J.C. asks from Ayer, MA on April 08, 2009
Switching from Bottles to Sippy Cups
My son is 14 months old and will be moving up to the toddler room at day care. In order to do this, he can not take bottles any longer, only sippy cups. He does just fine drinking water out of them, but has been refusing drinking milk out of them for a week now. He also isn't a juice drinker. Ok, so he took about 4 ounces in total yesterday and 2 ounces this morning. I'm worried about him becoming dehydrated and not getting enough calcium. He does eat yogurt and cheese, but that can only go so far.
Any advice would be appreciated. I have been told to put all the bottles away and just use the sippy cups (go cold turkey). When he is thirsty enough, he will take the milk. Do I offer water still? I'm afraid he will just substitute the water for the milk and not take to the milk this way.
So What Happened?™
Well, after a week and a half of drinking maybe 10 ounces in total of any liquids, my son has turned a corner. He is now drinking some milk from the sippy cup. I've been adding more fruits to his diet along with yogurt for some fluid intake. I had literally called it quits and was going to give my son a bottle on Monday night and then he drank for me from the sippy cup!
Although the Nuby sippy cups work well for water, there are some hard nipple ones that my son uses at daycare that he now seems to drink milk from. FINALLY! I got some Nemo ones and we make a big deal of the fishy on it. He's not doing great on getting the amount of milk I would like him to have, but he's getting there!
Thanks to everyone for your responses. The advice is just what I was looking for.
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R.F. answers from Boston on April 09, 2009
I switched both of my boys off of the bottle at 12 months. They had a littel trouble getting the milk out of the sippy cups, though. The Nuby sippy cups worked well for them as transition cup. They have a soft top that is similar to a bottle nipple. I believe both Taget and Wal-Mart sell them.
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R.K. answers from Springfield on April 09, 2009
Toss the bottles. People make this change so much harder then it really needs to be. If you only offer him the sippy cup and there are no bottles in sight he is not going to make himself go thirsty he will drink from the cup. Another thing is he really doesn't need milk. Calcium and vitamins A and D can come from many different foods if he will eat cheese or yogurt that will help so as long as he has a generally good diet I wouldn't really worry about him drinking or not drinking the milk.
L.S. answers from New London on April 08, 2009
Just tell him that bottles are for night night only and give him sippy cups. I wouldn't worry about it too much. He'll drink when he is thirsty. Just give keep giving it to him. He'll probably have a sippy cup of water all day, so I don't think he'll get dehydrated and if he likes milk, he'll start drinking it out of the sippy cup. Give him milk with his meals and water the rest of the day. He'll get used to it and in no time bottles will be gone. :) We still use bottles at night but sippy cup the rest of the day and my son is almost two. He just will drink it in whatever I give it to him in, but it did take a little bit to get him to get used to it.
R.F. answers from Boston on April 09, 2009
I switched both of my boys off of the bottle at 12 months. They had a littel trouble getting the milk out of the sippy cups, though. The Nuby sippy cups worked well for them as transition cup. They have a soft top that is similar to a bottle nipple. I believe both Taget and Wal-Mart sell them.
K.K. answers from Boston on April 09, 2009
We got rid of the bottle with both mine at 12 months. My son decided at that time he was not going to drink milk either. We just made sure we gave him enough yogurt, cheese, etc. and the ped. was fine with that. He will definitely drink when he's thirsty, and I'm willing to bet that once he sees the other kids drinking put of a sippy, he will do the same. My kids eat and drink very different for me at home, then they do at daycare (much better at daycare). The teachers say all the parents say that, and the kids just do what they see the other kids doing. I wouldn't worry to much. It took my son until he was 3-1/2 to start drinking milk at home, but come to find out, he drinks it at school...
On the other hand I do have a friend that gave her daughter sippy cups during the day, and a bottle of milk each time before bed until she was 3. Her pediatrician told her to get the milk in her any way she could (different my my pediatrician). But she wasn't eating as much yogurt, cottage cheese, and other cheeses my son was.
I wouldn't worry to much. Do what you feel is right. Just watch his fluids, and he'll come around at home. If he does end up drinking juice, try the calcium fortified OJ.
Good luck.
E.K. answers from Springfield on April 09, 2009
Have you tried using the Nuby sippy cups? I started my son on these around 10 months and got rid of the bottles and he seemed to like how they resembled the nipple of a bottle. They might work, assuming you haven't already tried them.
J.S. answers from Boston on April 09, 2009
we tried two things with our daughter that worked very well. Offer water in the bottle - he's expecting milk and won't like it. We also bought a "special" milk sippy cup and I made a big deal out of it. And that cup was only for milk. My daughter was stuck with the sippy cups being for water and bottles for milk - so we had to retrain that.
Good luck!
J.L. answers from Boston on April 09, 2009
We never did a comfort bottle at night. We feel that milk/formula is for nutrition and not for falling asleep so you might need to read an extra story or something at bedtime. This is also good if you brush the kids' teeth before bed it's easier to say no night bottle. We switched both of our kids over to cups when they were 12 mos from the bottle. We went from formula in a bottle to milk in a cup pretty much in 3 days for each kid. It was a little harder for our 2nd - he was also a little stubborn about not drinking the milk, but it was the only thing he offered so he figured out he had better drink it. The same thing happened when we switched him from whole to skim milk. He didn't drink as much every time but he got used to it and did not become dehydrated. It takes a lot to be dehydrated.
I say go cold turkey and deal with a few not so perfect days - you'll be fine - all of you.
good luck!
M.B. answers from Hartford on April 09, 2009
I would go cold turkey. It's okay that he doesn't drink juice. As a matter of fact my doctor prefers my son to not have juice even if it's 100% because he'll just fill up on that and not eat food. If he has no choice but to drink milk from the cup then he'll have to do it. I would still offer the water the same way you do it now. Nor more than you're already doing it.
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