im going to see if i can find a place to stay and if not maybe a roommate to stay here with me since i cant afford the place by myself.. i have a picture of my daughters face... im going to try and get a phone turned on tomorrow, see if i can borrow some money from someone.. maybe get some help from my church...i will let everyone know what happens in the morning
Good for you both!
I'm proud of you. You can do it.
Just look at that precious child's face and know you are doing the right thing!
If he "comes home", don't give him any clues....
Battered Women Help Line- more info »
1131 East Jersey Street, Elizabeth, NJ - ###-###-####
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since you can use the computer try this place...
http://www.njcbw.org/
Good for you. If he isnt home right now, pack an emergency bag. Have some of your childrens' clothes in there, diapers,meds, favorite toys, anything important just in case you have to leave quickly. Good luck and please keep us posted. I am worried about you.
Good...you're doing the right thing. You will make it.
Thank heavens. May God bless your journey. Call a women's shelter. They shouldn't require any money from you. Many times women come in bruised and broken with nothing but the clothes on their backs. They help women turn the situation around and get their lives together.
If you need help getting out, call the women's crisis line in your area. They will have suggestions and resources.
Good for you, Jordan. You are doing the right thing for your innocent kids. They depend on you to do what they can't do for themselves.
Jordan, I just responded to your first post and then saw this one and it brought tears to my eyes, b/c I am so proud of you of you for taking the steps to be happier and be strong for your children! YOU CAN DO IT! Its not going to be easy, I can only hope that your fiance realizes too that you both need to go your seperate ways and lets you go. Keep us updated if you can and good luck to you! YOU ARE IN CONTROL Now...not him!
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Monmouth County
Women’s Resources Center
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Please let us know.... what has happened and is happening...
STAY strong... call the police...
DO not tell him your plans... or he will retaliate.
Leave him.
Call the Police.
Stay with someone else.
Tell everyone you know... so that they know you and your child are in danger.
your daughter will thank you one day for saving her. you are a great great great MOTHER.
You said your friends are all 21 and live with their parents. I am SURE that their parents will make room for you as soon as they hear your story. I am SURE of it. Please please please, do not let that your beautiful, sweet, little girl get hurt by HIM again. If he gets away with it this time, what is next? I don't think you would want to find out. Get out asap.
Good luck, Jordan. I'll keep you in my thoughts.
Thank God
Be strong-your daughter will thank you for it in the future.
Sending lots of positive Vibes to you xxxBernie
So glad to hear. Please reach out to the resources that have been provided below. You'd be surprised at how much help there is if you just ask.
