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Building a Home

My husband and I are going to be building our home within the next few months. Feeling a little overwhelmed with all of the choices and decisions we have to make and wanting to do everything right, do any of you have advice from your own experiences? Is there something that you wished you had done or something you are glad you did do? There are things that I know I want in my home like a big kitchen, pantry, 3 bedrooms all on one floor, a big family room for all of the toys and plenty of storage, etc...Are there any little extra things you added to your floor plan that made all of the difference? We are a family of 5 with 3 young kids ages 8 months to 5 years. Thanks for any advice any of you can offer.

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Thank you so much to everyone who gave advice about building a home! It was all so helpful. I really appreciated hearing all of your ideas and all of the things you have learned from this process. We are really excited and feel a little bit more educated because of your input and suggestions. Thanks so much to you all!!!!

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Have a mudroom.

A playroom that can grow with the child... ie: then become a 'study' or a place for the kids to hang out with their friends.

LOTS of storage in the playroom... and closets that can close to hide the mess.

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We bought an older home... and looked at at least 50 houses. Here is what I wish we had been able to find in an older home.

MUD ROOM with cubbies and hooks and easy to store spaces. Ideally this would be between the garage and entry space.

NICE laundry room with good storage. I spend a lot of time doing laundry... it's depressing to do it in the basement.

J.

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We've built 2 homes. My primary warning is to SUPERVISE the builder carefully. Many of them will take a short cut and you have to be around and watch it as it goes up. We were very active with both homes and still ended up with some issues.

House #1 .... only 2800 Sq Ft, too small for us. The master was upstairs with all bedrooms, the pantry was WAY too small. It worked for us about 10 yrs.

House #2 (current)...4000 sq ft.......we built this one when daughter was 5. Master down (love this), at this age for daughter (15), the upstairs is completely hers. This works wonderfully when she has friends over.

This house has a pantry the size of a small nursery. I LOVE it. I keep it well stocked, it also houses school supplies and some filing.

I love having a sink in my laundry room.

Spare fridge in laundry room is a plus. The Deep freezer is in garage.

We have 3 car garage, love the space.

There is a small guest room/office downstairs that is private and is next to the downstairs guest bath. We like this a lot.

The kitchen and family area are huge and open. Very good area for entertaining.

Mu suggestion would be to buy the best you can afford. The builders don't always use the highest quality products...they have to make $$.

We came in 3 yrs after building and revamped the entire heating and air system $20,000 and it was one of the best decisions we made.

We had trouble with our builder, I am not going into some of the horrow stories. Just keep your eyes wide open.

Congratulations!!

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Have a mudroom.

A playroom that can grow with the child... ie: then become a 'study' or a place for the kids to hang out with their friends.

LOTS of storage in the playroom... and closets that can close to hide the mess.

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Love all the answers you have gotten so far! I wanted to add if you plan on having a basement with the laundry down there, add a laundry chute. But I 2nd the idea of laundry on the same floor as the bedroom!!

I love covered porches / patios so if I were building my own home and could afford it, I'd put porch out front and covered patio out back with a fan!

I prefer tile to linoleum on the bathroom floors and would LOVE the ones that heat up!!

Get the windows that you can tilt in to clean.

Brick is nicer and although more expensive, will last longer and look nicer than siding (and you won't have to clean it!).

I'd love to have very large bedrooms!! (who wouldn't?)

I have a walk in closet - I could take or leave it. As long as I had enough space for my stuff, I'd be happy!

I'd LOVE an fireplace (not one that you 'turn' on but a real one with a mantle and hearth you can sit on).

Fenced in yard is a must for us!!

I love crown molding and if I could put it in every room, I would!

Congrats :)

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My must have would have laundry on bedroom(s) floor. No running up and down. And a powder room (toilet/sink) off the kitchen. Congrats on your new soon to be home.

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Yes, a LOT of built in storage in the common living areas! A full bath downstairs near a common area, so when they get a little older you can have one in the tub and still be available for the others.

ALL HARDWOOD floors! Well worth the price, industructable and BIG resale value.

Don't sell your house too soon. We had to live in an apartment for 6 months, a holy nighmare with 3 kids and a dog and mostly everything in storage.

Our house was suposed to be done nov 1st, was not done til the day after Easter, jeesh.

And I AGREE completely, go for a FANTASTIC kitchen, play room/family room attached so you can be in the kitchen and the kids will all be in your line of sight.

A nice BIG island, was the BEST spot in my house, homework, breakfast, company, everyone hung out at the island, they were OUT OF MY WAY, but still right in front of me, tehehe.

Good Luck and enjoy. I did have a lot of fun choosing my own cabinets and flooring and fixtures. Course it cost about 60k more than we thought it would, and took 6 months longer, but it was just the best house!!

Have fun!

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I'm building my home right now.

As another person posted - don't expect it to be done ON TIME.

A big pantry is a plus for me. I want to be able to see what I have in the pantry, plus keep blenders and other appliances in the pantry so they're not hogging up my counter space nor are they in cabinets too high or too low.

A lot of square footage is lost in hallways. Consider your budget and if you really want long hallways. You can easily make a little entry to one wing of the house that has a bedrom and batroom, then another entry to another wing that has another bathroom and bedroom.

My new home will have a 'great room' and kitchen kind of all in one. I like this b/c when i'm washing dishes, I can still see hubby and/or kids playing in the great room. I don't feel cut-off from everyone. My mom's kitchen has an island where we can sit and talk to her while she cooks, but when there are kiddos and they are in the living room playing, it's quite lonely for her and she's told me how upset she is by it. "Noone sat in the kitchen with me while I cooked." If she had an open floorplan she could watch everyone and talk with them.

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Depending on where your building one thing I wish we did was this. We have a boiler system in our new house ran through concrete floors and wish we'd ran the pipes through the driveway and front walk and stairs. Several people in our neighborhood did and they love not having a icy driveway. It stays clean all winter.

I would splurge for an architect and interior designer as we paid too much and didn't get exactly what we needed. We have lots of wasted space in my opinion.

I would include these:

laundry room sink AND granite counters in laundry room

stainless interior on dishwasher(it doesn't stain or smell)

double oven with heating drawer and gas drawer

icynene foam insulation on all walls, including interior(soundproofs as well as saves money)

metal roof(ugly, but never needs replaced)

stained concrete instead of porcelain tile(which is not supposed to ever crack and has)

I would NOT put so many extra outlets in. I would THINK about whether or not I needed one there. We put at leaset 2 on every single wall. It cost us $75 per outlet. We have 4 in the living room, 3 in the bedroom, and 12 outside under the eaves that we will never use that I can see right now.

I would not get a LG front load washer and dryer as it doesn't work.

I would NEVER buy a BOSCH dishwasher which had NO HEATER and rusted my Oneida silverware plus never dried.

I would NOT buy energy star ceiling fans and lights($5000 for a 2800 foot house). We will never make our money back on utility savings.

I would not let my husband pick anything as he picked the plainest of all things and it makes our house look much cheaper than the neighbors(plain window, no paines or lines at all look old and outdated). One realtor said we might have to ask $60000 less than it cost to compensate.

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