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Son Complaining of Leg Pain

HELP! My middle son, David (3 1/2) has been complaining of leg pain. It wakes him up at night and he cries saying "Mommy it hurts" I ask where it hurts and he said "all over". I get into bed with him and rub his legs and he does go back to sleep. Its been only the one episode per night but he was at my moms for the weekend and he had her up every hour or so. I haven't had that experience yet. Can anyone tell me if this is just "growing pains" or I should I contact the doctor asap. I don't know if it matters but my mom recently got diagonosed with fibromyalga (sorry not sure if spelled right). Can children get that or it it something I could have given him throught my blood line? Any advise would help!!

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Ok so I took David to the doctor today. The doctor said he feels that everything is ok and that David is a very active, physical and typical little boy and he is likely just over doing it when he plays and those are the evenings when we have the issue. Also, David told the doctor that the pain was in the calf area of the leg not in the knee or ankle which if it was could have been Lymes. I do have to watch him if it gets worse at all I have to bring him back in and he may run some tests to be safe. Thank you to all of you for all of the great advise I got, I truly appreciate it. Its so nice to have a place to go where people understand where your coming from. Thanks again.

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Hi C.,
I had the same issue when i was younger and my mom used to tell me it was in my head. Finally she took me to a podiatrist and they found out that I had flat feet. The leg pain was due to falling arches. The rubbing of the legs does help, so does a little tylenol. I thankfully grew out of it. you just need to find shoes with good arches in them to help the support.
My daughter has leg pains and I took her to the same Dr. Her hips are uneven and they suggested inserts for her shoes. She wore them when she was younger but then started to say they were uncomfortable. She still gets the leg pains especally when she wears junky shoes.
These aren't major things, but take the leg pain seriously. I have been told by many people including Dr's that there is no such thing as growing pains.

My son who is also 3 1/2 started complaining about leg/foot pain about a year ago. I noticed when he
wore new shoes this would happen the most. The pediatrican told me it is growing pains and not to worry about them.
I do the same thing rub his leg/foot with "special" cream
and it seem to dissipate. I also offer him water.
If he is not eating enough of fruit, veggies or water
this can also cause leg cramps. Bananas, potatoes(sweet or
white) anything with potassium, magnesium or calcium helps
alleviate leg cramps/pain.
I hope I helped.
K.

My sister had the same problem with her son and the doctor said he was growing in height very fast and it was causing the leg pain. She would use an old home remedy of rubbing alcohol and massage the leg then wrap it with a towel or cloth diaper to help ease the pain. A heating pad on a low setting seemed to work as well if he will let you put it on and hold it for 10-15 minutes. She was also told that bananas or high potassium foods helped as well. Hope this helps. Good luck.

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most likely its growing pains. my oldest son has been getting them for years. he suffers terribly with them. I have found that sometimes a heating pad on low works well. You may want to try some tylenol. I would keep an eye on how often this happens and for how long. My son gets them about every four to six months and generaly last a couple of days. Calling the doctor never is a bad thing, you are a mom and you know your child better than anyone.

My son who is also 3 1/2 started complaining about leg/foot pain about a year ago. I noticed when he
wore new shoes this would happen the most. The pediatrican told me it is growing pains and not to worry about them.
I do the same thing rub his leg/foot with "special" cream
and it seem to dissipate. I also offer him water.
If he is not eating enough of fruit, veggies or water
this can also cause leg cramps. Bananas, potatoes(sweet or
white) anything with potassium, magnesium or calcium helps
alleviate leg cramps/pain.
I hope I helped.
K.

Hi C., I would say it is most likely growing pains. You should check with your Dr. to ease your mind. One of my sons complained of the same (boo boo knees) and he grew to be the tallest of my 4 sons. I also don't think a child can get fibromyalgia but I am not a Doctor. good wishes,Grandma Mary

I would tell the pediatrician ASAP. Just call him and tell him your situation and whether or not blood work would be necessary. My husband was diagnosed with rheumetoid arthritis as a child and by the time the doctors were told he had slipped into complete paralysis. He was in that state for several years. Luckily, his little body grew stronger and was able to battle it (now its under remission but his bones sufferred a lot) and now he is being told by specialists that he has to undergo a hip replacement at 42!!!Of course he is not jumping on that just yet. Back to your little boy,PLEASE do not wait and just tell your doctor and don't forget to tell him about your mom and her recent diagnosis. Good luck!

My son actually for a bit complained that his leg hurt, granted he didn't wake up in the middle of the night either. I'd get it checked out it probably is nothing and just growning pains like you say. As far as fibromyalgia, I hardly doubt he has that, seems a bit young. My mother in law has it and it's not an easy thing to diagnos. The really only have I believe it's a 7 point trigger test to determine if someone has it and it's still hard to detect and they don't even know what the cause is. But it can be handed down thru DNA as well. They also say that fibro is or can be caused by a stressful time in your life, example: a tramatic car accident. I hope that I didn't stress you out more. Hope this helps in some way.

C.,
I would definately talk to your doctor. I know it is common in childhood to have growing pains, my brother had them. It is also possible for him to be getting Charlie Horses, if that is the case try increasing the potassium in his diet. I suffere from them during my pregnancies and the doctor told me to try to eat one banana a day because they are high in potassium. I would try having him stretch his legs when he gets up in pain. I have been relieved by them by pointing my toes up to the ceiling and flexing them to point to my nose. I have also been told that standing on something cold like a tile floor or wet towel help.
I am sure that it is just something kids go through, but I would be sure to check with your doctor. Not to scare you, but a friend of my sister-in-law had a son who woke up screaming in pain multiple times every night and the doctor just kept telling the parents it is nothing to worry about. After more that 6 months of severe pain and many sleepless nights. They faught with the doctor to do a MRI to make sure nothing is wrong and they found a tumor on him spinal cord. Unfortunately it was inoperable and he had to go through chemo and radiation, but it had spread too far and it was taking over most of his major organs. I am not telling you this to scare you, I just want to make sure that if your doctor brushes it off as growing pains and he continues with the pain or the pain gets worse please get a second opinion and make sure that they do tests to find out the cause of the problem. Good Luck

Hi C.,
The leg pain can be muscular skeletal. That is a fancy term for nothing serious. He could be strainig his musculs from play time. Is there a favorite move he enjoys...jumping off the couch, hanging from the monkey bars by his knees? These things wouldn't cause immediate injury just stress and strain in that area.
Now just for a precaution. I stress precaution! It is always wise to mention this to your doctor. Why? Different autoimmune diseases, cancers..leukemia ...would in the very early stages cause weakness and aching in musculs. In time though, just getting up from sleep would prove difficult. He would be tired alot etc. In short..you would know.
The first time it happened, did he get so much "Mommy attention" he felt wonderful?
One last thing, sometimes pain can come from growing too fast. My son had pain behind the knees at 3 yrs. and again older. I believe he did in fact have growing pains. He is 5 feet tall and not yet 10. It was a ache he felt, not out and out pain.
I hope this helps and I didn't scare you too much! I just wanted to give you every scenario.

~Lee~

The best advice for you and your little guy is to see a Doctor. Keep a diary of how often this occurs, how long, and what his activities were for the day.( might help, when visiting the Dr.) Keep us posted on what you decide to do. Good Luck!

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