Breastfeeding Help!! - Orlando,FL

I sell a book in my shop (Miracles Maternity Boutique)called Mama Knows Breast and it is great--great tips/explanations but lighthearted and mama-to-mama honest. :)
-D.

C.,

Sounds like you have some good advice. I'll keep this short, but three things that helped me succeed at breast feeding were: 1. A book called, "So That's What They're For" by Janet Tamaro; a good read and funny; 2. A breast feeding class offered by the hospital and 3. Being told that it would be easier the second time around.

Best of luck to you and know that you are not alone.

Hi C....I don't know if you live in Palm Coast or Flagler Beach at all....but there is a breastfeeding support group I would like to recommend you attend which I found extremely helpful. I was modest too...but once you begin and get used to it and are around others who do it, it will be ok:) You can do it. The support group is La Leche League and meets the first Friday of every month at the Flagler County Library in Palm Coast on Belle Terre at 10 am in the children's department. Post again if you need more support or help. I consider myself a veteran breastfeeder:)
Good luck....S.

Hi C.! Congrats on both the baby and the decision!
Some good advice on here... I would like to add: You will many times get conflicting advice from different people (I got conflicting info from the nurses at the hospital - each shift had opposite advice)... Whatever you are told, if it doesn't work for you.. it doesn't necessarily mean that you are doing something wrong. Babies are different too.
For ex: I read, and was told "switch breasts after 15 minutes, be sure they nurse from both sides each time". I also was told they need to completely empty each breast (to get the "hind" milk)... Hmmmm. newborn... I had a lot of milk...
When I removed my newborn from my breast after 15 min to "switch" to the other side... it effectively ended the nursing session and he "quit". refused to take the other or return to the same side. I would say, especially in the beginning days... let him nurse one side until he/she is done. Then you can offer the other... then NEXT TIME, start with the side they didn't nurse (or barely nursed)...

Other than that... if later on you decide that it isn't working for your family, do not feel guilt about it. Sometimes it doesn't. Most times it does, but not always. And if it doesn't it doesn't mean that you did anything wrong or you failed at anything...

My first baby was easy and great at it... the second... we gave up (for many reasons, not any one thing). So, congratulations on making the effort to give it a shot. It is worth it for all of you if it works well for your family.
Blessings to you and your family!

Congrats C.! From the look of it, you've got a terrific support network on Mama Source. I just wanted to add a few things:

I am currently breastfeeding my second child. One thing I found invaluable the first time around was going to Lactation Lunches through Florida Hospital. I went to the ones at Florida South, but I think all of the hospitals have them. They are held one day a week at noon--you go, pay $7 or so for a boxed lunch and then you sit with other women (all breastfeeding too) and discuss your issues. If you need lactation consultation, you can schedule an appt, or see a consultant after the class. I don't know what they charge these days, but it is definitely worth it. Out of all of my friends who were breastfeeding their children the first time around, I don't know one who didn't need some sort of intervention. so, don't give up. It is the greatest gift you can give your child.

Also, Target now sells great nursing tank tops and bras (buy online if you can't find your size--free shipping with $50 purchase). It is cheaper than glamourmom.com and other sites/stores.

BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!!!

The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding is a great resource. Also breastfeeding.com has a gallery where women can post their images of nursing to share. This is a great way to see the beauty that is breastfeeding. Don't be afraid to call a lactation consultant. In fact, I'd recommend setting up an appointment to visit one as soon as your baby is born, because I didn't even know I had a latch problem and the lactation consultant helped me out big time. My local WIC office has one for free and so did the hospital and local county health department. I also would recommend natural birth if you haven't chosen how you plan on having your baby. In the US c-section rates are 1 in 2 births and in Florida its actually a higher stat at c-sections occurring 67% of the time. Having a c-section makes it a lot harder to breastfeed because establishing a good latch within the first 30 minutes of birth is extremely important for the baby and makes breastfeeding much easier. Midwives are great and have a c-section rate of less than 1% in the state of Florida. More info on midwives is available by watching the movie The Business of Being Born and by reading Spiritual Midwifery by Ina May Gaskin. If you have any other questions, please feel free to contact me here and I will do my best to get you any additional info you need. Congrats on your pregnancy and I hope it all goes well!

C.,

First of all, relax! Don't worry. God made us to be able to nurse and where there is a will and a committment, there is a way, if it's meant to be.

Next, When you go into labor and after you have that precious little one, tell the nurses that you would like at least one hour (up to two hours is allowable) alone with him/her to work on nursing (unless you have an experienced friend who would like to help you)and bonding. Then, relax! Lay your baby on your chest and allow him/her to smell your scent, then place him/her close to the nipple. Let him/her root for it... but don't be in a hurry, again, just relax. Often times, nurses in the ob will try to pressure you to hurry and feed the baby, but there is no hurry, the baby will not starve if it doesn't happen right away. Take your time and go slowly. Don't set up high expectations for an immediate latch on.
Now, there is a great book called,"the womanly art of breastfeeding". It will help you to know the "how to" of it all and will help dispell any fears you may have. I have successfully nursed for a combined total of 5 years.
Just remember that you may become engorged within the first week of being back home and it can be quite painful, just slip into a warm shower for a few minutes and let the water help to "leak" some of the milk out to ease the discomfort.
The breast pump I used was a Medula electric hand pump. It is very strong and serves the purpose of portability and strength.
Again, relax, relax, relax...and enjoy knowing that you're giving your little one the best that there is available to mankind.
Feel free to ask any other questions on a personal level. You're going to do just fine... don't worry, relax.

Take Care,
T. (mom of 4)

Hello,
First of all I want to say good for you for making the decision to try breastfeeding for your new baby. I have 2 and successfully nursed both exclusively each for 1 year.
A few things that I felt were a must, ( Especially for the modest mommy)
A nursing cover called a Hooter Hider. Here is the link

http://www.bebeaulait.com/

I bought a cheaper version on ebay from someone who makes them called ( Joanne by design) I LOVE IT!! and they are really fashionable
also, check out Moby wraps, they are good for baby carrying and for nursing and you can't even tell you are nursing.

I agree that Le leche league is a really great rescource

I used a manual advent pump for both my kids and loved it.
Wish you luck and just hang in there :)

i don't have much advice because it was so hard with my first one i gave up after two weeks i just wanted to say i am happy for you for deciding to go with it this time. i am eight months along and i decided no matter what i will stick with it this time. just know there will someone going through the same thing as you.
invest in a really cute cover up though, i already bought mine.

Hi C.,
First thing you HAVE to do is relax. You've made a good decision and it's something that has been going on since women began giving birth! The thing that helped me the most was the lactation specialist at Memorial Hospital. They had a wonderful way of helping. I think most hospitals have lactation specialists, but I would be sure to check if I were you. I nursed all three of my children and wouldn't trade a day of it. The best breast pump is Medula. I was like Elsie the Cow with all three of mine and I don't know what I would have done without the pump. My second child was premature and I had to pump at the hospital and at home. I rented one and insurance helped to pay for it. Make sure you voice any concerns you have with your OB/GYN. Their help is invaluable. Another big positive for breast feeding is it's a heck of a lot cheaper! Have you priced formula lately?! Good luck to you and many blessings on your growing family!

Good for you, C., breastfeeding is an amazingly rewarding experience. when I was pregnant, my husband and I did the lamaz (SP?) classes and I wish I would have gone to the breastfeeding classes instead. Also, I got the Modela electric pump....highly recommend this! (handheld manual pumps take FOREVER) I ended up getting the one with 2 seperate attachements (so I could do both breasts at the same time)- I don't think that is necessary. One would have been enough. I'm sure there are other moms who will disagree with what I'm about to say, but it worked for us: I breastfed and started formula after 2 weeks. I breastfed until 4 months. The combo of breast milk and formula had great benefits. For one, breastfeeding alone is super demanding and you begin feeling like a machine and can't get anything else done. Yes, this is selfish, but whatever. Also, my daughter's appitite was HUGE and just not 100% satisfied with the breast alone. Yeah, yeah, yeah it's all about supply and demand- what she needs, she'll get. However, I was able to somewhat maintain my sanity by supplementing formula a couple bottles during the day.

Pads: There are 3 brands I found and tried. The Johnson and Johnson brand was my favorite. The Avent brand was too bulky- the other was too thin and moved around too much.

There is a breastfeeding support group in Tallahassee that meets every Weds at noon. Not sure where you live, but there might be something like this near you. It's at a little boutique. I'm sure if you ask a place like this, they can tell you if one exists. The whole "motherhood" network is pretty informed on all the shops in our area.

Anyway, much luck to you and don't give up when your nipples are screaming- work through it!
E.

I am a mom to a one year old, my first. I knew early on I wanted to breastfeed and read all sorts of books while pregnant. My favorite was "So That's What They're For!: Breastfeeding Basics." It was a light hearted book that gave accurate information, while reducing my stress and concerns. It addressed a lot of the modesty issues and provided reassurance that breastfeeding is the reason God gave us cleavage. ;)

One more thing...since you formula fed with the first child, feeding was relatively easy. You need to approach breastfeeding with the knowledge that it will initially be very hard. I swear getting my graduate degree was easier than learning to breastfeed. Don't give up though, just because you know there is an easier alternative. It took me 7 weeks to figure out a successful nursing relationship with my son...and I am thankful every day now that I stuck it out. Hang in there and know that the end results will be more rewarding than anything else you have ever accomplished. :)

Congrats on the pregnancy, the smart decision to breastfeed and for being willing to put your child first.

Okay, I PERSONALLY haven't breastfed (I know you moms out there are groaning and rolling your eyes....), BUT I am a nurse. I also worked in the neonatal ICU at UAB and attended a breastfeeding workshop, so I do know a little. (Am I redeemed a little???) Okay, first as far as the pumps- we recomended the Modella (spelling?? I Forget it) Pump in Style. It simulates the suck pattern of an infant (faster to initate let down, then slower when the flow is going). One of close friends has used it for her first two children and LOVES it. She is dusting it off for her third. That being said, my sister bought hand pumps- ended up taking of the top and manually pumping her milk. To her it was the fastest and most comfortable. I think a lot of it is finding a good fit for you, your body and comfort.
Second, be patient with yourself- and the baby. This is hardwired into both of you...but you BOTH have to 'learn' it (in different ways). If you have trouble latching on- get some help. Sometime the hospital that you have birth at will have lactation consultants free of charge. It can be minor and just need a few adjustments like a nipple sheild or something to get the baby over the hump.

Drink lots of water, and rest. Making milk does tire a body out more than you realize.

MOST IMPORTANT!!!!! Enjoy the fact that your giving your baby one of the most precious things after birth that anyone could ever do. That milk is genetically engineered for him (or her) to be just what he needs it be. Only you can do!!!!!

GOOD LUCK!!

What a wonderful gift you are giving your child. Breastmilk is nature's perfect food. I just wanted to encourage you not to give up; while breastfeeding is a beautiful and natural thing, it is not always easy. Be sure you speak to the lactation nurse when you are in the hospital. She will help you and baby learn to latch on properly, which will prevent a lot of soreness and headaches!

I didn't read any books on breastfeeding but I found lots of good information on the La Leche League website (http://www.lllusa.org/). My best advice is if you are suffering any discomfort, get help right away! Many hospitals offer free consultation with the lactation nurse after delivery, even after you've gone home.

I also wanted to recommend a breast pump. I have the Medela Pump in Style and it is fantastic. It is an electric (or battery powered or even a/c powered by your car!) double pump. You can do both sides at once in under 15 minutes. It is very comfortable, too. I have used it with two children now.

Good luck! And congratulations on the new baby!

Hi C.:

Congrats! Breastfeeding is not always easy, but well worth it. Most babies will take to it naturally. Let the nipple touch the side of their mouth and they will move to that side. Rotate sides so that your milk is depleted on both.

I experienced a lot of soreness. I was able to deal with it though. I had an aunt who would occassionally bleed because nipples get so dry. She would use utter cream after breastfeeding. Of course cleaning it off before the baby returned for nursing.

The hospital is your best resource for lactation consultation. They have a nurse that will come in and answer your questions. They used to give free hand pumps in the hospital. They do work great, especially if you have a good supply of milk.

I used a Medella electric double pump. I loved it. I have known several other moms who used the hand pumps and had the same results.

With pumping and freezing, I had no problems switching between bottle and pumping. Each experience is different.

Good luck to you and remember it is the best thing for the baby. But don't beat yourself up if it doesn't work out for you.

My suggestion is to not pick up one book, throw nervousness out the window and let nature take it's course. Babies are wired to breast feed and they will do so given that your milk comes in (it's very rare that it doesn't). Relax, relax, relax and you'll be able to do it! Good luck. It's an amazing experience!

Hi

I have 2 children and tried to breastfeed both but gave up very quickly to my disgust. I met with a group of moms last year and we started to meet at a Breastfeeding centre in Lake Mary, I wished that I had know about this place earlier as they were extremley friendly and knowledgeable. They are located in Waymont Court, Off of Lake Mary Blvd. I recommend going in and speaking with the ladies there. Hope this helps
C., Longwood

Right now, go buy a tube of lanolin cream and start putting on your nipples. This will prevent cracking and bleeding once the little blessing begins nursing. I am mom to six and this is the absoluted best thing to do!!! Promise! Then after delivery be certain to drink a lot of liquids throughout the day. You can still be very discreet while feelding. I often nursed in my van. Congratulations and I'm glad you are willing to try breastfeeding!

Hi, I used a Medela Breast pump and I thought it was great. It was electric and a double pump and it didnt hurt at all and it was quick. My son was in nicu so I had to pump the milk and take it to nicu. I am so glad I did because he was a preemie and I think it helped. My daughter was also a preemie and she developed NEC and we almost lost her and some say had she gotten breast milk instead of formula she would have not gotten nec. The Medela pump is quite expensive but if you look on ebay you can usually get a good deal on a new one compared to the stores or ask the lactation specialist at the hospital. Thanks and congratulations on the new baby!!

Congratulations on your decision! It's a big one but one that I think you'll find you're glad you made. I understand your modesty issues (I had them too) but you'll get over them pretty quick because when your baby is hungry and you're his or her only source of food you'll do everything you can to satisfy that need and everyone else can go to...! Anyway, you should go to the local La Leche League for advice and support on breastfeeding. La Leche is a not-for-profit organization whose mission is to help mothers worldwide to breastfeed through mother-to-mother support, education, information, and encouragement, and to promote a better understanding of breastfeeding as an important element in the healthy development of the baby and mother (This quote is taken directly from their website). The hospital where you deliver your baby should also have information on the league in Orlando just ask the lactation consultant. As for breast pumps. The Medela "Pump in Style" is the one I used and it worked great. I also had Medela hand pump that I got from the hospital which worked with the Medela bottles that came with my pump. Medela products can be found at any store that sells baby gear including Wal-Mart and Target. Good Luck!

I breast fed my little boy for the first 2.5 months. I couldn't after that due to having major surgery. I will say the first few months are the toughest, so stick them out and after it will be a piece of cake. You will have a lot of milk for the first month or two, so pump and freeze it. I took one of the breast feeding classes the hospital offered and found it very helpful. The LaLache League has a book out and I found that one to be the best. Make sure you have a boppy because I constantly used that while breast feeding. It's easier to have the baby on that on your lap while feeding. When you are feeding, you should alternate which side you start on at each feeding and sometimes it might help to keep a log of the start time, which side, and when finished. It's very overwhelming at first, I will say that. The hospital will also have a lactation number for you to call if you have any problems or questions. Also the hospital should do a weekly "lunch" where you are with other mothers who breastfeed and they are very helpful. Good luck.

Hi C.,
Congrats on the baby on the way! When I had my first baby, breastfeeding was a nightmare because I just thougt it would come natural and I didn't do anything to really prepare. So, when I was pregnant with baby #2, my husband and I took a breastfeeding class together. BEST DECISION I EVER MADE! Believe it or not, even though it is totally natural to breastfeed, the process dosen't come so naturally. My husband was a HUGE help and between him and the class, the second time around was PRETTY MUCH a breeze. There is a great amount of pain in the beginning, even if they are latched on right. But, you just have to push through those first few weeks and it will be so worth it. Lansinoh cream is really great-especially in the beginning-and you can find it in the baby aisle pretty much everywhere. Also, take advantage of the lactation nurse-even after you are back home-that is offered to you at the hospital. Good luck. You will be so glad you at least gave it a try this time :-)

Hi, C.!

I am a 55 yr young Granni, I had four girls beginning in 1970 when the Docs were still insisting that the bottle was the way to go! By my second pregnancy La Leche League was in place and was gaining in strength and the Doc didn't look at me like I was crazy for breastfeeding. I breastfed ALL four of my girls. Things have changed since then but some things remain. The important thing for you to remember is that relaxation is the key to a happy baby & a happy Mommy! Frustration is the enemy! Take it easy and relax, let your baby guide you!

If you can breastfeed for three days to a week your baby will be getting cholosterum the natural immunization for newborns so, even if you don't continue those first few days are KEY for your newborn.

Don't let ANYONE tell you when to change your baby over to a bottle and formula that is a decision for you to make alone. My milk went away over the course of a week right at three months in each of my babies lives, my daughters when they grew up & read all the 'right' books told me, "Mom, that isn't possible, you must have weaned them on purpose" wellllll, with the two daughters who choose to breastfeed the same thing happened! I have had friends who breastfed their children to age two and were perfectly happy about it. We are all individuals with different lives and bodies!

I don't know anything about breast pumps as I never used one. I never used a bottle except for juice, water & cereal.

When I was in public and needed to feed my baby, I simply excused myself to the restroom, began feeding and covered myself and the baby with a light receiving blanket and continued my shopping, eating or whatever.

I wish for you a healthy, happy baby and breastfeeding experience!

I hope I helped in some small measure.

A.

Chrita-
I love that you are willing to try. You know all of the reasons breastfeeding is best for the baby but it increases your weight loss tremendously. I would simly contact the best people to answer all of your breastfeeding questions...Le Leche League. They are pros at helping mommies with breastfeeding tips they will even come to the hospital to help the baby latch on. They have continuous support with groups. This allows you to network with other mommies going through the same thing. Look them up on line. I hope I spelled it right.
Suzonna

C.,

I was the same way,very modest. Once you try it, you realize that it is not as bad as you thought. The first month or so is rough, but it will get easier. Just be prepared to be tied down, but only for the first month or so. I used the medula pump and I loved it. One tip, if you are on the go and nervous about feeding in public, you can nurse in the car. Sit in the back and bring something to entertain your older boy and you should be just fine. The book I used was a book that I already had "What to Expect the First Year" Good Luck, you will be just fine.

Ok, I had a really easy time breastfeeding both my children, they just took right to it so I don't know what to do if they have problems but I do know what I think helped it be so easy. One thing I've seen said a lot from other moms is they were not able to nurse right after birth and that caused problems. As long as you're not having a c-section and the baby is healthy make sure and say you want to breastfeed before they take that baby anywhere. With both of my babies they had the little in delivery room check-up and given the ok and I was able to put them right on to start nursing. My daughter nursed (or at least sucked)for two hours straight and my son was on for a good hour. I think that helps a lot in getting them into the breastfeeding and help the milk start coming in. Plus, while you're in the hospital they should have lactation specialist there that can help you while still there. As for good pumps, I'm really not sure, I hated pumping so after they were four months they got formula when I wasn't around (which wasn't much, I work really part time and at night so they got no more than 1-3 bottles a day). Hopefully your little one will take to it naturally and you won't have any problems, but if you do, stick with it, it has so many health benefits for baby and you.

Good Morning C.,

It is a wonderful experience to be able to breastfeed your child, but if it doesn't work out or your baby doesn't take to your breast at first, try using a contact nipple shield which was created by Medela. It is sold at walmart, target, burlington and toys r us for about $5. A friend of mine has had two wonderful experiences using this little device which trains your child how to latch on.
My first daughter nursed for about 2 to 3 weeks ~ I was nervous and thought she was starving and needed more, my 2nd child nursed for about 5 months, my 3rd child took to it without any problems from the beginning and my last child born 4 weeks ago refused to nurse at all.
I tried to use the nipple shield, but my youngest would wait until she was starving and gets frustrated very fast, so I gave up and decided to pump and give formula. Even though I did not have the patience to sit and help her learn to nurse, I still think this is a wonderful little tool.

I can't tell you not to be nervous, it's a big commitment, but I can say this; Breastfeeding is the most natural thing a mother can do for her child. It's the way god intended us to nourish our babies and there are so many of us out there to support your efforts. First of all, take advantage of the lactation consultants at the hospital where you will deliver. they know their stuff and are eager to help in any way they can. As for gear, every woman is different. I hated electric breast pumps because of the complexity of working it, keeping it clean and taking care of my kids. For me, the old fashioned hand pump worked like a charm, and it came free from the hospital:) Second, be prepared for the fact that in the beginning it could hurt a little, but DON'T GIVE UP! Keep some Lansinoh on hand. Make sure you have nursing pads for those leaks and I personally love using a Boppy Pillow to help support baby so my arms don't get so exhausted. Since this is your second baby, you'll need to have something that can occupy your little boy while you nurse your baby. I would suggest having a list of "special" activities that will keep him entertained during that 30 minutes or so. I used snacks, books, legos, play-doh, washable paint, the sand box and baby einstein videos, but you'll have to find what works for your son. This is going to be an amazing experience for you and your baby, enjoy it and don't let anyone discourage you. Congrats on making a great decision for your family! God Bless1

C.,

Breastfeeding is one of the most wonderful experiences a mom could ever have. It is different for every mom because her milk flow is different and babies latch on differently. The hospital usually has a lactationist who can come in and help you. She will show you exactly what you need to do and what you don't need to do. I had one come in and help me with my first baby and it was wonderful!

If you are considering a breast pump, I strongly recommend Madella. They are more expensive, but there is a reason. They are great, used by most hospitals, and they don't hurt.

All the best to you! You are making a great decision for both you and the baby!

T.

Love the medula swing breast pump! Drink lots and eat well! But don't be disappointed if it doesn't work out. Also get lots of sleep, (nap when your 2 yr old does) and pump as much as he or she eats if you are not breast feeding that day. Good Luck! Jen

So much to say, I dont even know where to start 

First off-I am so happy for you that you have decided to try breastfeeding. There are such GREAT benefits to you and your child for doing so.

As far as info , there are lots of great sites. Two I recommend are:

1)http://www.kellymom.com/

Kelly mom is a great website for information and potential trouble shooting if you run into some bumps.

2)http://www.diaperswappers.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=14
Is another great website, this is the link to the Breastfeeding support forum where you can ask other moms who have been there done that. It good b/c you can search and maybe see if someone else has asked that question already. It also has ladies on different times zones so if you end up having a question in the middle of the night, good chance you will get a response in short order.

I would say start at Kelly Mom and start browsing around and getting a feel for it.

As for Pumps, I have only used the Lansinoh Double Electric Pump and I love it. Its more affordable than Medelas and it comes with a CD so you can watch the basics of how to use it, wash it, etc. I am a first time mom and it made me feel better that it was so explained with video :). It also fits many bottles. I use Medela bottles as well as Milk Mate Bottles (I bought online at amazon before there were so many BPA free choices in bottles). I also use these bottles b/c you can buy a ton and go from pump, to feeding or to freezer and you dont waste a TON of money on the bag or mess with transferring the milk. I didnt think it would really add up but it did and so I switched to the bottles. I digress, back to the pump-it is also great b/c you can control suction and speed and figure out what works best for you. For me, throughout breastfeeding I would adjust the suction and speed to mimic my baby. I wouldn’t suggest purchasing a pump right away. If you need one early on I would suggest renting one from the hospital. May sound gross but its not. I don’t know much about it, but from what other girlfriends have told me, it’s the way to go if you need a pump early on, like the first few days.

Pump Link:
http://www.target.com/Lansinoh-Double-Electric-Breast-Pum...

Mothers Milk Mate Bottle Link:
http://www.mothersmilkmate.com/

If you have any other questions don’t hesitate to email me 

Lastly, I would say DON’T stress, get rest whenever possible and eat well. For me that was what helped me stay successful. I can defiantly tell when I am tired or stressed that my supply suffers. So just take it easy 

Good Luck and Enjoy. For me I had no idea I would feel this strongly about it, but it’s been such a wonderful and rewarding feeling to nurse.

Sorry for the novel-lol

I'm a new mom with a 2 month old and had a very difficult time with breastfeeding. We are just now getting the hang of it. The best advice I can give is to make sure the lactation consultant is there the very first time you try to feed your baby. If not you will end up with bloody, blistered nipples immediately (like me). Do not try to breastfeed those first days in the hospital without professional help. Also, try not to use a nipple shield (silicone cover to help baby latch) unless you absolutely have to. I feel they gave this to me because they were in a hurry and it took seven weeks to wean the baby off of it fully. The nipple shield caused more mess and air intake than without, and it still was very painful at first. As for pumps, the medela double pumps are best, but the most expensive. Good luck with breastfeeding. It is much more convenient and healthy for the baby, once you get the hang of it. Just be patient. Breastfeeding is very difficult, but will get easier with time. Also, I have recently been told that the La Leche league is helpful, but have not yet attended a meeting myself.

Yeah to you for giving it a try! It is a wonderful thing. I also used the Medela pump (but found it just easier to nurse than pump and bottle feed). I bought a pack of very lightweight receiving blankets at the store and practiced in front of a mirror to get the hang of covering up while baby nursed--it became second nature and was no big deal to nurse in public. At the hospital I asked the nurse to help me with the nursing and asked for the lactation consultant to come see me. I also contacted La Leche League and went to their meetings. They were very helpful. Contacting a lactation consultant after you go home is also a good idea if you need it. Oh,I also had some Lansolin to put on my nipples because it was sore for the second week or so, but that quickly resolved and there was no discomfort ever after that. Good luck!

Horray for you! You will find that bf the second comes easier than the first. Your milk will come in sooner and a much better supply. I was totally clueless when it can to bf the first time. I would suggest you find out if the hospital you will be delivering at has a lacation consultant on staff. If not contact the one a t your local health dept. Evern if you are not in assistance or WIC she is available to you. I visited mine when my daughter was 6 days old and it was a great help for her to show me how to hold her and that I was doning some things right and she corrected things I was doing wring. Also contact your local La Leche group. They are a great source of info and experience. They usually have meetings once a momth and going to one before you deliver would be great.
As for the modesty, that is normal. Check out some of the bf clothing sites. I loved a bf tank I got from Glamourmom.com. I was great to wear with a shirt or sweater over it and very discreet. A good nursing cover is great. I had one and loved it. Again look for these online. I can't remember where I got mine but it was online. A boopy is a must for bf. The most important thing is to get help the first week you are home. I had a two year old and a newborn also so my husband stayed home a week. It is important to stay relaxed and comfortable while getting bf established. Don't think you can't do it if things don't go great the first few days. Just keep at it and implore all the help you can get from the hospital staff, like the lactation consultant and La Leche group.

All I know is that when I was pregnant my friend had just had her baby. She had told me it was "hard" but that she was going to get it. She did. She told me not to give up and keep trying and I'd get it. It was CAKE! It wasn't hard at all. It's how your mind is going into it. It's one of the best things you can do for your child and yourself. When the little cramps start in the beginning -= just remember they are eating away your fat. They also won't last long. It makes you really tired at first - you also get really thirsty. There are different holds you'll learn about from your lactation consultant. She'll tell you everything you need to know actually. Just remember - IT'S NOT HARD AND YOU AND YOUR BABY CAN DO IT!!!!!!!

Hi Crista! first of all, congratulations on your pregnancy and choice to breastfeed! Breastfeeding is so rewarding for both you and your baby. It helps burn calories and helps you to get back to your prepregnancy size much faster, and the breastmilk is so much better for the baby. I am 28 years old and have 4 children ages 6, 4, 3, and 15 months. I breastfed my first 2 exclusively with absolutely no formula for 1 year, and I breastfed my 3 year old exclusively for 15 months, and I am still breastfeeding my 15 month old. When I needed to pump, (especially in the begining when I would get engorged) I used the medela style and go, (I believe is what it's called). It looks like a briefcase and it carries everything inside and connects to a power source and you can pump both breasts at the same time or just one, and it pumps evenly and fast, and it's less tiring than a hand pump.
If you have any questions, please feel free to e-mail me! I am so excited that you've chosen to nurish your baby with the milk God intended for your precious baby! It's definitely rewarding and worth it for you and your baby. Take care, and Good luck!
V.

You can do it! I would recommend getting in touch with your local La Leche League You can go to www.llli.org/ab.html and get the contact number. They have monthly meeting that give great info on breastfeeding. They are also there to help after the birth for any questions or difficulties you might have. I just stopped nursing my son 2 weeks ago and he is now 14mnth old I wasn't sure in the beginning if I wanted to breastfeed, but am so happy I stuck with it. I liked the book "Womanly art of breastfeeding" and "So that's what they're for". My recommendation is make your goal 6 weeks. The first 6 weeks are the hardest then it all came together and was much easier than bottles and better for the baby. I used the Medella Pump in Style. One of the most expensive, but did a great job. I would also recommend "soothies" they are gel pads that you can use when you first start nursing to help sooth sore nipples. Also use lanasol cream after each feeding which helps a lot at the beginning. Again I think the La Leche League Meeting are so terrific, informative and helpful. Good Luck!

Congratulations on your pregnancy and your desire to breastfeed. I have a 5 year old that I breast fed for 15 months and a 3 month old that I am currently breastfeeding. I am not a good public feeder (I am very fearful of flashing). When I am out in public, I usually try and find a restroom or dressing room or I sit in the car. It helps if you have someone to watch your other child. If you don't, then he will have to be trained to be patient (believe it or not, it is possible).
Medela makes the best breast pump. It is worth the investment. If cost is an issue, try consignment or craigs list and just purchase the white valve and tubing for sanitary reasons.
Your nipples may get a little sore at first but it will eventually go away and won't hurt a bit. Be sure to arrange for a lactation nurse to visit you in the hospital (preferrably at your first feeding). Once the baby gets used to breastfeeding (while in the hospital), if you are doing it wrong or if the baby is not latching on correctly, it is very difficult to change. Once you get the hang of it, it is a piece of cake.
If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me. Congratulations and remember to be patient, it's a wonderful experience.
K.

Hi C.,
There are some great books out there, which I'm sure you will get plenty of recommendations for--but also look at Babywise and the Baby Whisperer books which will help you get your baby on a sleep/feed routine--which you will be thankful for when you have your baby sleeping through the night by 16 weeks! I highly recommend doing the routine though over a complete feed on demand which many BFing books recommend as part of an attachment parenting approach. But read up on both and see what will suit you and your family.
Also check with you local hospitals--many of them offer breastfeeding classes which will give you some great basics on getting started-- alot of them offer BFing classes as a part of a Lamaze or birthing class.

I really liked the Medela electric pump, and bought one, but many moms don't end up needing to pump at all, so before you invest in buying one, you can rent one from the hospital for much less. The hospital grade ones really are the best though (which would include the Medala one that I have)--you can pump both breasts at one time and they are very efficient/fast--which you will find is very important if you end up needed to pump!
Finally, I want to give you some advice that was given to me when I started BFing my son. First, give it some time--at least two week before you will get in the groove--for most of us it takes practice and those first few days/weeks can be tough--but it you can make it two weeks--it will only get easier--so just keep telling yourself that when you nipples are killing you and the session are taking what seem like forever. Next, keep some bottles and formula on hand--just in case. You milk may come in late (mine did), the baby may have latching issues, and you just never know, and the last thing you want to do is have a crying, hungry baby in the middle of the night and nothing to feed them! Be prepared for anything--just because you are BFing doesn't mean that you will never need a bottle or a supplement.
Besides that--good luck--and I'm glad you are giving it a try!

Good for you! I breastfed both of my girls past the age of 2. The best thing I did was surround myself with other breastfeeding moms.

The Educated Mama in Sanford offers great classes on Breastfeeding, everything from getting started to pumping to introducing solids while breastfeeding.

The website is http://www.theeducatedmama.com

There are also great support groups with La Leche League. Here is their website: http://www.lllflorida.com/groups/central/index.html

I bought a Medela pump. Don't buy a cheap pump, invest in a really good one. It will help keep your volume up and it's also good to have a good supply so you can get out of the house when you need to :)

~G.

Dear C.,

Good for you! Breastfeeding your baby is such a smart decision. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself or you'll stress out. You asked for resources. Of course, there is the classic, The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding. Kellymom.com is a helpful website (I just used it this morning). There is a LaLeche group in St. Augustine and there is also a helpful support group that meets at the health dept. once a month. You may want to attend a meeting when your due date is in site. I always found it so helpful to get advice directly from other moms. It's good to have a support system that you can call on in times of need. My own experience was a little rough in the early days. I had a very difficult labor and then a C-section. I had complications and was in the hospital for a weak. Anyway, the hospital staff was pressuring me to not nurse and give my daughter formula. My husband (and family too)knew how important nursing was to me and he was my advocate in keeping the formula at bay.

Try not to think about modesty issues. I never thought I'd nurse in public. Then, one day, I just did it and it was no big deal.

I wish you a great experience!

One thing I want to tell you is something I wish someone had told me- not all babies "get it" right away how to latch on properly. (I assumed it came naturally.)I had a c-section with my first one and was in the hospital for a few days. With EVERY feeding, the nurses would bring me my son and plop him on to my boob-- but any time I tried it myself I struggled. When I got home, I couldn't figure it out. He would sense my frustartion and he would scream and arch his back and get so mad-- and I would cry, and it was a huge mess! I was sore and miserable and he was hungry and frustrated! But my husband convinced me to stick with it and I'm so glad I did. I was a bit modest, too, so I supplimented with formula (I am not a patient person so pumping was not an option for me!!) and he had no problems with "nipple confusion". I do highly recommend that while you're at the hospital that you ask to spaek with a lactation consultant-- tell her your concerns and she can help you feel comfortable and give you plenty of tips. As far as nursing while you have a toddler, I can give you tips on that. Have a nursing basket-- put burp cloths and anything else you need for yourself, but also keep it stocked with ziplock baggies of cherios and a couple of small books and toys for your toddler. Right before you sit down to nurse the baby, make sure your toddler's sippy cup is full and grab the basket. When he wants a snack or some attention, you'll be prepared. Also, once you get used to helping the baby latch on, do it in front of the mirror and you'll be surprised at how good you can get doing it with minimal exposure and you'll be a pro before you know it and be ready to go out in public.

Definitely talk to the lactation consultant at your hospital. Tell your OB/GYN that you intend to breastfeed and make sure that the lactation consultant comes to visit you. I would also recommend taking a breastfeeding class so that you have some more confidence about what to do in the first day or so post-partum before the lactation consultant makes it to your room.
Breastfeeding can be frustrating and it can be painful, but it generally isn't. In most hospitals your lactation consultant is a free resource and I would make the effort to go see her the week after you give birth, just for your own peace of mind. You can weigh your baby before and after and you will feel more comfortable about your supply, your technique, and your baby's feedings.
Most OBs now are very supportive of breastfeeding and will also give you some good advice. The other reader who recommended the post-partum lunches is also spot on. Since this will be your second child you won't have all of the issues some of the other women do, but since it's your first time nursing it will give you some more confidence about nursing in public. Me, I didn't really have that problem and would whip it out just about anywhere. I mean, I didn't wave my boob around or anything, but I found that it just didn't bother me to nurse most places.
The lactation consultant can recommend the best breast pump for your needs. If you are going to start working part or full time you'll need an electric pump. If you are just going to do the occasional pump so your husband can give the baby a bottle, a hand pump should be fine. It really depends on the kind of pumping you will be doing. The lactation consultant is your friend; talk to her.

So glad you're deciding to breastfeed. If you can get past your issue, you'll really love the bonding. It's wonderful. Plus, it helps your uterus shrink more quickly. Just know you'll be hungry and very, very thirsty. I hope you like water. I, luckily got a lot of great advice from friends. My biggest tip is to get Lansinoh, and begin putting it on your nipples about 1 month before you do. Just a little goes a long way. You need to put it on after a shower. Do it at least once a day. Once the baby comes, you can put a little on after every feeding. It saves your nipples from bleeding and cracking. Other than that, just relax and enjoy, and your baby will also.

I think that La Leche League has great advice. They have books. Or there are representatives that will help you with anything you might need help with. They answer questions you have. As far as pumps are concerned, I have electric and manual. For both I use Medela, and they are awesome!

Good luck. It is so rewarding!

Wow, you got a lot of advice. I breastfed my daughter (now 10) for 17 mons and breastfeeding my 7mon old. It's so good for your baby and easy for Mom. Good decision!