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Autism - Fall River,MA

My son is only 4 months old and i dont assume he is going to have autism or anything like that, but with all the things i read, i get nervous. I was just wondering what signs the moms noticed at an early age to make them realize that their children could possible have this disorder....like not reaching milestones, etc??

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Thanx for everyones responses.... im not worried about my son, so far, thank the lord, he is reaching every milestone ahead of time... but with all the news i read and books and internet, and being a new mom and always worrying, i just wanted to know if the mom's of children with autism knew anything ahead of time soi can be aware (i worry about everything)... so thank u all for responding and my heart goes out to all the parents that have to deal with this disorder and many others... god bless

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Hi K.,
I have a 7 year old with Asperger's Syndrome (which is a high functioning form of Autism)..He is incredibly brilliant (reads at a 4th grade level...and loves math and such)... but has little to no social skills. I noticed issues with him when he was about 2 and had only 4 words... he was evaluated with Early Intervention and did that for about a year.. He was not diagnosed with AS until he was in Kindergarten when he was throwing tantrums a lot.... 4 months is a little young to have a worry...some kids "Bloom" late....

--M.

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If you are worried that your 4 month old is not reaching milestone, I would have him evaulted by early intervention. I had 4 out of 5 of my kids in Early intervention. One of my kids is has autism. It was the classic signs, no talking, very anti soical and she does alot of humming as well. She is a triplet as well. She reached all her milestones until she turned 2yrs and she stop talking and then the humming started. Talk to you pedi as well.
Niki mom to 5 beatiful kids ages 8, 4.5, 3, 3,& 3yrs.

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My grandson has autism, he is 5 now. He progressed normally till he ws almost two, and then everything just stopped. The words he had learned stopped, all talking stopped. He is still barely speaking even after all kinds of therapy. You would not know about your son until he is older.

I have a 10 y.o. with downs and if your that worried ask the dr at his next well child visit

Hi K.,
I have a 7 year old with Asperger's Syndrome (which is a high functioning form of Autism)..He is incredibly brilliant (reads at a 4th grade level...and loves math and such)... but has little to no social skills. I noticed issues with him when he was about 2 and had only 4 words... he was evaluated with Early Intervention and did that for about a year.. He was not diagnosed with AS until he was in Kindergarten when he was throwing tantrums a lot.... 4 months is a little young to have a worry...some kids "Bloom" late....

--M.

Hi K.,
I work with austic children. I don't have all the answers but I may have some suggestions. Although Autism isn't diagnosed until after age 2 or 3 there are so signs of developmental delay. By 4 months your little boy should be looking at you and trying to "figure you out." He should also be tracking objects. Try holding a toy in front of him and watching to see if he is following it as you move it side to side. If you do have ANY questions I would ask your doctor he/she should be able to give you some other milestones to be looking for. If your little boy seems to be interacting with the world around him. Autistic children dont have social skills so if the baby seems to be in his own little world I would talk to your doctor. The number one thing I want to tell you personally though is that you are ahead of the game by just questioning it though. I pat you on the back for being aware of autism and asking about the signs. Autistic children thrive when it is diagnosed and intervention starts early. Keep your head up and ASK QUESTIONS if you are unsure. ~S.

Like Kristal said, there is no way right now to tell, so enjoy every moments.
My son has asperger syndrome (it's on the autism spectrum). It's pretty light compare to a classic autism. We did not notice anything wrong until he was 2 years old. I also got to tell you that his dad is also asperger (and he has a very productive life). What is usually the most stiking with autistic kids, it's the lack of eye contact. It's more the social skills that my son has problem with. He is a very intelligent boy. He knew his alphabet , his colors and shapes (in french and english)at 20 months old. The spectrum is very large and some kids are more affected than others.

Really, right now try not to worry too much about that. Trust me, if something is wrong, you will know. Trust your mommy instinct ...

Hi K.-
I work as and Early Intervention Specialist providing therapy for delayed children and have worked with many children on the Autism Spectrum over time. At such an early age, you're just going to want to watch for things like eye contact and interest in other people. Typically around 18 months (plus or minus) a child may lose some abilities, such as not using the couple words that they once had. They don't make good eye contact at all, have delayed language, lack social abilities, etc. I can completely understand how all the new research and the increased awareness is making parents more nervous about Autism in their own children. But rest assured that your son will probably be just fine. If, at any time, you are concerned about him not reaching any sort of milestone, I'd contact his pediatrician to see that they have to say. If they are not concerned but you still seem to be, then contact your local Early Intervention Program and request an evaluation to be done. I haven't looked at your profile to see where you are from, but here in MA it's completely free of charge. Every state has their own version of Early Intervention. Sometimes it's called Birth to Three. If your son is over three years old and you are concerned for his development, you an always contact your local elementary school to do their own evaluation. Good luck! And enjoy your son!

Autism diagnosis usually is not determined until almost 3 years of age. The most obvious signals are delayed speech, echolalia(they just repeat what is said), perseverance of certain objects-will line them up same way every time or spin the object, lack of eye contact with people, walk on tip toes. Hope this helps.
D.

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