E.M. asks from Mesa, AZ on September 11, 2011
Remedies for Inducing Labor
My cousin was due yesterday and is showing no signs of labor anytime soon. However my Aunt is coming in from out of town Friday and I am wondering if anyone has any suggestions on inducing labor that actually worked and wasn't a complete nightmare. The doctor will induce but not until after a week of being overdue! I am no help because I had two c-sections, I never went into labor. But I feel so bad for her. Any help would be wonderful. This is her first baby.
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M.P. answers from Provo on September 11, 2011
The baby will come when the baby is ready. Don't try to induce just because family is coming. The baby needs time to fully finish developing. This is the time that the lungs get fully developed. And as another mom said that the due date is just an estimate. Not a fixed point in time. It's ok to go a week off the EDD.
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E.H. answers from San Francisco on September 11, 2011
Nipple stimulation worked 3x for me...but she's got to do it right. Hold nipples like you are going to pinch them, then roll them gently back and forth between pointer finger and thumb for 2 min, then rest 3 min. Then stimulate 2 min, then rest 3 min. Do this 2 more times (takes 20 min all togther). Contractions should start, she can try again if they don't or do it again if contractions slow down or don't continue to increase in intensity. It won't work if her body isn't ready, but if she's ready to go it can jump start it.
Good Luck.
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K.R. answers from Spokane on September 11, 2011
Babies come when they are ready, not when grandma is ready. I really think the safest thing is to either delay or extend your aunt's trip, or tell her to get ready to be disappointed.
The health of the baby is more important than the cost of a trip or anyone's feelings. My daughter was four days "late" and luckily she was born just before my 42 week doctor's appt; because my doctor was not going to be very happy when I refused his suggestion to induce!
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S.H. answers from St. Louis on September 11, 2011
tweak the nipples, have sex......
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L.S. answers from Spokane on September 11, 2011
Baby will come when it's ready. Sorry. And about 50% of first babies are 'late'.
She could try a warm bath, sex, spicy food, raspberry leaf tea, long walks, dancing, accupressure (webbing between thumb and finger), or castor oil....but there's no guarantee any of that will work.
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A.V. answers from Phoenix on September 12, 2011
I know it's hard to wait. However, the due date is really an estimation and most first time moms will go past their due date by at least a few days. 38-42 weeks is a normal full term gestation. My suggestions for her (I've had 4 babies and I'm a doula and birth educator) is to be patient. Tell her to use these last few days or week to do other things she'd like to get done, prepare food to be frozen for those busy postpartum weeks, work out any emotional fears she's having, and to REST. Her body and baby will go into labor when it's time. Labor isn't something to be rushed. If she is a healthy low-risk mamma and her baby is healthy, there is a 98% chance of her going into labor without needing inductions. Don't worry about the 2% chance of inducing. If it comes to that, then that's what needs to be done. However, I do STRONGLY encourage her to NOT get induced in the hospital unless absolutely necessary, and going into her 41st week isn't absolutely necessary. Some natural ways, sex (if her water hasnt' broken...and when it does she'll either be in labor or going into labor soon:) Walking, nipple stimulation (there is a strong connection between our nipples and our uterus, that's why breast feeding is so great postpartum to help uterus go back down to prebaby shape). Accupunture or accupressure. Just google it and you will get info on accupressure points for augmenting labor. It's all in the feet. If she tries this now, it may or may not work because she is only one day over her ESTIMATED due date. Honestly, the best thing she can do for herself is to be patient and enjoy (I know it's hard because we can get tired of being pregnant!) but really, get the most out of this strong amazing connection between her and her baby. ALLOW her body and baby to do the work it needs to do. The best thing you can do for her is to not feel sad or bad for her. Encourage her, rub her feet, help her cook some postpartum meals, help her organize those last few baby items. Tell her how strong she is and she can do this. It seems that you love her very much and are concerned about her well being. I understand. But she needs support not saving.
All the best to your cousin on her labor, birth, and parenting journey.
A. Vostrejs
Birthing From Within Mentor and Doula
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M.P. answers from Provo on September 11, 2011
The baby will come when the baby is ready. Don't try to induce just because family is coming. The baby needs time to fully finish developing. This is the time that the lungs get fully developed. And as another mom said that the due date is just an estimate. Not a fixed point in time. It's ok to go a week off the EDD.
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M.B. answers from Dayton on September 11, 2011
Castor oil worked for me 2x!
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J.J. answers from Phoenix on September 12, 2011
The baby will come when it is ready! :)
C.C. answers from Los Angeles on September 11, 2011
I've heard of nipple stimulation, walking, and sex. I heard something about eggplant awhile back. To the person that mentioned accupressure, pls take no offense. But the accupressure you are mentioning is for detoxing body and I've read to not do this when preggers. I am not an expert, but have read this a couple of times in several books.
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