H.A. asks from San Francisco, CA on August 19, 2008
Sleeping/eating Schedule for 11-Month Old
Hi there,
I'm trying to nail down our baby's schedule, but I can't seem to read when she's ready to sleep and eat during the day. If you have a child about the same age (11-months) would you mind letting me know at about what time your little one naps and eats? Our daughter goes to sleep at about 8:00 and wakes up at about 7:00 and seems to still need 2 naps a day. But since I've been breastfeeding "on demand" I can never tell if she's hungry or tired when she gets crabby and wants to breastfeed. Thank you in advance!
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G.S. answers from San Francisco on August 20, 2008
so I have a 1 yr old son & his routine is as follows. He goes to bed around 8 to 9 pm, wakes up at about 9ish. We have breakfast then play, we have a snack around 10ish... @ 12 pm he eats lunch & is ready for his nap by 1pm sharp! He wakes back up around 3ish ( he's a good sleeper) once he's up we go to park, run errands etc... He has another snack at about 4 pm.... @ 6:30 it's dinner time for him... After dinner it's relax time. He plays with his toys while I watch the news or we hang out side if the weather permits. 8pm is bath time& after that he is ready for bed. Took me awhile a get this routine down packed but consistency works. I also have a 3yr old that follows the same routine and it so helpful to have order in the home. Of coarse there are days when my routine falls apart but for the most part it works. I hope this helps you out!
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T.B. answers from Merced on August 20, 2008
An awesome book that helped me to get a handle on what my son's sleep schedule should look like was Healthy Sleep Habits, Healthy Habits For Life by Dr. Weissburg. After I knew what his sleep schedule was naturally then I could better gauge when he was hungry and when he was gettign tired
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S.G. answers from San Francisco on August 20, 2008
I have to chime in because the schedule thing was soooo hard for me for the first year. I also nursed on demand and I had a hard time getting my daughter to sleep in her crib for naps. Often I thought she was tired, would nurse her to sleep and then she'd wake up the second she hit the pillow. At night she always went right down though. Finally, I decided to stop the battle and give her one nap so now she usually sleeps a good 2-3 hours during that time and is ready for bed when night comes. Here is our schedule:
wake up b/w 6:30-7:30
breakfast
snack 10:30
lunch 11:30/12
nap 12:30-2:30 or 3:30
snack
dinner 6
bath/bed between 7-8
She is 14 months old and has been doing this since she was about 12 months. The one nap was kind of hard at first, but since I still nurse her to sleep and I had to work in the mornings for a few weeks, she was left with a sitter. Sometimes she would still sneak in a 15/20 minute stroller nap which gave her enough so she wasn't cranky, but would still go right down for the pm nap... even if it was a little later (1:30)
She still wakes up once at night to nurse.. don't know how to deal with that one! Just waiting for her to be tired enough to keep sleeping all night. She does it every now and then.
M.R. answers from Chico on September 04, 2008
Hello,
I have a daughter about the exact same age. She too goes to bed around 8 and wakes up around 7. She still takes two naps, one around 10 and one around 2 usually for 1-1 1/2 hours each. She is eating three solid meals and a snack and she uaually breastfeeds before both naps, around 5 and before bed. I have been struggling with her sleeping at night though, because of teething for the last 2 months. She wakes up every 2-3 hours and wants to nurse. If you have any advise for me on how to get her back into the routine of sleeping through the night please let me know.
Thanks, M.
L.G. answers from San Francisco on August 20, 2008
Hi. I have a 11 month old born Sept. 1st. She goes to bed at night around 7-8 and sleeps till 4-5 when i feed her b. milk then she sleeps untill about 7. I give her breakfast at around 7:45-8ish then b.milk at 9am when i put her down. She sleeps anywhere from 1-2 hours. when she wakes we play or whatever then lunch (food) and then B.Milk before going down for 2nd nap. I judge this nap 3 hours from when she woke from the first. I judge the first nap 2 hours from when she woke in the morn. When she is up from 2nd nap, We either play, have a snck, sometimes b. milk or whatever. She has dinner at 5-6 and bath 7 and b. milk and to bed. I basically just give milk in the morn and before sleeping. Or if we are out and off sched or gets hurt, you know..?
Anyway, I think the timing of naps is crucial and she knows what to expect. Good luck. Maybe stop demand feeding as she is getting older and can fall more into a routine/rythym...
G.S. answers from San Francisco on August 20, 2008
so I have a 1 yr old son & his routine is as follows. He goes to bed around 8 to 9 pm, wakes up at about 9ish. We have breakfast then play, we have a snack around 10ish... @ 12 pm he eats lunch & is ready for his nap by 1pm sharp! He wakes back up around 3ish ( he's a good sleeper) once he's up we go to park, run errands etc... He has another snack at about 4 pm.... @ 6:30 it's dinner time for him... After dinner it's relax time. He plays with his toys while I watch the news or we hang out side if the weather permits. 8pm is bath time& after that he is ready for bed. Took me awhile a get this routine down packed but consistency works. I also have a 3yr old that follows the same routine and it so helpful to have order in the home. Of coarse there are days when my routine falls apart but for the most part it works. I hope this helps you out!
T.S. answers from Sacramento on August 19, 2008
At that age my son was a very challenging sleeper at night. Would get cranky in the evening then wake up in the mornings still tired. I finally decided that letting a 1 year old set the schedule was insane and wasn't helping any of us. I decided a schedule that made sense and just told him "Mommy's the boss, so from now on you go to sleep at bedtime and eat at eat eat time." I moved some things around so that he went to bed before he was tired and ate before he got too hungry and the crankiness disappeared. The schedule he had was this (ish):
Bath/bedtime routine/nurse: 7pm
Lights out: 7:30
Wake up/ Nurse: 7am
Breakfast:7:30
"Second Breakfast": 8:30
Lunch: 11am
Nap: 12-3
Snack: 3
Nurse/bottle on demand
Dinner: 6pm
Back to bedtime routine
HTH
T.
K.B. answers from San Francisco on August 20, 2008
Hi H.-
I have a 15-month old son, but he's been on the same schedule for many months now.
Wakes up between 8:00 and 9:00.
Breakfast is about an hour later.
Bath time
Morning naps at 11:00.
Depending on how long he naps, lunch can be anywhere between 1:00 and 2:00.
Afternoon nap is around 4:00.
Dinner between 6:00 and 7:00.
Bed time is between 8:00 and 9:00.
Have you tried to teach your daughter sign language? Our son is able to sign to us when he's hungry, wants more and when he's done. We've also never let his binky or blanket leave his crib. When he is tired, he heads to his crib and reaches in for his blanket. Hope this helps! :)
R.P. answers from San Francisco on August 20, 2008
My daughter is 13 months and she goes to sleep at night about 7pm, wakes up between 6-7. Eats breakfast around 7:00am. Has a bottle before going down for nap at 9:00am. Has a snack around 10:45. Lunch between 12:00-12:30. Bottle before going back down for a nap around 1:30. Snack at 3:30. Dinner at 5:45.
It seems like she is ready for a nap after about 3 hours of awake time, so I try to use the "3 hour" rule as I call it. I would try 10:00am and 2:00 pm for naps for your little one and see if that works.
Hope that helps.
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