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Homework in American Publick Schools

Americans want good schools and education for their kids, but when schools push up for it, they don’t like it. It is not going to happen without hard work. Not going to happen without homework. The problem is that everyone wants to have their children in swimming, baseball, football, music, etc, etc… so they complain there is no time for school work.

Americans are ready to spend hours volunteering at the school, but can’t spend time helping their kids do homework?

American parents are ready to spend $$$ for the school, but not working with their child on a homework? Where is the focus here? What would it teach the kids? Money is more important than learning hard?

What is wrong with this picture? Is it just Coppell TX? It was supposed to be a place with good schools. Elementary was a disappointment. Middle school is not looking very promising, after first 2 weeks.

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Spend some more time researching this topic rather than scolding other parents to make yourself feel superior (and learn how to spell 'public', please).

Homework does not improve grades, learning, test scores, etc. Period.

My 3rd grader (read: EIGHT years old) has over an hour of homework nightly. That's ridiculous. The reason? Because her teachers have to spend more time prepping her for standardized tests than they do actually teaching. It's absolutely inexcusable, and her teachers are doing the best they can with a system that is allowing the government to be FAR more invasive than they should be or need to be. It. PISSES. ME. OFF.

So yes. I don't want my daughter having that much homework. I pay my taxes, her teachers should be allowed to do what my tax dollars should be paying for.

And YOU need to worry about YOUR kids and stop worrying about MINE.

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Do YOU have time for school work? (Sure hope they are teaching spelling.) Do YOU have (or make) time for your child's education? What are you worried about other parents for? Homework has little to do with anything. It's the VALUE people place on education, that matters. Don't like your children's homework? Value their education and create learning at home, that will benefit them. Parental involvement, does not mean relying on the school to completely teach their kids. You're complaining about how they need better homework? (I think!) CREATE better homework! YOU are the parent. YOU dictate their quality of life. Stop relying on the school to do everything for you. Do YOUR job and teach your kids. Step in, if they aren't learning enough.

Based upon state statistics, Coppell does have some of the best schools in the state. However, if you are worried OTHER parents...you won't find a district in the world, that won't disappoint you. If you're worried about homework and the school quality, do SOMETHING about it. Create the educational experiences, that you wish your child to have. The dang government can't do everything, you know. You complain about parental involvement, what are YOU doing?

Hey, MALLORY -
You don't know anything about "most" of us! I HOMESCHOOL and my child gets a complete, well rounded education. How about you get out of here, with your silly assumptions. K?

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I think that homework should be little, if at all. We send our kids to school for 6-7 hours a day. And then we expect them to come home and do MORE work on top of that? It's like when adults have to bring work home from the office. I personally hate bringing work home, and I'm an adult.

If you can't teach my kid in 6-7 hours what he/she needs to know, the there is something sorely wrong with the education system. It's not the teachers--most of the teachers I know are wonderful. Their hands are tied by all the rules and restrictions. They do the best they can.

We homeschool to avoid it all. We do about 4 hours a day of "seatwork" and the rest is living life and learning from experience. That leaves us plenty of time for extra activities plus time to be a kid. I'm not saying homeschool is everyone's answer, but it was our solution to the poor public schools in our area.

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Public
Unless you meant 'ick' because you are disconcerted with Public schools.
Parental influence and priorities are huge when it comes to a child's academic success and interest.

We personally have our kids in extra-curricular activities after school, to provide opportunities for them grow, learn and develop life-long interests. I prefer that they have little to no homework most evenings. Reading is always on the to do list. So is practicing their instrument.

If you look at countries like Korea and Japan where academics is the ONLY focus, and billions of dollars are spent on after school tutors and academic programs, you have an entire generation of people entering their adult lives with high grades in every subject, but they can't swim or ride a bike, or kick a ball. That's an exaggeration, but is quite common.

I appreciate your insight in that many parents volunteer, but then can't spend time helping their kids. Actually, that is not correct. It's been proven that parents who volunteer at school, their kids perform better than those who don't.

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Studies have actually proven that hours of homework don't help students grasp the concept. Kids are in school for 7-8 hours a day, and then they have activities in the evening that round them out as people, and not just students. I feel that homework (aside form reading) is an unnecessary evil.

I just completed my MBA and one of my last classes was part math. One week, we had 11 problems that were all similar. One problem took over 45 minutes to complete. I spent HOURS doing something that I wouldn't be able to do today if someone asked me to. Why? Because it's not something I need for my job or do outside of that class. The same goes for students in school.

Students having hours of homework won't make them smart at all, so I'm confused by your question.

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My parents never helped me with homework. Ever. And I graduated high school in the top 10% of my class with honors. If I didn't understand something, I called someone in my class or waited and asked the teacher the next day. I was also active in the arts, eventually earning my undergraduate degree in music education.
My son does his own homework. My job is to look over it and make sure it's done. If something is wrong, then the teacher should see that. It's called assessment.
I don't think I understand your issue here.

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Who are you talking to, N.? I am an American and I take offense to your generalization of an entire country.

My husband and I have spent many, many hours with our boys and their homework. I have spent many hours volunteering at their schools and yet I still help them with their homework. Both of my boys play sports and STILL I work with them on their homework. We live in Coppell and I have so many friends who do all of this, too.

By the way, it looks like you aren't taking YOUR homeworks seriously. Public is not spelled with a K.

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I think you are mistaking homework and busywork. There is a difference. I have no issue with homework IF it is beneficial.

Most parents I know give quite a bit of attention and time to help their children and their studies. However, it is the responsibility of the child to also participate in the learning process.

School work is first and outside activities are second. Public is how you spell it here in America. You are in a very good school district, so I"m not sure what you are really upset about.

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