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Ipod or Mp3 Player for 5Th Birthday?

hey ya'll! my son has really been getting into his favorite songs lately - unfortunately i have no use for an ipod or mp3 player so have very little experience with them, but i thought it might be great to get him one for his birthday (just a small one). he doesn't know too many bands yet, but has some songs we hear on the radio that he LOVES (that firefly song, and the lazy song lol). so much music is not really kid friendly so i like the idea of being able to pick and choose certain songs, instead of having to buy an entire cd. but then i don't know how expensive itunes are. what do you ladies recommend? my little brother suggested that if i was going to "pirate" music off the internet an mp3 player would be okay, but otherwise, get cd's. he didn't elaborate (this was over text). what do you mama's suggest?

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Honestly neither.
He is 5.
What will you get him at 13 if he already has the MP3 player?
If you really want him to have something that plays music get him a child's cd player and some cd's.

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If you choose to do this, please be VERY aware of how loud the volume is. More and more young adults need hearing aids because they ruined their hearing with in-the-ear music devices. I'm one of them! While I and my teenage sons have ipods, we prefer to listen to music "out loud" and trade off what we listen to. We buy tunes on itunes and burn mixed CDs. It works well.

Also, please be VERY aware of the "disconnect" that happens when kids get overly dependent on their music devices (or any electronics). How can you learn to interact with people--a very necessary life and job skill--if you spend your formative years lost in your own little musical/electronic world? How do you know your kid is paying attention in class if they're sneaking their music? And remember, the whole "I learn better with music on" line is a bunch of hooey. Less than one percent of the population has a learning disability corrected by this kind of distraction. If you were one (or your kid was), you'd have an IEP or a Section 504 that states that. The rest of us are just fooling ourselves.

I've taught jr. high and high school from the age of portable CD players to the age where you can buy sweatshirts in which you can plug your mp3 players. It's really sad to see hundreds of students sit side by side and never interact with their voices because they're futzing with their phones or music players. I spend most of my discipline time in class taking these items away. Too many students start doing BETTER in school when their parents get fed up with the lousy attitude and grades and take all the electronic toys away!

Don't get me wrong, I LOVE my ipod. But, please be very aware of the precedents and habits you'll be forming with an ipod this young. Yes, I'm very much in the minority on this. Think of this as a very alternative point of view!

Good luck!

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I would say neither one. If you want your child to be exposed to music which is great then get him a child friendly boombox for his room. they make many different styles now. and you are able to adjust the volume many children have problems hearing because of listening to music that is way to loud

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Honestly neither.
He is 5.
What will you get him at 13 if he already has the MP3 player?
If you really want him to have something that plays music get him a child's cd player and some cd's.

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My son has had the same iPod touch since he was 2 so yea little kids can be careful...the only thing is since apple works from iTunes if u plan on pirating music u will need a program to convert it to compatable files

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HONESTLY...

I would get an iPhone 3GS and just not activate the calling feature. Works just like an iPod touch... $50.

OR

Hit up your friends (do a facebook polling) for used / replaced iPods. We, for example, have 2 that we just don't use. They're old, and they work fine, but our iPhones have a gazillion times more capacity and do the same things. So the old iPods sit on a shelf, collecting dust. They'll be used as gifts at some point for nieces and nephews, or as an "I don't care if this gets lost or damaged" music player to take out in the desert.

That's how we got our son his iPod when he was 4 or 5. It was a free hand-me-down.

It was GREAT, because it kept all of his music separate from ours (which is by no means kid friendly, and my husband's library (he's a musician) is almost ridiculously extensive.

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Regardless of which you choose, I would *strongly* recommend and i______. iTunes, uploading, they're just prevalent/ what's EASY. Non-iPod MP3 players are a lot like lazerdiscs back when, or BlueRay a few years ago. Not everything is compatible with them, they don't work as well, and you have to spend a lot of money on conversions.

iTunes costs 99 cents a song, or $11 per whole album. ALL the music you have downloaded from other sources (CDs, etc.) you can load onto your iPod or iPhone.

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Oh. So I got my toddler a digital camera. He had his own iPod at 4ish or 5ish. Also a phone (at the time, just a normal cell). He saved up for 3 years to buy his laptop. He got a Flip for xmas. Excluding the laptop which he saved for and bought himself at 8... NOTHING cost more than $60 with tax. A few were completely free.

People say things like "What will they want after THAT???"

Well... last year (age 8) he wanted squirt guns for xmas, and a kite for his birthday. The year before, a chess set, and legos. This year he wanted a design/programming game ($10).

He already HAS the "expensive" stuff (pshaw, hello sales, it's more than $50 for lego sets... and those don't go on sale for 25% of "newest/latest/shiniest" price). It's still all in great working order, lasts for years, and is "normal" / not anything to covet or get excited about. He uses his iPhone (he replaced his old phone and iPod this year out of his own money - $50 - and combined his phone and iPod), flip, and camera DAILY. Has for YEARS. We also got them young enough that they all have RULES that he absolutely follows, the same way WE followed "telephone" rules, and "car" rules as kids. Not. Exciting. Nothing that is "rebelled" with.

THAT'S what kids want when they already have their electronic toys. They want things like: Balls. Squirt Guns. Legos. A kite.

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whatever you decide I recommend a good pair of children's headphones. NOT ear buds! but specially designed headphones that will not go too loud.

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My son got an mp3 player for Christmas--He was 7, almost 8 at the time. This was best for him. I thought on ipod was a little "too much" for him still. An mp3 is cheaper & easier to use, so it's a great starting point. If he really uses it and maybe shows he's ready for something more advanced, then maybe down the line you could upgrade to an ipod. He's still got his mp3 and it works out great for us!

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I think 5 is a little young for an ipod. Maybe a cheap MP3 if you can find one. Or an inexpensive boombox for his room.

I'm considering an iPod shuffle for my daughter (9) for christmas or next birthday.

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