S.D. asks from Durango, CO on October 29, 2008
Babies & Watching TV?!
I'm a first time mom with a 4mon old. I have people telling me not to let her watch tv. I've heard it can be over stimulating, and I don't want to do that. However, has there been any scientific proven fact that it's bad for babies to watch tv? I think she is just looking at the light, than actually watching the tv. I would love to know what you think.
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V.N. answers from Santa Fe on October 30, 2008
I think it is not a big deal. Really- and I don't really care about studies, I can only go off of my experience. Baby Einstein got my children and me through many car trips and plane trips. I say do what you want and don't stress over it. There are many other things to take that role in the life of a parent!
M.S. answers from Albuquerque on October 30, 2008
I do not know of any study but think it is hogwash. How many mobiles have flashing lights and colors? I think this may be an outgrowth from too much TV for older children. I agree with that part.
D.S. answers from Albuquerque on October 30, 2008
Why would you want a 4-month old to watch tv? Give the baby a mobile to look at or buy one of those play mats so she can lay on the floor and bat at it. There will be many years of you having to fight her about how much TV watching she does so don't start her now! No, she's not watching, but the noise and light can overtimulate her. Good luck.
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M.D. answers from Phoenix on October 30, 2008
The American Medical Association recommends no TV before age 2, and there have been studies linking tv to ADD. Will occasional tv "hurt" your child - probably not. It's when they spend too much time watching when they should be interacting. Studies have also shown that a child watching a real live person telling a story will be able to answer questions about it with accuracy while a child watching the exact same thing on tv will have to watch it numerous times before he/she can answer the same questions with accuracy. Interesting.
Occasional tv when you need a bit of a break is not a big deal, but it should be limited and used infrequently. I agree that babies would rather watch us do laundry and dishes while we chat to them, than watch tv while we get chores done.
I never watched any of the Baby Eistein DVDs I received as gifts - it just didn't seem right to put a 6 month old in front of the tv for my convenience. My daughter is 4 1/2 and reading at a 2nd grade level... she watched almost no tv before 2. My brother's house has a tv on all the time, whether anyone is watching or not. None of his 4 kids are very good readers or students. Of course, this proves nothing definitive, but I'd want to be careful about it.
I guess the real issue is:
Will anyone ever look back and wish they let their kids watch MORE tv? Probably not. But many people may look back and wish they had NOT let their child watch too much tv at a young age.
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M.S. answers from Albuquerque on October 30, 2008
I do not know of any study but think it is hogwash. How many mobiles have flashing lights and colors? I think this may be an outgrowth from too much TV for older children. I agree with that part.
K.B. answers from Phoenix on October 30, 2008
hi S.
my baby is now 8 but when she was little i bought those baby instein videos because of the brilliant colors and classical music, experts said they stimulated the brian. which was good right? then years later studies came out that said kids who watched these developed speach problems or didnt talk untill much later because there were no faces or lips to look at and copy. so as with everything moderation, moderation moderation, she needs stimulation just not tons of it. and she needs it from you and other people because babies learn by copying. good luck!
A.H. answers from Los Angeles on October 30, 2008
I have a 4 month old too and I don't think it's of much use to just sit her there to "learn" something. I also have a 3 year old and I let her watch for 2 hours a day something like Dora or Disney, which is age appropriate and she really does learn from those programs and acts out things in her dramatic play, which I think is excellent. The baby does get drawn towards the light but certainly she can't understand whats going on! I have also heard the ADD/ADHD thing, something about the fast movement of some cartoons. If your talking about just having her there while you get to watch tv I don't think its a big deal, but just continue to pay attention to her and play. Once she gets older I think she should have an idea of these characters on tv because she'll know what people are talking about and even when teachers try to give examples of things from tv. Maybe even that picture of Dora on soup will help her eat better!
D.K. answers from Phoenix on October 30, 2008
I don't feel it hurts your baby. Like you said they are only interested in the colors & movement. I use to turn the sound down & just leave the tv on for her to look at.
J.K. answers from Albuquerque on October 30, 2008
I work in a public school and believe me, it is so obvious which kids watch t.v. and play video games all the time and which dont.
We don't have cable and our son watches movies and that is about it. Limiting his t.v. has really helped now that he is starting school. He has a longer attention span, he is not as hyper as the other boys and I'm sure there are numerous other benefits. T.v. is not bad--however, limiting it absolutey helps.
K.P. answers from Phoenix on October 30, 2008
I don't have the article (I think it was a BabyPartners thing), but recently I read an article about babies (under two yrs of age) that watch TV develop eye strain and their eyes do not develop typically. The article also stated that children who watched a lot of TV were more susceptive to reading delays when they went into school as a result of the poor eye development.
I let my first two watch much more television than my next two. I can say that my other two have better attention and I feel are more creative. They also seek out TV as entertainment less often.
T.H. answers from Phoenix on October 30, 2008
I see no harm in it. As long as you are not sitting your baby in front of the TV all day long, a show here and there is not going to hurt them. Baby Einstiens and the other baby DVD's are great. My daughter has watched TV since birth, and is 2 and is in a 4 year old preschool class, not overweight, and extremely active and social. Hasn't harmed her at all! Just use your common sense when it comes to watching, and watch with your child as much as possible. Tell them what's going on, what that is on the movie, etc
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