E.D. asks from Baltimore, MD on January 01, 2008
Nipple Shields
I have a 11 day old new born and he is having trouble latching on. Is there a problem nursing with a nipple shield for a prolonged period of time? If I remove the shield and try to keep feeding him, he loses interest.
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Thanks everyone for the advice. I appreciate all your thoughts and encouragement. I will let you know how it goes and plan on calling the lactation specialist at the hospital. Keegan latched on to one side at almost every feeding today but then would not latch to the other when I switched him over. Good news though, we were at the pediatrician, and he gained weight since birth (from 7 lb 2 oz to 7 lb 6 oz), so he must be eating! Thanks again!
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C.C. answers from Washington DC on January 01, 2008
E.,
I started using a nipple shield in the hospital because my daughter had trouble latching on. The directions say to stop using it after a few weeks, but my daughter never got the hang of nursing without it. I think the real thing just wasn't hard enough. I used it for the entire 9 months that I nursed. I would call the lactation specialist at the hospital that you delivered at. They should be able to help you. And if he never gets the hang of it, buy a few shields to always have them available. Good luck!
K.B. answers from Washington DC on January 02, 2008
I had the same exact problem...he would only latch on with the nipplie shield, and when I tried to remove it he wouldn't latch. I really wanted to breast feed, so I continued to use the nipple shield for 1 month, and every now-and-then until he was almost 3 months, at which point for some reason he started latching on really good. I did give him a bottle as well at 2 weeks (of my breast milk), so that my husband could feed him at night when he got home from work. I went online and tried to research, but EVERY website I found said you should only use the nipple shield for 2 weeks and only if there is a problem. I decided to stop reading the websites and go with what felt right and worked for my son and myself...and that was the nipple shield. It did make it hard to nurse when I was out and about, so I would pump ahead and just bring a bottle. I breast fed until he was 8 months old (not b/c I wanted to stop, but once he figured out how to hold his own bottle he wanted nothing to do with my breast :(
Anyway, I say do what works for the both of you. Breast feeding comes easy for some women and their babies, and unfortunately not for others. It was a main cause of anxiety for me until I said screw it, and just did it the way it worked for us. He will get a hang of it soon.
K.T. answers from Dover on January 02, 2008
I agree, try and get up with the lactation consultant from the hospital, or the local LLL chapter. There are lots of tips they can give you to get rid of the shield!! They can also tell you if there is a specific problem (I hate to use that word!!) with your nipples such as inversion which could be causing you and baby problems. Just think about having to always have the shield with you and a place to clean it while you are out for the day, or just home a baby wants to feed now - ugh. It will make your life so much easier to work at getting rid of it now.
Pumping before feeding many times helps baby latch. It increases your nipple size, and if you are engorged will soften your breasdt to make latching easier. Also remember that BFing baby will become easier for both of you as he gets older.
Best of luck!!!
K.
E.R. answers from Norfolk on January 05, 2008
I used one for three weeks before my daughter could latch on. I had a friend who needed to use one for 2 months before her daughter learned to nurse without one. good luck.
N.O. answers from Norfolk on January 02, 2008
Maybe this will help? I'd also suggest getting in touch with a certified lactation consultant or trying your local LLL meeting. They're often very helpful.
D.M. answers from Washington DC on January 02, 2008
Hi E.,
I used a breast shield with both my girls. I had to use it quite a bit later with my second. I, too tried to remove it half way through feeding and still she wouldn't latch on. I used it for 4 months. She is now 7 months and latches on properly with no problem. I think her mouth was just not large enough yet and I was pretty engorged all the time. My doctor told me when asked how long I could use the shield, he said if it is working for both of you, you can use it indefinately. Thankfully I kept trying and eventually I was able to nurse without it. I used for 2 months the first time. I hope this helps!
Take care,
D.
A.S. answers from Charlottesville on January 02, 2008
I've nursed my three children and used a nipple shield for two of them. I thought they helped me in the beginning but after a week or so, my nipples really started to hurt. They definitely helped my premie latch.
I have a three year old, two year old and a three month old.
K.Z. answers from Norfolk on January 02, 2008
E. from a professional perspective you should know that nipple shields can damage your breast tissue and truly should not be utilized while nursing. In addition, it causes nipple confusion and therefore makes it extremely difficult to ever get your son to nurse without them.
Here is my website: http://hisgraceherbals.com If you click on the midwifery tab to the left and then find the breastfeeding tab--there is a wonderful pdf file you can download and print about Nursing, in fact, there are several wonderful tidbits there.
Did anyone ever talk to you about flat or inverted nipples and if this is not the issue, perhaps you need to hand express some milk prior to nursing and then drip some milk on the breast so he has something he desires and will want to latch on. Because you have been using the shields, it may take a little while--several days--to get him to latch to you without them, but I would recommend you not give in. Throw the sheilds away and use a medine dropper to drop into the side of his mouth while you have him at the breast. Do other techniques to draw the nipple out so he can really latch well.
If you have specific questions or want to consult with me personally, you are welcome to contact me via email (____@____.com) and I will try and give you some more practical and personal advice as knowing more of your specifics would help me to recommend more to you.
Most of all, you are doing great by perservering. Many a mom would have quit nursing when their baby did not seem to latch well. You are to be commended for sticking to what is best for your little one.
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