I would like some feedback from other moms about how to deal with teens and boyfriends in regard to what types of physical contact is okay when visiting at your home. Our rules are no visitors of the opposite sex are allowed in the children’s bedrooms. With my teen, I try to give privacy when she has friends over (not be in the living room with them all the time and just be respectful of her) but have been uncomfortable by some of the things I have seen. Just wanting feedback from parents of teens on how you personally have dealt with this. I have had ongoing discussions with my teen about how I am not comfortable with some of the things I have seen her and her boyfriend do. She has been on birth control for quite some time.
well If you have already told her that you are uncomfortable with some of the behavior and she continues it maybe you need to have a talk with her and her boyfirend and let them both know what your expectations are while they visit in your home. if the behavior continues then don't allow them to see eachother and tell them they need to take a break. It has to be about respect and trust and if they can't respect your rules and your house then maybe they need a break from one another.
Good luck I have a teenage sister that I help my older sister care for and shes a handful and doesn't seem to understand we are only douing what we think is best for her.
Remeber trust and respect.