each day---even twenty plus. As you gradually increase the amount of time he is on his stomach moving (or learning to move), you can gradually decrease the number of session.
Please feel free to email me if you want more information or help with this. I would be glad to do so.
D., Mom to 8
J.O. answers from Dallas on January 11, 2009
Try putting him on your chest or you can place him on your legs like that airplane game (you on your back with your knees pulled in to your chest, he will on your lower legs).
When you have him over the Boppy, place a baby safe mirror (Sassy makes one that can lay flat or propped up) where he can see himself. My kiddos loved being able to see themselves.
Avoid facing him forward in a carrier until his neck muscles are stronger. Until then, face him toward your chest.
A.L. answers from Dallas on January 13, 2009
I used the knogging nook (spelling??) from babies r us. i put her to sleep on her back with this under her head. that helped us with her head. as for tummy time - we had a similar issue and she turned out just fine. Do what you can and the baby will tolerate.
V.A. answers from Amarillo on January 12, 2009