Hi Cara, If you want to be there for the reception with your husband, hire an adult babysitter to be at the wedding, when the photos are done, she and the kids leave and go home. You and your husband stay and have fun celebrating. or you can go home after the festivities. Weddings are boring for children, it has nothing to do with interferring with your fun. Some kids can hang and do fine, but it sounds like you want to be an adult for this event. Good for you.
Hire someone to care for the children and be happy. Deb
I would find a sitter for reception then you and your husband can enjoy yourselves. You know its difficult for little one's to sit still. Also since its evening, they will likely go home and sleep. If that's not an option, I would say take 2 cars just in case. If the kids are ok great, they stay. If they get cranky then hubby can take them home.
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