Help with Teacher Issue

I would gracefully tell the teacher what you told us. The aid needs to be appreciated too but not at the expense of your daughters feelings. If the teacher was to give the flowers to the aid she could have done it without your daughter knowing it. Tell her you didn't have the money for a present for both. Tell her how much thought your daughter put into the gift. Tell her how about how upset she is! I am sure she did not mean to hurt your girl in any way. It is a sticky issue if not handled gentlely.
Good Luck,
C. B

It seems like their may have been a misunderstanding...although I'm not sure how they would have confused the gift since your daughter made a card. Was the teacher's name clearly written on the card? I can't imagine a teacher regifting, especially in front of a student.

I would talk to the teacher about it - it may have been a misunderstanding, they may have thought it was for the aid. And the teacher may want to make things right with your daughter - I would find out though, for peace of mind:)
Good Luck,
S.

Is it possible that the aid thought it was for both of them? It may not neccessarily be that the teacher turned around and gave it to her. I'd just ask her teacher about it and walk in without any assumptions then clear things up.

I would say something!!!! The teacher needs to realize that she hurt your daughters feeling. I don't know what that teacher was thinking when she did that, obviously she was at ALL. I'm sorry that your daughter had to witness that. Good luck!