L.R. asks from Gresham, OR on October 11, 2006
Traveling Out of the Country with an Infant
My husband's mother is dying of cancer. She's in the Dominican Republic. He has been trying to get his permanent residency for over a year so he could go see her, and he finally got it. He also just got a job, so we figured traveling around a holiday would be best, and Thanksgiving is coming up. That means that if our baby is born on time, she will be about 3 weeks old when we plan to leave (and less if she's late). We would probably only be there a few days (holiday plus long weekend), but we're both wondering if this is such a good idea. I would really like to meet my mother-in-law, and I don't want to stay here by myself if I can help it, but I'm not the only one I should be thinking about. I will need to think about what is best for our baby. Any ideas?
So What Happened?™
We went, it was fine. She did well on the plane--slept most of the time. I wasn't able to do as much (like when we went to the beach, my husband got to go swimming twice, but I could only go once for about 15 minutes), but I enjoyed it and I'm glad I got to meet my mother-in-law. She's dying of cancer, so I might never get to see her again. I'm glad we went!
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S.C. answers from Houston on October 11, 2006
I have taken my infant when he was 8 weeks from Germany to the US. I was really worried about the trip as well. What worked for me was using a sling to help me lug things around the airport. On the plane I wrapped a boppy pillow around my lap. He nursed and slept the entire trip. Their is something about the noise in the airplane that helps babies sleep. To avoid the babies ears from hurting try to feed on take off and landing.
L. answers from New Orleans on October 11, 2006
If the baby is in good health, and your ped says its ok, I'd do it. I'd also recommend breastfeeding on the plane -- super convenient, don't have to worry about mixing formula, and on the plane helps with takeoff and landing -- especially clearing ears. We travelled lots with my first. My sis flew cross country with her 3 week old, and she and her hubby are both doctors. Trust me, they are LOTS easier now than they are at 9 mos and on. Have a great trip, and good luck with the delivery!!!
D.E. answers from Houston on October 11, 2006
A.L. answers from Houston on October 11, 2006
Hi L., first my thoughts are with you and your husband's family. I can only imagine it would mean the world to your mother-in-law to get to meet her grandchild. Of course, as everyone has suggested, please talk with your pediatrician ASAP. If he gives you the all clear, then traveling witha 3-week old will certainly be easier than traveling with a 1 or 2 year old! Best wishes,
A.
A.V. answers from Beaumont on October 11, 2006
I would wait till the baby was a little older. I mean its ammune system isn't built up yet and if you happen to sit around someone who is sick then your baby might get it. And with a new baby, everyone wants to touch and see it and that is alot of strangers. I would wait till it was older before I decided to go on a airplane and go far away from your doctor or the baby's doctor. The first months are the times that they can get really sick and you would want your pediatrician to take care of your child instead of some stranger in a different country.
F.C. answers from Shreveport on October 11, 2006
I think taking the baby would be ok. U just need to be careful. Here is a question? Have u thought of someone close relative u could leave the baby with until u got back if the baby is born before u leave. I understand your concern for the loved one that is ill.. I had my baby out a week after he was born. I just couldnt stand it anymore of being in the house.. I still say its ok.. Just be careful.. I think as long as the baby is healthy and no problems... u may want to ask your doctor too.. Maybe they can tell what u can do... just a thought.. Good luck to u
Y.F. answers from McAllen on October 13, 2006
L.,
when my son was born i took him out righ away. Everyone was telling me not to because he was too small and he could get something. I talked to his pediatrician and he says all that is a myth. So as long as YOU feel confortable to go, GO! just make sure you take everything the baby needs and remember you need rest after giving birth, so take that under consideration. But if you feel fine, go. It may be the last time your husband gets to see his mom!
B.S. answers from Killeen on October 11, 2006
I would really ask your pedi. 3 weeks is awfly young , and recirculated air in a plane can mean your little one will be exposed to any illness anyone else might have on the plane. babies that small might not have the immune system to handle that kind of risk - so please talk about it with your baby's future pedi- there are just so many variables to consider!
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