L.O. asks from Sterling Heights, MI on February 10, 2010
How Long Do You Keeep Sick Kids Home from School or Day Care???
I have 2 kids... 2 and 4... and a part time job.. I work 2 or3 days a week.. the days are flexible... I can go when I want and leave when I want.. but there is a lot of work to do.. and it needs to get done as fast as I can..(the job that I am doing used to be full time) I usually work M W F
my older child had a cough and fever on monday.. so I stayed home with her...Today was a snow day.. so I made arrangements to take the kids to day care tomorrow so I could work 1 day this week..
but now my younger child has a cough and fever..It seems like a bad cold...
Should I give him some advil and send him on to school so I can get to work one ay this week.?
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L.J. answers from Detroit on February 11, 2010
I may be one of the bad moms, but if my kids have a slight fever 100-100.4 i give kids motrin and send them on their way. and they are fine throughout the day. now my daughter is puking and i am home with her today.
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M.F. answers from Phoenix on February 10, 2010
Unless you want other parents bringing their sick children to daycare and infecting your children, keep your kids home. 24 hours with no fever and no medication is the rule for daycare. Do everyone a favor, including your child, and keep him home.
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L.N. answers from New York on February 10, 2010
24 hrs after the fever has broken. imagine you an adult having to go to work when you have a fever and cough. uhhh hurts to think. that's one, two, not fair to other parents to expose them to what your child has. arrange for someone to watch your kids at home if you have to work but don't send your child to daycare.
when my children have fevers, they stay home, then when the fever stops, i keep them one more day from school.
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S.H. answers from Honolulu on February 10, 2010
Daycare has rules. 24 hours without a fever. Then they can typically return.
Advil will not stop his cold. It will not necessarily suspend the "fever"... but he is still sick. Advil does NOT cure a cold. Just masks it at most. Daycare could very well just call you and have you take him home. (I didn't know Advil made "kids" Advil?)
Daycare/schools do NOT like kids going to school when sick and obviously so. It will make other kids sick and a whole vicious cycle occurs. With the class getting sick and spreading germs. And I for one, do not like when an obviously sick child is in class. Other kids may have other health issues too which if they get sick, can mean a lot more serious consequences.
I know, in reality, lots of working parents send their child to school or Daycare sick. They have no one to care for the child as a back-up. And they cannot take off of work themselves.
But, keep in mind that the school/daycare can just send your child back home. Especially if he is actively sick and presenting symptoms and is not feeling well and/or has a fever.
Perhaps ask your Daycare provider, what they think.
All the best,
Susan
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D.S. answers from New York on February 10, 2010
As an owner or a childcare center I do not allow sick children to return until they are 24 hours symptom free. That means from fever, vomiting, diarrhea, etc. Runny noses, and coughing (as long as it is not excessive) is questionable. Most kids have runny noses all year so that is a tough call. Usually if it is a clear runny nose I am okay with it. It really is the right thing to keep them home, after all most mom's are in the same boat as you so sending your child to school sick is only putting their children at risk.
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D.W. answers from Indianapolis on February 10, 2010
You should check (in general with your Day care/school) to see what their rules are.
In some cases, we are required to provide a doctor's note that our kids are OK to return (ours are both in day care). In other cases, they take our word that the child has been fever free for 24 hours and do not require documentation.
Fevers usually indicate some level of being contagious. 24 hours without fever is usually the gold standard.
FYI - Advil is an anti-inflammation medication/fever reducer. It does not suspend the virus, it alleviates the symptoms to help you function better.
All parents need to keep in mind, too, though that in most cases your child is contagious well before symptoms occur. Our of courtesy, you should want to keep them home (and hope other parents operate with the same sentiment) until they no longer are symptomatic. Calling your pediatrician and speaking with a triage nurse is always a great way to gauge what's going around and to determine approximately how long you might be affected.
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B.K. answers from Detroit on February 12, 2010
I agree! Keep sick kids at home, why expose other children to germs!!!
L.J. answers from Detroit on February 11, 2010
I may be one of the bad moms, but if my kids have a slight fever 100-100.4 i give kids motrin and send them on their way. and they are fine throughout the day. now my daughter is puking and i am home with her today.
M.F. answers from Benton Harbor on February 12, 2010
My question to you would be. Do you want other parents sending their child to school sick? To expose your son or daughter to what ever they have, so that your child could get sick. If you keep your child at home when they are sick hopefully it can brake the vicious cycle.
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